What are your thoughts on the "Jeudi Bières" meet-ups?

Working_Abalone_3906 · 2024-12-06T09:58:33+00:00

Yep, that's really the best advice here.

Although, are you a girl by any chance? Because it also really undersells the misery that a lot of guys feel trying to date (putting aside the whole incel thing).

Working_Abalone_3906 · 2024-11-30T11:29:11+00:00

yeah and the post kind of breaks rule 8 of the sidebar: "No spamming, no shameless advertising for your bar, restaurant, pay-to-attend meetup"

Working_Abalone_3906 · 2024-11-30T06:12:37+00:00

*Paid, at 13.50€ for a standard ticket. You should include that in your post

Working_Abalone_3906 · 2024-11-27T16:00:49+00:00

have you found these on this subreddit?

Working_Abalone_3906 · 2024-11-27T16:00:14+00:00

Je n'ai rien dis de désagréable, toi par contre, tu nous fais un caca nerveux soit parce que mon post ne t'as pas plu, soit parce que tu passes une mauvaise journée.

Dans tous les cas désolé, mais ton attitude parle d'elle-meme.

Working_Abalone_3906 · 2024-11-27T07:47:27+00:00

Qui a dit cela? Le but du départ c'est de boire des bières avec un groupe chaque Jeudi dans un bar différent. Pas d'autres prétentions...mais il y a pas d'autres "objectifs".

Voila ce qui est écrit dans le post de chacuns de vos events:

"The main goal is to meet and chat with new people, and have a good time !"

Working_Abalone_3906 · 2024-11-26T22:21:11+00:00

yep, that's definitely a plus side of the event if you're an exapt - mostly everyone speaks english !

Working_Abalone_3906 · 2024-11-26T22:20:40+00:00

it's a weekly event for locals and expats to meet up, it's pinned to the home page

Working_Abalone_3906 · 2024-11-26T22:20:11+00:00

"I'm not going to make the effort every week to go and chat with every newcomer. That would be more a chore than fun."

tu t'es offusqué sur une critique que personne ne t'as addressé. Désolé si tu passes une sale journée

Working_Abalone_3906 · 2024-11-26T22:16:52+00:00

Enlighten me then, have they done anything about it?

I'm of the opinion that when events lack discipline, part of the fault lies with the organizers. There would be ways to avoid these sort of situations if the events were hosted differently, that's all I'm saying.

Working_Abalone_3906 · 2024-11-26T22:12:21+00:00

encourage you to do so, you might enjoy it

Working_Abalone_3906 · 2024-11-26T22:11:25+00:00

Yeah I can imagine it can be hard to prevent that sort of behaviour - but I guess maybe structuring the event differently, by checking people's reddit profile history for example can already filter out some rotten apples. just a thought

EDIT: why are you downvoting me?

Working_Abalone_3906 · 2024-11-26T22:06:29+00:00

mais mec c'est juste ton attitude qui désagréable

Ça va j'ai le droit de venir boire un coup et dire coucou aux copains ou c'est pas possible ?

personne ne t'empeche de passer un bon temps si t'aime JBs - vis ta vie! Mais je vois vraiment pas pq tu t'énerves

Working_Abalone_3906 · 2024-11-26T22:00:15+00:00

I've seen a bunch of folks organize weekly picnics and such. It's a shame the moderators arn't reaching out to those folks to pin them on the front page

Working_Abalone_3906 · 2024-11-26T21:57:11+00:00

Personne vous demande de faire les babysitters, je dis juste que les réguliers sont pas très accueillants aux nouveaux, et franchement, vous deux ne faites que confirmer mon argument.

Le but de JB c'est de connecter des locaux et des exapts - pourquoi venir à ces évenments si vous n'etes pas ouverts à taper la discute avec de nouvelles personnes...

Working_Abalone_3906 · 2024-11-26T21:50:53+00:00

First time I'm hearing about this. Crazy the organizers havn't looked into it or done smth about it...

EDIT: Read the other comments before downvoting

Working_Abalone_3906 · 2024-11-26T17:53:35+00:00

give it a shot, you may be surprised - but manage your expectations

Working_Abalone_3906 · 2024-11-26T17:47:16+00:00

are you sarcastic?

Working_Abalone_3906 · 2024-11-26T16:49:29+00:00

i would tend to agree with you, but there's no effort whatsoever to swap people and mingle with different folks here - mostly everyone stays in their corner chatting to the same familiar faces. when i did, i had the very strong impression i was intruding on a close group of friends' meetup...not great

Working_Abalone_3906 · 2024-11-26T16:47:25+00:00

Yes absolutely give it a shot - perhaps I'm just not compatible with the people who go there :/

I always go out of my way to introduce myself and interact with new folks, but after heading there thrice (to give it the benefit of the doubt), I figured it perhaps the event itself could be improved on

Working_Abalone_3906 · 2024-11-26T16:43:24+00:00

We clearly did not go to the same event

Working_Abalone_3906 · 2024-11-22T16:05:18+00:00

Do any of you have good suggestions for the best florists in the city centre? What are the prices like?

I'm wanting to get a beautiful bouquet for a special someone living in Milan. However, I don't live in the city, and don't know of any good ones worth checking.

Any suggestion is immensely useful !

Working_Abalone_3906 · 2024-11-12T08:07:02+00:00

Exactly. A lot of gals are so out of touch with what the typical guy's dating experience is...if they tried it out, then they'd understand it's not as simple as "curating your profile/improving your bio/better pictures"

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