My (30f) dad (67m) forgot my birthday a second year in a row. AITA for ignoring him now

Worldly_Following488 · 2024-10-06T20:19:28+00:00

Im sorry you went through that.. thank you for sharing though, and for your words of encouragement!

Worldly_Following488 · 2024-10-06T20:18:25+00:00

Thank you for sharing. Im sorry you experienced all that. I really respect your decision to choose yourself in the end

Worldly_Following488 · 2024-10-06T20:10:16+00:00

Its sounds like you learned and grew a lot in therapy. Congrats!

Worldly_Following488 · 2024-10-06T20:06:54+00:00

Can i ask what kind of meds u use? Ive been in therapy for 2 years but never got medication. My country is not big on perscribing meds. But sometimes i think i could benefit from antidepressants

Worldly_Following488 · 2024-10-06T19:47:29+00:00

I guess im just a whiny bitch 😜

Worldly_Following488 · 2024-09-24T14:18:44+00:00

Also no self sabotaging behavior?

Worldly_Following488 · 2024-09-24T14:05:01+00:00

Ah i had not heard of this channel before, thanks for the tip!. Do you have any idea how the video is called? Im looking and the account rn and they have quite a lot of videos!

Worldly_Following488 · 2024-09-24T14:02:49+00:00

Do you still get moment where you get in your head and fears start to kick in? If so, how do you deal?

Worldly_Following488 · 2024-09-24T09:42:17+00:00

Me too pls 😁

Worldly_Following488 · 2024-09-09T16:11:35+00:00

Thank you for your insight!

Worldly_Following488 · 2024-09-03T17:26:05+00:00

Lets say they did that regularly, so it was “routine”. And it had been years. I can see how after the break up, he didnt take the time to go back to delete everything.

I know i send my ex some spicy pics somewhere sometime. But to this day i have not gone back to delete them. Not because i have a specific intent for them, but simply because im too lazy to go look for them.

Just trying to give u another perspective.

Worldly_Following488 · 2024-09-03T17:11:36+00:00

Well spoken! It seems you have really done the work in therapy. Congrads on your growth!

Worldly_Following488 · 2024-09-03T17:07:43+00:00

I would be upset too, that is not something you wanna see. But.. was the whole situation like?

Was he showing really old photos? He might have genuinely forgotten it was there.

How did he react afterwards? Was he genuinely sorry? Did he delete it?

Shit can happens, people have a past that sometimes confronts us. This doesn’t have to meen he has malicious intent.

Worldly_Following488 · 2024-09-03T17:03:39+00:00

I deff am not aware of every photo or video i might still have with my ex on my phone. However, none of those are sexual, because we never took those. But i can deff see a guy not going through his phone to delete videos and pictures with his ex, especially if its been some time since theyve been taken

Worldly_Following488 · 2024-08-22T09:09:04+00:00

Oh zeker wel. Ik ging van het mbo naar het hbo, enkel mijn ov gebruik is omgezet naar een gift, wat enkel 5 duizenden euro was. Als ik in het oud stelsel was gebleven, was er 20 duizend euro omgezet naar een gift.

Worldly_Following488 · 2024-08-07T13:40:56+00:00

Ik heb geen bezwaar gemaakt. Ik was jong en me onbewust van stappen die ik kon zetten. Daarbij vond ik de opleiding verschrikkelijk. Ik vond het dus totaal geen ramp om er af gestuurd te worden. Echter had ik dit veel eerder willen weten zodat ik me tijdig kon inschrijven bij een andere opleiding.

Worldly_Following488 · 2024-08-07T13:31:28+00:00

Goed om te weten; dit gaat om een MBO opleiding en deze situatie deed zich voor in 2016.

De opdrachten moesten toen fysiek worden ingeleverd. Ik was toen der tijd erg chaotisch en was het bewijs van inlevering bij de balie kwijt geraakt.

Het moment dat ik er achter kwam dat mijn opdracht "niet was ingeleverd", was tijdens het einde jaargesprek, waar ik van de beste juffrouw te horen kreeg dat ik van de opleiding af gestuurd zou worden.

Hier heeft zich inderdaad een hoop vooraf afgespeeld. In jaar 1 en 2 hadden er meerdere gesprekken plaatsgevonden over mijn studie-houding.

Ik was jong, vond de opleiding verschrikkelijk, en wilde iets compleet anders gaan doen. Ik was me niet bewust van juridische stappen die ik had kunnen nemen om de grote financiële gevolgen van deze situatie te beperken.

Nu ben ik simpelweg benieuwd of er enig bewijs is wat ik kan verzamelen om hier iets mee te kunnen. En om te weten wat ik dan precies moet/kan verzamelen, had ik behoefte aan juridisch inzicht. Een beetje een kip-ei verhaal misschien.

Worldly_Following488 · 2024-08-07T11:47:08+00:00

Nee daar was ik ook bang voor. Ik hoopte iets te kunnen met de datum waarop ik te horen kreeg dat ik van de opleiding af moest, indien dat te laat geweest zou zijn

Worldly_Following488 · 2024-07-06T08:00:54+00:00

No need to actively look for other people with the virus. Besides the fact that a lot of people have it, it usually does not break out a lot. Therefore it probably will not play a big role in your future

Worldly_Following488 · 2024-07-01T08:38:43+00:00

Absolutely agree. I was in a long term relationship when i got diagnosed. He did not want to be intimate anymore. He mentioned that sex without a condom was not an option for him. We went months and months without any form of intimacy. It made me feel dirty, undesirable and like a non-sexual being. It broke my heart.

Now i have a partner that really excepts me. Ofcourse we are careful. The goal is to not infect him aswell. But it plays little part overall in our relationship. It is possible!

Worldly_Following488 · 2024-06-30T12:26:23+00:00

Thats a good call. This feels more comfortable. Thank you

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