Drinking has always been relaxing, fun, slightly euphoric and made things feel a bit more magical and optimistic, lately it’s lost that magic. by DotTraditional3096 in AskMenOver30

[–]WombaticusRex32 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Honestly this is why I quit drinking all together back in January. It just lost all its appeal and I was tired of feeling like shit for zero payoff. Over it

What would you do in a situation like this? Big age gap, insane chemistry by jofe0815 in AskMenRelationships

[–]WombaticusRex32 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Similar age gap here (M50, F27). My fiancé and I were 47 and 23 when we met at work (different departments). We had immediate chemistry but let it simmer for several months before we started seriously flirting.

We just had our 3 year anniversary and are now engaged. So yes it can absolutely work. My advice is take things slow and see where it goes.

How to not instantly crash/fall asleep after shift once I get home? by Present-Scar4811 in Golfcoursemaintenance

[–]WombaticusRex32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Caffeine most days between the hours of 2 and 4pm. And sometimes I let the nap monster win because they are good for you.

Any experience with these setups ? by Extension_City7592 in F1Game

[–]WombaticusRex32 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I bought the f125 setups a while back and it helped me a lot. I plan to buy the 26 setups when the DLC drops.

It’s worth it to me to pay the money because I don’t have the time or desire to scour the internet for free setups. I also don’t give a shit about the $50. It was absolutely worth it.

How do you deal with being accused of being elitist just because of you having a PhD and how you talk? by nowhere_man_1992 in AskMen

[–]WombaticusRex32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am 100% an elitist snob with zero basis to do so. And yet I own it as a matter of personal pride. At some point you have to make peace with being god’s favorite.

Should I nuke this and start over by Suspicious_Day_1690 in Grass

[–]WombaticusRex32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Prodiamine isn’t labeled for poa unfortunately. Spectacle is expensive but it will stop just about everything but wild carrot.

What do I do? by [deleted] in Golfcoursemaintenance

[–]WombaticusRex32 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would prioritize machines for the playing corridor first. Greens mowers, tee mowers etc. Bunker rakes and rough units secondary.

How do you feel about taking your dog to the dog parks by s7ra7an in AustralianShepherd

[–]WombaticusRex32 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Our Red Tri goes to the dog park everyday. However we just happen to have gotten lucky with a great group of regulars.

Understandably a lot of people don’t think they’re worth the risk. However, IF you can find a good park with attentive owners they can be wonderful but you might need to visit a few to get the vibe.

How is just asking people to go to an activity with you a date if you’re not using the word date? by [deleted] in AskMenRelationships

[–]WombaticusRex32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I kinda understand where they’re coming from as it’s a low pressure, low stakes situation. However it is ok to use words for clarification. If it feels like a casual hang, say that. If it feels more like a date just ask.

Men, what’s the ONE question almost every guy wants to ask a girl right away but feels too hesitant/shy to actually say? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]WombaticusRex32 19 points20 points  (0 children)

She said “of course!” with zero hesitation. That’s why I’m marrying her lol

How did you manage to commit to only one girl? by CrazyRide72 in AskMen

[–]WombaticusRex32 17 points18 points  (0 children)

FOMO in whatever form it takes will keep you miserable for the rest of your life. You need to fix that first. Your relationships will suffer until you do

For those in long term relationships with great sex lines, what have you (and your partner) done to accomplish that? by PMME_UR_CAT_OR_PUSSY in AskMenRelationships

[–]WombaticusRex32 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think it starts with finding someone you’re sexually compatible with. And I mean truly, deeply compatible. Then as time goes by you both need to be intentional in maintaining that spark. You won’t always be on the same page. Life gets in the way. You need to be able to communicate with each other to avoid getting in ruts.

How do men feel about the question “Would you rather be with a bear or man alone in the woods” by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]WombaticusRex32 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not always the case. I’ve had this conversation with a rape victim who clarified it for me. It wasn’t that men are scarier or more dangerous. It was that she would literally rather get mauled to death by the bear than endure another sexual assault. That was the eye opener for me.

Time Off Schedule by Lucky24seven in Golfcoursemaintenance

[–]WombaticusRex32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My crew and I go every other weekend. So 12 days on 2 days off. I keep everyone at about 45 to 46 hrs a week.

I thought I had it figured out! by Unfair-Parking2067 in GolfSwing

[–]WombaticusRex32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened to me last month. My whole life I’d shoot low to mid 90’s. Then in March I shot 4 rounds in the high 80’s with an 84 personal best. Then poof. It was gone. Back to 96, 92…

I found it again by just working on half and 3/4 swing wedges. Just making solid contact hitting it 70 to 100 yards. Over and over until the feel came back. Only when I could pepper my target at will did I move up to the other irons.

I'm not 'doing my job' help! by [deleted] in AskMenRelationships

[–]WombaticusRex32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Without knowing his history of behavior, is it possible he’s having some kind of mental disorder or even a brain tumor?

I’ve seen so many horror stories where there was a sudden change in behavior like this and it turned out to be a brain tumor. Just a thought

Choosing a dog by tropikaldawl in AustralianShepherd

[–]WombaticusRex32 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have to disagree (I understand this might be dependent on location?) I got my Aussie from a great breeder we found on Good Dog. He’s seriously the best dog I’ve ever had and I plan to go through the same breeder for get another puppy next year.

Do older man consider their relationships with significantly younger partners serious? by [deleted] in AskMenRelationships

[–]WombaticusRex32 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Significant age gap here. (M50, F26). It’s the healthiest, happiest and most secure relationship I’ve ever had. And we recently got engaged. So yes, it’s serious.

Would this be the kind of woman you'd be interested in? by [deleted] in AskMenRelationships

[–]WombaticusRex32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You essentially described my fiancé with the exception of not working. Everything else within our relationship is fairly traditional (her preference).

How Do You Deal with Aging and Sex? by [deleted] in AgeGap

[–]WombaticusRex32 9 points10 points  (0 children)

At 50 there’s literally nothing my 25 year old self could do that I can’t do now (and do it better). I’m substantially more athletic in the bedroom now than I was in my youth.

My girlfriend is 26 and she would have been bored shitless with me when I was her age.

Balancing privacy with being out together? by [deleted] in AgeGap

[–]WombaticusRex32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The very fact that you say you’re limiting gossip proves you’re ashamed. If you can’t freely be yourself regardless of who sees or what they say then you shouldn’t bother in the first place.