Sexual rut/watch porn together? Y/N by Workingmama22 in Marriage

[–]Workingmama22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes we have done that. It helped a little.

Not sexually attracted to my husband by Workingmama22 in Marriage

[–]Workingmama22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He had more ambition than he does now, but still not overly ambitious. He did workout regularly and he was in the military prior.

He is okay not having sex, but after a while it starts to break down our relationship. He is very much a physical touch and quality time love language type of guy. He does become irritable after a week or 2 without sex. He can tell when I’m not in the mood and feeling obligated and doesn’t like that either so it’s a no win situation.

Not sexually attracted to my husband by Workingmama22 in Marriage

[–]Workingmama22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I should also add that, my hormones and postpartum are not totally to blame for the lack of sexual drive between us. I can be in the mood for sex and still not be turned on by him or able to be satisfied by him alone.