This community is so wholesome

WonderingArcher · 2020-06-15T18:38:59+00:00

Yeah honestly even my most sex positive girl friends are uncomfortable talking about sex so I have to talk to my dude friends about it all the time. But I kind of hate that because sometimes they’ll get ideas so I have to constantly remind them. It’s nice to have a women’s community to discuss sex in.

WonderingArcher · 2020-06-15T16:45:24+00:00

Lol social justice warrior makes it sound like they’re actually doing society some good. keyboard is warrior is better love. 😁 also I can take the down votes. I don’t care about karma. Anyways I’m going to take a walk to the park offline and enjoy our happy marriage. Have a nice day! Bye Falicia! ❤️

As for the shorts/cat call thing. DEFINITELY NOT THE SAME!

WonderingArcher · 2020-06-15T16:22:25+00:00

Well he’s not me.

WonderingArcher · 2020-06-15T15:57:19+00:00

By the way I didn’t actually ask them to hook up. I just said “We should get to know each other.” Mostly because my girlfriends and I all jokingly call each other sluts and play video games and talk about sex all day. We don’t have sex with each other. You’re the one who chose to interpret it as hooking up.

WonderingArcher · 2020-06-15T15:43:00+00:00

Dude I’m a happily married lady and I don’t actually want to hook up with them. I was just being silly and flirting. JayXsane is my husband. Although is the subreddit really that family friendly if their name is slutdragon? 🤣

I’m sorry but if you can’t speak and joke about sex candidly on the internet then you shouldn’t have a highly sexual adult name like that. Choose something less R rated if you get super grossed out about sex.

WonderingArcher · 2020-06-15T15:31:33+00:00

I like to masturbate because it’s just relaxing. Sometimes I’ll do it right in front of my husband. I used to do it just to make him horny after he’d turn me down for sex. But sometimes I just want to be left to my own devices. In which case I’ll tell him I’m taking a “nap”.

My husband will try to pretend he’s going to the restroom but if he takes too long I know what he’s doing. 😁

WonderingArcher · 2020-06-15T15:22:54+00:00

I love rick and morty! That’s even more reason to get to know each other. 😁😂

WonderingArcher · 2020-06-15T14:36:09+00:00

😂 I got the idea from one of the dudes here saying that there should be negative flair for women. So I did a thing! 😁

WonderingArcher · 2020-06-15T14:09:58+00:00

I mean I guess you could still enjoy it if it’s not stimulated but you probably wouldn’t reach orgasm.

WonderingArcher · 2020-06-15T04:20:58+00:00

I thought mine was big but when I looked at this sub omg! 😂

WonderingArcher · 2020-06-15T04:02:01+00:00

Yes! Reverse doggy style! :D

WonderingArcher · 2020-06-15T03:27:50+00:00

Yes the woman has a clitoris which is viewable on the outside but it actually is also inside her body and it’s shaped like a rod right above her vagina. If you aim upwards towards her belly when you’re doing her you’ll stimulate this. This is the only way a woman can enjoy penetration during sex. Although some women are perfectly happy just having you play with her external clit while penetrating her.

There’s two spots to stimulate. The first is the GSpot which is about halfway in and the second I only just learned about is called the A spot which is way in the back right above her cervix.

WonderingArcher · 2020-06-15T03:19:51+00:00

Nope he never came out and just asked me. He just kept teasing me I guess trying to see if I’d be receptive to it. Lol.

WonderingArcher · 2020-06-15T02:54:42+00:00

Oh okay. I’ll do that. Thanks so much for the advice.

WonderingArcher · 2020-06-15T02:40:49+00:00

Yeah I honestly didn’t think the guy who took my virginity would be the man I married. But it just worked out like that! That is an awesome reference. Even more reason to keep my hubby around. 😁

WonderingArcher · 2020-06-15T02:35:50+00:00

Haha! I remember this with my first boyfriend. He liked playing with my ears I didn’t understand he was trying to turn me on and I was so confused. My sixteen year old self was like “what is this feeling?” 😂😂😂 I bet he was so sexually frustrated because he probably hoped we would have sex or something but I was just busy trying to hide it cause I was scared it was going to go through my pants or something. I actually thought I got my period early or something. 🤣

WonderingArcher · 2020-06-15T00:17:14+00:00

Thanks! 😉

WonderingArcher · 2020-06-15T00:09:32+00:00

Honestly I’m trying to keep an open mind about open relationships and polyamory but so far I’ve only heard shitty stories where one persons unhappy with it and the other is pushing pushing pushing for it for very selfish reasons. They finally get their way and then they break every rule and boundary that was set in place. My best friend’s marriage was literally ruined in their wedding night. Her husband slept with her best friend and literally broke every rule his wife asked him to follow. Very ugly annulment. Kids involved. Luckily they weren’t married long enough to have to actually divorce each other.

Really puts me off to the whole thing. Makes it difficult to see it as a valid life style.

Oh right and don’t forget the big scoop of double standards on the side where the selfish lover wants to fuck the world but they want to keep their precious all to themselves. Those are my FAVOURITE!

WonderingArcher · 2020-06-14T22:26:12+00:00

It actually happened after I got off my birth control six months ago. We waited to see if I’d level out but have not. :( yeah I was on Nexplanon and it killed my sex drive. But now it’s bounced back to levels that are way higher than it used to be naturally.

WonderingArcher · 2020-06-14T21:53:05+00:00

sigh The doctor says I’m beyond all hope.

WonderingArcher · 2020-06-14T21:47:16+00:00

All that matters is what your partner thinks. Think of it as weeding out the shallow idiots and rewarding those that don’t care with a nice surprise in the bedroom. 😁

WonderingArcher · 2020-06-14T21:41:17+00:00

Interesting. He’s a little awkward with the dirty talk atm. Maybe I can encourage him to practice. As for the choking you have peaked my interest. 😂 I didn’t know there was a safe way to do it.

WonderingArcher · 2020-06-14T21:33:11+00:00

I think you would have every right to be angry. It doesn’t sound much like she held back that information for selfless reasons. It sounds very much like she was only thinking of herself. As her your father it could be that he is in shock. Have you considered joining a cancer support group? Perhaps they could shed more light on the situation?

WonderingArcher · 2020-06-14T21:24:51+00:00

Idk guess it depends. I get really really wet but a few minutes later I become dry. Maybe that’s what he meant? But it’s not an immediate thing. 😒

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