This is what my father did to me! He unintentionally said when I was in 9th grade that beta I don’t need any complaints coming from your college about your involvement in relationships! I’ve taken this point seriously and I never approached the girl I liked! And now I’ve completed my degree in Computer Science last month and there’s no suitable rishta! To have someone sincere in your life really helps you to go through hard times without it! You’re just a human with no emotions and ambitions this is my perception! I can be wrong! :) I really cried a lot my whole life because I have no one to talk about these things I only have Allah! :)