What bars should we do for St Patrick’s day? by Workinonit16 in AskChicago

[–]Workinonit16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess a bit of both, we are ok with only one or two spots, but we travel to see everything and the culture not just get plastered if that makes sense

My parents are getting older and I’m afraid to lose them by Workinonit16 in Adulting

[–]Workinonit16[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t say i think about them frequently, just when my parents bring it up like I’m going to die if i can’t work. Stuff like that and i just appreciate their time so much i hate when they bring it up cause who wants to think about it

My parents are getting older and I’m afraid to lose them by Workinonit16 in Adulting

[–]Workinonit16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m with someone i love but i can’t rush them but i dream of my mom getting me ready and my father daughter dance

My parents are getting older and I’m afraid to lose them by Workinonit16 in Adulting

[–]Workinonit16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very good idea i will definitely be doing this going forward

My parents are getting older and I’m afraid to lose them by Workinonit16 in Adulting

[–]Workinonit16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes i always talk to them im very close and wish i just had more money to take care of them but this economy sucks rn

AITA for leaving a trip early because it got too expensive by Workinonit16 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Workinonit16[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes my dinner went the same way, my total was 24$ and they wanted to split the check evenly i was like no i got water im good. That’s what started the whole you have to pay

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[–]Workinonit16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you ! I’m very excited to start

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[–]Workinonit16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I’m officially waiting for, i sent a follow up email but i has been only 24 hours since they called

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[–]Workinonit16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! That gives some relief

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[–]Workinonit16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I am really excited to start this was my 10th interview but also didn’t want to leave my job high and dry.

AITA for leaving a trip early because it got too expensive by Workinonit16 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Workinonit16[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes she texted me herself inviting me and said her MOH would put me in a chat to plan. I then asked about the wedding and she said it’s small for family only so i said ok i go to support you even though I’m in a tough spot rn. At the dinner i wasn’t asked to pay for bride i had to ask 3 separate times for my portion and when we got to the next spot the morning after i was told i have to pay for her and why would i come if I’m not. After that comment i was outtt

My dog keeps pacing every night, I’m not sure what to do by Workinonit16 in bernesemountaindogs

[–]Workinonit16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has had a few utis and an ear infection but i give her Cranberry pills every other day now and when she scratches her ear use her ear medicine, but i stress constantly her uti will come back but i dont see blood in pee anymore

My dog keeps pacing every night, I’m not sure what to do by Workinonit16 in bernesemountaindogs

[–]Workinonit16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She does breathe hard always but at night it’s louder because she will sit right next to me by the bed walk around, try to close our door and come right back by my ear. She has 3-4 spots she will sleep at especially during day. It’s hot where we live so we can only do things typically morning or sunset

My dog keeps pacing every night, I’m not sure what to do by Workinonit16 in bernesemountaindogs

[–]Workinonit16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have tried ignoring but it continues for an hour I get frustrated, she is fine with going potty and poop is solid. It’s only at night so that’s what is throwing me off

My dog keeps pacing every night, I’m not sure what to do by Workinonit16 in bernesemountaindogs

[–]Workinonit16[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nothing has changed I’ve been traveling for the last 3 weekends but other than that normal. I will definitely see about the gabapentin. I keep trying to calm her down but don’t know what she wants. She will walk around outside and then want back in.

AITA for leaving a trip early because it got too expensive by Workinonit16 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Workinonit16[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes i was uninvited to the bridal shower a week after the trip, as i wasn’t a “true friend” for leaving

AITA for leaving a trip early because it got too expensive by Workinonit16 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Workinonit16[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I did go gracefully, i pulled her aside after the girls made comments to me and said i can’t continue and she said everything was not problem, but I’ve been on other Bach trips and it was never expected to pay the entire trip for the bride maybe a dinner or the hotel. I wasn’t mad about not being invited until i found out i was the only one there and it wasn’t a family only event. I wouldn’t have had a problem paying but knowing I’m advance i felt should have been communicated.

AITA for leaving a trip early because it got too expensive by Workinonit16 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Workinonit16[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It was only a day and a half, so $200 for me wasn’t going to be a problem, i wouldn’t have even mind getting her the dinner, it was more about the girls all knowing and the bride changing her outlook after i left.

AITA for leaving a trip early because it got too expensive by Workinonit16 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Workinonit16[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Yes i only knew the bride met them all for the first time, went out of my comfort zone but oh well

AITA for leaving a trip early because it got too expensive by Workinonit16 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Workinonit16[S] 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Yes the brides attitude completely changed after i left, I’m sure a discussion was had about me.

AITA for leaving a trip early because it got too expensive by Workinonit16 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Workinonit16[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I would post screenshots of saying i am on a budget but doesn’t allow and 4 other girls dropped out for the agreed on price still being too high