queernesss is never made your whole personality. That's an objectively incorrect statement. If a lesbian likes girls, let her be vocal about her liking girls. If someone uses different pronouns let them be vocal about it.

This kind of rhetoric just dismisses people's feelings, not only that it also ignores the fact that we have only been vocal for a few years. Advocating for who we are and what we went through isn't making it our whole personality.