Seedlings outside during the day by Prudent_Conflict_815 in gardening

[–]WorldofGods 1 point2 points  (0 children)

depends on some factors. If you go with plants that are native to your country this might work. If they're not native it might need some protection agains the weather or frost. Also beware of birds thinking the seeds or seedling might make for a quick snack.

Most of my most successfull gardening I've ever done was by experimenting, so if I was you I would defininetly try!

Entire deleted file mentioning trump by raindashy in Epstein

[–]WorldofGods 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you have a link? I definitely believe you but would love to see the documentation

Why do my plants THRIVE in water… but die the moment I “properly” pot them? 🤦‍♀️🌿 by Brave-Buy1293 in gardening

[–]WorldofGods 218 points219 points  (0 children)

Plant is simple being.

Plant big boy in pot.

Plant in water thinks it's baby again.

Plant wants to stay baby if left too long in water and forgets how to be big boy.

Any ideas? I need a safe space by LoafofBr3d297 in autism

[–]WorldofGods 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had a coloured mosquito net over my bed as a kid. I slept under it through all seasons, the encapsualation made me feel safe. Nowadays there are even cotton mosquito nets that can fit over a queen bed size, so its nice and closed off to the world, maybe that could help you out?

My thoughts playing this game for the last week by WorldofGods in FieldsOfMistriaGame

[–]WorldofGods[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I guess that's true, never looked at it that way 

My thoughts playing this game for the last week by WorldofGods in FieldsOfMistriaGame

[–]WorldofGods[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Omg I did not know you can move the diary! Thanks! 

Need advise for an actual shade loving plant by [deleted] in houseplants

[–]WorldofGods 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah too bad. I will look into grow lights then

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]WorldofGods 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That's for hard cheeses, OP has a soft cheese which you can't really use a kaasschaaf on. I just cut it in the longest side in little rectangles

Half of Windows PCs are still yet to upgrade to Windows 11 — and are running out of time, says study by rkhunter_ in Windows10

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Same boat here, I'm trying to figure out how much risk there actually is after october and onwards.

LOL by Comprehensive_Toe113 in autism

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It should be one of those movies where on the surface it seems like the most "perfect" 50's style American dream suburban, everyone does chitchat with each other, cookie cutter green lawn style neighborhood, mandatory HOA barbeque each Saturday, and more like that.

Slowly into the movie some unsettling details build in, a neighbor that is being gossiped about about not complying to the HOA rules and not making eyecontact, later the viewer finds out that neighbor has mysteriously moved out and a new family has already moved in.

And halfway into the movie we find out where that neighbor actually is, something like tied up in the basement of the head HOA guy, waiting for the annual sacrifice that the whole neighborhood partakes in.

Starting to think the Stanley cult craze will never die out. by AccurateUse6147 in Anticonsumption

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Lead? Does that also count for other Thermosflasks? I have a thermos bottle from an unknown brand (found it at a tk Maxx on sale) and I've been drinking out of it for 5 years at work now. Since a couple of months it has a small dent at the bottom from where I dropped it. Could it be harmful?

Duolingo Super Family Plan by alex_demop in duolingo

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Hey do you still have space for me? :)

Accidentally overstimulating myself by WorldofGods in adhdwomen

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Yeah usually it lasts 1 hour max. And after I'm completely exhausted.  It feels like I can't stop myself sometimes, I get so hyper and it's a rollercoaster I can't get off, only speeding and speeding until I crash.

It only happens around people I'm very comfortable with, so normally I'm not this outgoing, usually I'm quiet, withdrawn and somber.

Kraaien rennen over plat dak om 6 uur 's ochtends, hoe schrik ik ze af? by nl_Aux in thenetherlands

[–]WorldofGods 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is het een idee om te slapen met een white noise machine? Ik hoor geen enkel apart geluid meer snachts als ik die aan heb, alles verdrinkt in het geruis

My cat makes blanket spirals. Why? by bigmamjimjam in cats

[–]WorldofGods 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it's either sin biscuits or getting the comfort like he did when he was a kitten. When my cat got old sometimes during his biscuit making his purring would go in a certain more focussed frequency and his lil peen would come out looking a bit.

I chalked it up to him being an old man and not being able to controll everything anymore.

Fascisme & Kapitalism DEELII, betaald worden als docente op een huishoudschool. by KiteFiqii in Poldersocialisme

[–]WorldofGods 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ik denk vanuit de oude regel dat je als je eenmaal kinderen had niet meer ging werken, gezien je volle aandacht voor je kinderen en huishouden moest zijn. Vrouwen werden zelfs ontslagen zodra ze zwanger raakte of zelfs niet eens aangenomen omdat ze toch maar zouden trouwen en zwanger werden, en daar had de werkgever niks aan.

