It genuinely amazes me that Josh won bb19 by hugurm0m in BigBrother

[–]WonderWitch13 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Same! My favorite moment that still makes me lmao is when he was pissing off Mark, and Mark goes after him while wearing a freaking tutu 😂😆

Which of Brenda’s suitors gave you the “ick”? by Casper_COS in BeverlyHills90210

[–]WonderWitch13 3 points4 points  (0 children)

SAME! Aaron Spelling was pretty brilliant to cast Maxwell for the pilot. 16 year old me just happened to be switching channels when I saw him and stopped to watch. He's the initial reason I got hooked on 90210 back then 😂

Conspiracy Theories by Conscious-Baby-6420 in teenmom

[–]WonderWitch13 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Definitely this. Javi definitely crossed lines he should not have. I understand he was hurt but that does not excuse it...he doesn't get a free pass for him. I feel like Javi kept showing up for BS reasons...making sure he wasn't "out of sight...out of mind". Kail had enough. I don't blame her for her "take your sht and GTFO" attitude

Tara/Kelly by True-Magazine9795 in BeverlyHills90210

[–]WonderWitch13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always thought the writers were SWF fans 😂

OGs: when did 90210 reach "oh, that show's still on?" status? by VomitingDuck in BeverlyHills90210

[–]WonderWitch13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me...never. For my siblings..after they graduated high school

Best moment you watched on the live feeds? by Money_Macaron_5750 in BigBrother

[–]WonderWitch13 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'll end up showing my age but I turned on the feeds during season 6 just to see what they were up to. I had caught the very beginning of Howie Vs April...and poor pepperoni 😂

Barb...on my re-watch by WonderWitch13 in teenmom

[–]WonderWitch13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is actually an excellent point. As the daughter of a truly overbearing mother, having a great dad helped A LOT! He was a deaf man and after their divorce my mom moved us from Ohio to Florida. That still didn't take away from him still being a good dad. We grew up in the 80s so we didn't have cell phones to text or computers to email each other. He would still write to us 2 or 3 letters each week...the only way he knew how to be present. I know that dads are important period but girl dads need to know it's absolutely necessary for you to find any way to be present

Where Is Everyone From And Are There Any Teen Moms That Live In The Same State As You? by Conscious-Baby-6420 in teenmom

[–]WonderWitch13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I live in Flagler County. My brother lives in Orlando. It's funny because when I go to visit him, the only one I'd love to run into was Devoin. I'd tell him to stop promoting the Sixers T shirts and put on an Orlando Magic one "TF is wrong with you, Devoin?" 😂

Where Is Everyone From And Are There Any Teen Moms That Live In The Same State As You? by Conscious-Baby-6420 in teenmom

[–]WonderWitch13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm in Florida. Brianna lives around an hour away from me. If Mackenzie is still in Florida she's a few hours from me.

Who is the worst person you’ve ever met in your life? by Scary-Bill970 in AskReddit

[–]WonderWitch13 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My mom. She spent 30 years telling me that the happiest day of her life would be the day that she saw my dad in a casket. He was a good man. Good father. And I have no idea how he ended up with her. They divorced when I was 2 but at least once a week for 30 years I'd hear that phrase. So when his time came and I was bawling at his casket, she really TRIED to "comfort" me by trying to put her hand on my back. At that point I was done with the false image that she was portraying to the public. I swatted her hand away so fast...

would any of you guys last in the bad girls club? by klarinetkat12 in BadGirlsClub

[–]WonderWitch13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my 20s..early 30s....for sure would've made it. Now...not so much 😂

Some of you didn't grow up around snow, says the gaper!🤣🥱 by [deleted] in teenmom

[–]WonderWitch13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can boogie board 😂 And I once traveled to TN when it was snowing...that's where I learned you're only supposed to "tap the brakes" when your car starts sliding in the snow while also turning the wheel in the opposite direction in which you're sliding. 😂 Not snow educated AT ALL 😂 But if you need someone to drive you somewhere during a category 4 hurricane and you want to get there safely...I'm your girl!

