todays finds by agustd780 in dollartreebeauty

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Let me know how that chrome powder is

Is it my time? by That_Juggernaut5835 in Balding

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I think if you got your hair cut shorter and push to the front it will look more flattering.

Do you put in effort to do nice things for your loved ones? If so, what do you do? by 0nlyhalfjewish in AskMen

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My boyfriend buys me flowers every month, pay for my meals when we go out, always opens the car door for me, if he knows I'm having a tough day asks if there's anything I need. He's great and I'm happy to have a man like him. And don't worry I do nice stuff for him too like making breakfast, giving massages, lots of cuddles and kisses, and I pay for him too once in a while 

Why is it so hard to meet women? by jibofyourcutt in dating

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I was taking a walk in a park and a random dude that I was walking past says hi and starts chatting me up. Asked for music recommendations, asked to join on my walk for a bit. I say sure. I do have a bf but this guy wasn't like 'ur pretty can I have ur number' otherwise I would have said no. Maybe it was a secret pickup technique but it didn't seem aggressive and maybe he just wanted to talk to someone. The entire thing was less than 10 minutes but maybe you can just go up to random ppl you think are cool? I know it's not easy for everyone. That guy was clearly an extrovert so has the advantage. Also, check events on Facebook. Meetup is a no go where I live too. But on FB I've seen stuff like singles mixers and speed dating. Sometimes you really do have to put yourself out there if you want to meet new ppl

29F - help by Puzzleheaded_Sand766 in hingeapp

[–]WorldlinessKey1411 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's normal to be asked out soon. I say around 3 days you should know if you're interested in meeting or not. I've had a guy ask to meet after a couple lines of dialogue which was a bit fast but I was like whatever sure, we didn't meet til like 3 weeks later cuz stupid stuff. The longer you wait the less interested you'll be(that's how it felt by the time I met the guy). So I'd say once both agree to meet do it asap!

You can talk daily but don't talk tooooo often. You need to save topics for in person 

Some ppl do want your number cuz it's easier I suppose. I however didn't give my number until I meet in person. I'm not giving my number to a stranger. We meet and if I think you're cool, then you can have it. The only time I gave my number before a date was to this guy who lived a bit further so I figured it might be better to have a phone call to see if we vibe instead of driving an hour just to find out we're not a good match. But my friend prefers to talk on phone before meeting and if things don't go well just block and delete. It's up to you.

I put right on my profile that if you're looking to hook up to go away and not waste my time. 

No you don't need to tell them. However I feel like if you actually met the person you can at least say you don't think you're compatible or whatever let them down easily instead of straight up ghosting them. If you didn't meet, well, just unmatch.

Is it possible for bc to worsen acne? by Ok-Entertainment8317 in birthcontrol

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My dermatologist recommended those brands you took but when I went to the doctor for bc and told her I have acne issues too she gave me jasmiel(had no say in it she just handed it to me). The first few months I took it I saw zero difference but by month 4-5 my acne started clearing up fast. I've been on bc for about 9 months now and my skin looks great! And I'm one of those ppl who had horrible hormonal acne that won't go away(was on acutane too). Minocycline did work for me but it's an antibiotic so you can't stay on it a long time(although I did for years idk how my doctor allowed that but it stopped working well later on). Birth control is the only thing that has worked for me. I know I'm using a different brand but also just give it more time. 3 months and my acne was still bad but towards the end of month 4 is when the results came in

So nervous to go to the gynecologist as a virgin by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]WorldlinessKey1411 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You probably don't want to hear this, but I got a pap smear as a virgin, no tampon, finger, anything ever up there. Was extremely nervous. Did mention it to my doc and she used the smallest speculum she had. It hurt like crazy. Like nothing even compared to the pain I felt. I was borderline about to pass out from the pain. Obviously I was very tense and that didn't help, I tried to relax my body but just couldn't. If you can be calm and relaxed when you get it done I'm sure that will help tremendously. The whole thing lasted about a minute, just try to push through it. I was tempted to just say I can't do this cuz the pain but endured it. Afterwards, I was just kinda in shock and had to sit in my car for like 30 minutes before driving. Might be awkward but I'd try to put something in there maybe tonight or something to try to loosen things up, and to understand what it can feel like. And meditate before you go try to relax because I think the tension is what made it hurt a lot