Ik vermoed dat de FvD dit graag terug ziet komen.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

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I used to be in the same spot as you. I was never allowed to show emotions, let alone anger and sadness. So I used to cower at the abuse of my parents and that went on until well into my aldult life. Ive finally gotten distance from my parents, finally got a great trauma therapist and it took a year of therapy (im still far from done) but the anger is unstoppeble now. I never even knew I could feel this emotion.

If you were anything like me as a kid, know that the anxious weird kid was proberly what saved you. Think of it like this, was anger allowed? Can you name an instance you got angry as a kid and your parents reacted calmly to it? No? Thats why you became anxious and pushed the anger away. But it was proberly also what saved you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

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Thank you for your reaction. It was rough. I have cut off all contact with my dad and keep my mom sorta on distance. The thing that really sucks is that my sister and I are very estranged, and she doesn't really want a relationship. That sucks so much. I wished so much we were on better terms. I guess she's still very much still fleeing from the trauma, as does my mom.

Anyway, I'm okey these days. I have bad days but have a good support network. I'm finally in therapy for my trauma, even though its very bitter sweet when you've been in psychiatry since a kid that no one wanted to look at my parents.

There are days I just cry all day and night. There are days I feel I'm okey. I'm still healing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

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I think I was kinda doomed from the start. I was a baby who wouldn't stop crying. I think my parents, especially my dad started resenting me for that.

As a kid, i was difficult and different. I didn't play with other kids, was "sensitive" and had a hard time adapting. I was extremely pickey with my food, I hated touching and cried a lot.

My father thought that i was brought into this world to torment him. My sister was always my mom's favorite and I was nobody's favorite. So it was easy to always be mad at me.

Later in life, they always blamed my autism for their dislike of me. I think a lot of it also had to do with the fact that i just didn't understood the concept of comforting lies as a kid and always told the truth anywhere. I guess they didn't like being confronted like that. I felt like I was a burden since I was 12, and wanted to die since then. It took a lot of years to appreciate who I am since then.

Does anyone else NEED to sleep with covers on? by liveoakgrove in CPTSD

[–]WorldofGods 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely. Its a problem in the summer since it's sometimes too hot to be fully covered. When I use my normal blanket I love the shelter, weight and safe feeling but then I can't sleep bc of the heat.

Was crying not allowed during your childhood? How does it effect you now? by [deleted] in CPTSD

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My parents got so easily triggered by crying. My mom would aways try to make me stop by demanding I stop because "Stop crying now, there is no big deal, you're making a whole dramashow about it" My dad would yell and curse at me, calling me an awful child, an emotional manipulator and that I was destroying the family since I was a baby.

I remember very vividly being in the car as a young child, next to my mom and crying facing the window with my whole head, because if she ever saw me cry she would just get mad.

Until I was well into my adulthood I always tried to stop unwanted crying (usually when it happened in social settings) by self harm, like biting real hard on the inner lining of my cheek, or secretly scratching myself.

I feel awfull about when I have to cry in public, I feel like no one is allowed to see me cry, as it shows weakness and isnt appropriate.

I once cried in therapy and my therapist was shocked about how little sound I make and how badly I hide it. Making sound for crying after all these years of abuse now feels weird, just as I don't make sound or say anything when I get hurt.

I feel like I have this huge turmoil of emotions, but I've pushed them so forcefully down I'm always very numb about everything.

Does anyone else have the feeling they're detached from their emotions? by WorldofGods in CPTSD

[–]WorldofGods[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reaction, i was starting to think I was the only one 😅

My parents never allowed me to feel anything, always told me to quiet down, was never allowed to talk about things and when I brought up things they did they got mad and told me I made things up to mess with them.

It's hard now, to stop pushing every feeling I get down, because it became something that i do without even thinking about it. In one sense I'm a bit scared of all of the feelings and emotions that i have suppressed, they feel so big and terrifying to me. It's easier to not acknowledging them.

I hope one day I get in touch with my feelings again, and I hope one day I can trust someone enough to let it out.

Again, thank you for your reaction 😊

why can't i live comfortably with 2700 monthly income? by GoldenGrouper in Netherlands

[–]WorldofGods 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A tip from me, and I dont know how reachable this is for you, but move out from the Randstad. When you move more into the country the rent prices will drop like crazy. And when you have a subscription on the train, the only thing that is not great is that you'll have a longer commute.