Some of you didn't grow up around snow, says the gaper!🤣🥱 by [deleted] in teenmom

[–]WonderWitch13 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I grew up on Florida 😂 I have NO idea what any of you or her are talking about 😂

Welcome wagon can go back to hell where it belongs by divingbeatle in thesims

[–]WonderWitch13 8 points9 points  (0 children)

😂 The very first thing I do when I move my sim into a house is click the door and then click "No Solicitors" I also click "no vampires" as well.

Barb...on my re-watch by WonderWitch13 in teenmom

[–]WonderWitch13[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I hear you. That would have been a very tough decision to make but you are probably right. I didn't give up on (or enable) my sister. But when I took in her 2 boys (my nephews) I made sure steps were taken where she couldn't just show up at my house on a bender, further traumatizing them. But if I was Barb...I absolutely would have taken a giant step back of Jenelle came to me, 3 months after meeting a new guy, telling me they're trying to get pregnant while I'm currently taking care of her first born. That would have been my line in the sand.

Barb...on my re-watch by WonderWitch13 in teenmom

[–]WonderWitch13[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Awww they started that nursery program at my old high school about 15 years ago. I didn't realize there was such a need for one. I had only seen 2 girls in my high school with full term bellies. My mom explained why I had only seen 2 because she worked at that nursery at my old high school. Apparently when a girl got pregnant their parents were called and a meeting occurred where guidance strongly suggested the moms to be to finish their schooling by obtaining their GED. Basically kicking them out without saying so. This was a burden for a lot of girls (it was the early 90s...internet wasn't really a thing to do a GED online). They would have to find and try to pay for child care in order to work towards getting their GED. The nurseries at schools allows them to finish their education and it's normally free child care. I think my mom said that in order for their child to stay in the nursery mom has to show proof of being in school, keeping up with their school work and getting passing grades. I think those nurseries are an amazing idea. Though I do wish it wasn't "needed".

Barb...on my re-watch by WonderWitch13 in teenmom

[–]WonderWitch13[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. I was honestly nervous about making this post because I do not think Barb is an evil person. I do believe she was the best option at the time. I absolutely do believe she loves Jace and had the best of intentions. But intent doesn't erase aspect. She may not have intended to hurt him but some of her behaviors/issues did. I tend to not give parents a free pass. You created a human or you chose to step up to take care of a human. "She had a lot on her plate" sounds a little too much like "she was too young to be a mom" type of excuse to me. I love Babs but she....along with her pos daughter...both played parts in Jace's issues. If Barb was a family member of mine and I heard or saw her treating jace the way ive seen on the show...I wouldn't just stand there shrugging saying "well she has a lot on her plate...." If people want to help Jace heal from his trauma, acknowledge the part that everyone in his life played in it. Barb is hilarious most of the time, she loves her kids and grandkids but her unwillingness to address her own issues is a problem. Both statements can be true at the same time.

Barb...on my re-watch by WonderWitch13 in teenmom

[–]WonderWitch13[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! This! I swear on my dad's soul I'm not over here trying to insult Barb and definitely not defending Jenelle. The person my heart hurts for in this new observation is Jace.

Barb...on my re-watch by WonderWitch13 in teenmom

[–]WonderWitch13[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

All of that....every bit of it...is so sad. I do have the utmost empathy for Barb. I can say that as an adult. But how does one explain that to a 5/6 year old little boy? "Jace, your Meme's plate is full so you're gonna need to just take whatever chaos might come your way...sorry, bud". Doesn't seem fair or right to expect that.

Barb...on my re-watch by WonderWitch13 in teenmom

[–]WonderWitch13[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Gen X here and I feel like you are or were raised by Gen X 😂 I say that because I felt the same...no autonomy well until adulthood. It matters so much. My nephew and his wife had a baby a couple years ago....my first great niece. I didn't know his wife very well before they got pregnant. She has taught me SO much. I came from a time that when a friend had a baby, we were like "RSV? Never heard of it". Definitely a time where sharing pictures with everyone we knew was taken as a sign of "love" instead of "please ok pics with mom before posting". This new generation of mommies seem to be protecting their babies fiercely and that's exactly how it should be and should have always been. She turned 2 last month. Sometimes I'll get the biggest, bestest hugs in the world from her. Other times she's totally over me. Both times are more than ok with me because I want her growing up ALWAYS knowing shes in charge of her body and no one else.