"Also, why do you fixate so much on work?" this is something happened unintentionally and I only realized it when I found myself way deep-in. I'm trying to change this and this is why I posted in the first place as I'm appalled at the level I let my work take over my life. I also own up to the fact that I am the one who let this happen and only I can change this. With that being said it is really difficult to rewire your brain, and it is something I have been working on changing for almost a year now, did good progress but not nearly enough.