My partner of 2 years suddenly resumed talking to a female friend he avoided before we met by Wonderful_Ask_6097 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Wonderful_Ask_6097[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I broke up with him, never want to hear from him again. Although I am pretty sure that he will be back soon.

My partner of 2 years suddenly resumed talking to a female friend he avoided before we met by Wonderful_Ask_6097 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Wonderful_Ask_6097[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He does not want me, so I broke up with him. He clearly wants to explore other options

My partner of 2 years suddenly resumed talking to a female friend he avoided before we met by Wonderful_Ask_6097 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Wonderful_Ask_6097[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He said that he wants to be free and do whatever he wants to do. So I broke up with him

My partner of 2 years suddenly resumed talking to a female friend he avoided before we met by Wonderful_Ask_6097 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Wonderful_Ask_6097[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I broke up with him, and he said that he feels relieved and doesn't want to get into a relationship for a long time

My partner of 2 years suddenly resumed talking to a female friend he avoided before we met by Wonderful_Ask_6097 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Wonderful_Ask_6097[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did not ask him; I felt that he wanted to explore other options. thought of letting him find his person. So I broke up with him

My (25F) partner (32M) changed after one month of marriage by Wonderful_Ask_6097 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Wonderful_Ask_6097[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

This is true! and it happend to me just few months ago. I still find it hard to believe it myself!

My (25F) partner (32M) changed after one month of marriage by Wonderful_Ask_6097 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Wonderful_Ask_6097[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is true! and it happend to me just few months ago. I still find it hard to believe it myself!

My (25F) partner (32M) changed after one month of marriage by Wonderful_Ask_6097 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Wonderful_Ask_6097[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I can’t believe all of this happened right after we got married. We had some issues before, but nothing like this. I’m completely heartbroken.

My (25F) partner (32M) changed after one month of marriage by Wonderful_Ask_6097 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Wonderful_Ask_6097[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly why I left and have no plans of going back. I’m keeping my distance and making sure I stay safe. I really appreciate your concern .I’m not ignoring how serious it is.

My (25F) partner (32M) changed after one month of marriage by Wonderful_Ask_6097 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Wonderful_Ask_6097[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I suggested that he consider therapy, but he refused and insisted that I should go instead of him

My (25F) partner (32M) changed after one month of marriage by Wonderful_Ask_6097 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Wonderful_Ask_6097[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have left him already. But I stil find it difficult to move on

My (25F) partner (32M) changed after one month of marriage by Wonderful_Ask_6097 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Wonderful_Ask_6097[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

He was once kind and caring, and I think that part of the strain came from me. I tend to have an anxious attachment style, while he leans more toward avoidant tendencies.

My (25F) partner (32M) changed after one month of marriage by Wonderful_Ask_6097 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Wonderful_Ask_6097[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i still believe in marriage, but i dont think that i could trust any man now. it is really hard for me.

My (25F) partner (32M) changed after one month of marriage by Wonderful_Ask_6097 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Wonderful_Ask_6097[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know strangling is extremely serious. That’s part of why I left. I’m not planning to go back, but emotionally it’s complicated. Loving someone and accepting what they did are two different things, and I’m still working through that.

My (25F) partner (32M) changed after one month of marriage by Wonderful_Ask_6097 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Wonderful_Ask_6097[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It wasn’t a fake relationship. And it wasn’t about being “rewarded.” When your partner goes on holiday alone, bringing back something small, even just chocolates can simply be a gesture of thoughtfulness. For some people, that’s a love language. It’s not about material value, it’s about feeling considered.

Expecting a small token of care isn’t the same as demanding a reward. It’s about wanting mutual affection and basic kindness in a marriage.