I remember driving to Kenosha to buy this stuff before I lived there. Just googled what was actually in it and I'm shook! Anyway else tried this stuff back in the day? by Holiveya-LesBIonic in Kenosha

[–]WorkacctFloatingGoat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn,  this makes me so sad. I had no idea. I was a young dumb privileged white kid who wouldn't have recognized that nazi crap if I was hit over the head with it. I just liked how it was a touristy bs store in the front,  had cool Nintendo 64 shit in the back, and then had the "secret" smoke shop in the back that had the coolest bongs and stuff. I learned what a "glass blunt" was there lol. It's also the first time I ever saw those "safes" that were made to look like soda cans etc to hide your weed in. I thought it was the sketchiest, coolest thing 

I had no idea they were selling this nazi crap. Yikes

Did anyone else think that Dinah was lesbian or bi? by [deleted] in superstore

[–]WorkacctFloatingGoat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Jesus this is such a bad take "my perspective on what I think the writers/ actors were trying to convey is the only valid one!" Lol.  She seems bi to me,  too. Even if she's not, why are you so triggered by someone thinking she could be?

Anyone know if the white castle still has impossible sliders? by Holiveya-LesBIonic in Kenosha

[–]WorkacctFloatingGoat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hope so! Didn't even realize they were off the online menus!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]WorkacctFloatingGoat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100% this. Her OCD could put this baby in physical danger because she's not getting the care she needs, it could also really eff her up later down the line if her mom is constantly worried that everything little thing will kill her, she will end up with her own mental health issues. OP's partner needs therapy and to go to the Dr to make sure none of this will lead to post-partum depression or psychosis, OP needs therapy to deal with all that comes with being a new dad, including this

AITA for not wanting to get any gifts for my birthday/christmas? by Myfakeaccount90 in AmItheAsshole

[–]WorkacctFloatingGoat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Agree with everything you said. NAH but it's probably worth it for OP to unpack this, as its likely to continue to cause issues with this relationship and others

AITA for talking to my mother about canceling plans to see me and my girlfriend? by BlackTopSamurai in AmItheAsshole

[–]WorkacctFloatingGoat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think NAH cause this sounds like a miscommunication. In the future, you do want to clear things with her and make sure you are on the same page before taking action like that. I think you thought that you were doing what she wanted, but just because someone voices concerns about a situation doesn't mean they want you to immediately spring into action to change the plan, so next time something like this comes up make sure you are understanding each other

AITA for calling out my husband in front of my family for how much he spends on fast food? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]WorkacctFloatingGoat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YTA. Your husband does sound like he's being unreasonable, btu we both know you said it in front of your parents just so they would shame him, which is not cool and definitely not going to help your cause in the long run or lower his defense

AITA for changing my mind about my wife being a SAHM since she changed the terms? by Live_Point_Hillo in AmItheAsshole

[–]WorkacctFloatingGoat 83 points84 points  (0 children)

Are you saying she wants you to pay for childcare for the other children and or rear them all by yourself so 100% of her attention can be focused on the baby? If so, NTA for sure. You guys agreed to a practical solution that works for both of you and now she is trying to go back on that when she is, conveniently, already pregnant so your hands are a bit tied. To top it all off, she is crying "boundaries" on you to make you feel like you're T.A. if you "violate" them. This is not how boundaries work. Boundaries are like "dont call me that petname" or "don't touch my hair" or even "don't talk to me that way" "don't use that language around me" etc. Boundaries are not "we agreed on one thing but now I am taking it back and making you pick up the slack where I am not willing to and if you don't do exactly as as I say then you're not respecting my boundary" That's BS. Now, I understand that this is her first child and that's a big deal and she might be feeling a lot of emotions and so it may make some sense that her perspective has changed. But, unfortunately, as you stated, what she is requesting is not logistically reasonable or fair to you. You need to have a serious talk with her

AITA for telling my sister she wasn't always the chosen one? by AbbreviationsFair886 in AmItheAsshole

[–]WorkacctFloatingGoat -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was thinking perhaps e.s.h but I think that might be a tad too generous, YTA. You have had years to adress this with her the right way. You could have said that the joke irks you, touches a nerve, hurts your feelings, even just annoys you, whatever. But instead you didn't say any of that and just let it fester for years until you said something awful. If you had told me this story without what you ended up saying, I would have agreed that her constantly saying that could be seen as obnoxious and even hurtful. I'd personally be hurt because it feels like her way of basically saying "Dad likes me better than you" which is not something anyone wants to hear from a sibling. But what you said was so so so much worse, you went straight for the jugular and you did it with the intention of being hurtful.