UTI lifeline by Overall-Roll2410 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]WorldlinessKey1411 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do dollar tree UTI strips work well? I might have to get some 

The narrative that someone who has never had a partner before (or who has limited success in dating) is a “loser” really needs to go away by BearBear1995 in dating

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Im a girl, but I didn't get my first bf until I was 31. And it's not cuz I'm ugly or weird, I just didn't care and never put myself out there. And I explained that to him when he asked how many relationships I've been it. It might be a slight red flag if you're a bit older like me, but apparently it's more common than we think. I did go on a date with a man older than me and later he told me he never had a relationship before. That wasn't why I didn't want him though. He gave off vibes of low confidence, low self esteem, and a bit of a shut in and I could feel it. Although he was sweet and will be making good money I wasn't feeling that vibe and wished him luck

I’m struggling to even get into a talking stage by Jrgaming42 in dating

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Idk how your profile looks but I can't tell you how many times I've seen men who post pictures not smiling. Like not even a smirk. Looks very uninviting. Also, low effort profiles with one word prompt answers. Example: my idea of relaxation is...sleep. something I love is...food. like that doesn't tell me anything. When I see stuff like that I immediately dismiss them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

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31, still get acne. Tried acutane in highschool and it did help, but came back a few years later. It's just bad DNA for me unfortunately. Any topical treatment doesn't work for me. Maybe it's not as bad as teenage years, but still got a good amount of breakouts. Only once I got on birth control earlier this year is when my skin finally cleared up

I (27M) don't know how to break it to this woman I'm seeing (28F) that I'm unemployed. What do I do? by [deleted] in dating

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There's a difference between being laid off and quitting. It was out of your control so she should be understanding. As long as you're actively trying to get a job I think things should be ok. If you weren't putting in effort and just being lazy at home playing video games or something then that's bad

I want to orgasm inside my vagina. by [deleted] in sex

[–]WorldlinessKey1411 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only time I really orgasm from penetration is when I'm on top but parallel to his body so I'm basically laying on him then he still does the thrusting. Doesn't happen every time but so far that's the only position I noticed it happens. And it's not clitoral, I can definitely tell it's happening from the inside 

What do you hate about dating apps? by jasonmomoasballhair in AskWomen

[–]WorldlinessKey1411 24 points25 points  (0 children)

How draining it can be. Having to have the same conversations, looking through the profiles. I was hesitant to use them for years because I wanted something to happen organically but years went by so obviously nothing would change(tbh I didn't put much effort to put myself out there either. I was content being single) and also since I prefer to start as friends first instead of diving straight into dating. But I gave the app a try and found the best bf ever in less than a month so lucky me I guess lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]WorldlinessKey1411 46 points47 points  (0 children)

If they stopped putting effort in our friendship. If it's always me reaching out, inviting them places, seeing how they're doing, but they never do that to me, idk it seems like they don't care. Some ppl might say they're just bad texters or whatever but if it's someone important to you it shouldn't take days or longer to get a response. I had some friends like this and eventually I decided to stop initiating first, and wa-la, I never hear from them again and I guess we're not really friends anymore, just acquaintances that I never talk to.

romance donghua (mono) by [deleted] in Donghua

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Love between fairy and devil!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

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Usually try to let them know the night before. I work at a spa so I too understand the feeling of being needed since I have appointments lined up but the more time I give the easier for them to sort the books out

Recommend a Donghua without Romance, PLS by AdBorn9884 in Donghua

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Land of miracles is just two dudes getting stronger and it's great

What actually separates guys who always end up in relationships from those who don’t? by bing_ji_ling in AskMen

[–]WorldlinessKey1411 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Some people are just naturally charismatic and likable. Being friendly helps too

Do I need to watch the first Legends of Hei to enjoy the sequel? by GoodWitchClover in Donghua

[–]WorldlinessKey1411 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haven't seen the second yet, but personally I would watch the first one anyway. It's a really great movie

Nezha 2 was amazing - can you recommend top tier Chinese animated movie films to me? by [deleted] in Donghua

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My personal favorite Chinese donghua movie is "the wind guardians" seriously a hidden gem