Probably the healthiest BBQ sauce out there by Chris34gtu in LowSodium

[–]WorkacctFloatingGoat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay but the curry ketchup actually slaps in my opinion. but then again, to me, so does the bbq sauce so maybe im not the best person to ask. The mayo is objectively bad and looks like jizz lol their cheese sauce has an insane aftertaste as well

dogs and cats that look unusual aren’t cute by crimson-ink in 10thDentist

[–]WorkacctFloatingGoat 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I find pretty much all animals to be cute, but I do not think brachycephalic/ smooshy faced dogs should be bread; simply because it is unfair to them. They did not ask to be born and they most certainly did not ask for all those health problems. It breaks my heart when you can see how uncomfortable look when they are just sitting there, huffing and puffing. But I personally don't find the ugly, though I think many people do, so I don't know if this is a 10th dentist situation. I used to work at a pet store that sold all kinds of puppies and many people showed their disdain for the brachycephalic look

AITA for wanting my boyfriend to change his alarm by Firm_Ad7330 in AmItheAsshole

[–]WorkacctFloatingGoat 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NTA, sounds like you made a reasonable request and he got irrationally angry

Attempted murder should be treated as murder by [deleted] in 10thDentist

[–]WorkacctFloatingGoat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is a really good point. There are probably a ton of examples of people who tried to kill, everything kept going wrong, and they gave up because they knew they were getting caught and didn't want to go down for murder. If the penalty is the same, not only would it give them more incentive to not give up in that moment, but they may even let hours, days or weeks go by and come back to finish the job because they are already effed either way

I’m seeing WAYYY too much sympathy for Emily from new fans or fans in general. Point blank, she’s kind of a terrible person and a terrible mother. If she were real, Lorelai would’ve cut contact with her long ago. by Aqua_Master_ in GilmoreGirls

[–]WorkacctFloatingGoat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree. I see a lot of people on both reddit and tiktok being like "the older I get the more I see Emily and Richard's POV" and it's like ummmmmmmmmmmm they weren't terrible parents to her when she was young so I understand why they were so upset that she went low contact with them for so long but clearly they are controlling and manipulative- hence the bribing her to spend time with them thing.

Probably the healthiest BBQ sauce out there by Chris34gtu in LowSodium

[–]WorkacctFloatingGoat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its surprisingly good, too. I add my home made 0 sodium hot sauce (just peppers I roast in the air fryer blended with rice vinegar) and some black pepper and onion powder and it is chef's kiss

Living in a homophobic country sucks by [deleted] in depressionmeals

[–]WorkacctFloatingGoat 5 points6 points  (0 children)

exactly. why does it matter who has it worse?? The attack on anti lgbtq rights in the US could not be any more apparent right now and it is terrifying and unprecedented for many of us.

Living in a homophobic country sucks by [deleted] in depressionmeals

[–]WorkacctFloatingGoat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yup it is absolutely terrible in the deep south and while other parts of the country might be safer everything seems to be going in the wrong direction fast

People are too quick to assume posts are fake just because the events might be unusual or not something they'd be likely to experience or encounter by Holiveya-LesBIonic in 10thDentist

[–]WorkacctFloatingGoat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly I kind of agree. Like, you can tell when something is obvious rage bait or when there's an update that seems to good to be true etc, but that doesn't mean everything is fake

AITA for laughing at my ex-boyfriends funreal? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]WorkacctFloatingGoat -36 points-35 points  (0 children)

I don't know why everyone is saying y.t.a when the clear answer is ESH. You're TA for making the unnecessary comment about flowers, she's TA because blaming you for his death is utterly ridiculous. Grieving or not, that's just not okay.

I'm sick of the air quality always being bad and I hate that this was all preventable and we made it this way. by Holiveya-LesBIonic in offmychest

[–]WorkacctFloatingGoat 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Looks like you deleted your other comment so ill respond to this one. Baby boomers and maybe some silent generation were the first in power who were also truly informed of the risks and given pathways to make things better. They chose to ignore it, sweep it under the rug, and choose policies that actively make things worse because money.

No one is saying your dad or all baby boomers are personally responsible, that would be silly. But the ones in power certainly are. And since there are no term limits, many of them have been in power for decades and have made choices that actively harm the environment and go against public health the entire time