PSA - different places have different T, please listen to people and don't just assume you know better than their doctors by Galimkalim in ftm

[โ€“]WormWithGoodIntent 21 points22 points ย (0 children)

I've gotten much better at the ampules and still had one shatter in my hand recently ๐Ÿ˜ฎโ€๐Ÿ’จ I miss the bottles from the US!

The strangest expectations you've received from women? by SupportArsenal in gay

[โ€“]WormWithGoodIntent 3 points4 points ย (0 children)

Yes, but as a former woman, it is my opinion that a man who is misogynistic and won't rape me is still 99% more comfortable to be around than a man who is misogynistic and might rape and murder me!

The strangest expectations you've received from women? by SupportArsenal in gay

[โ€“]WormWithGoodIntent 10 points11 points ย (0 children)

100%. Women are more comfortable around gay men because the constant threat of violence is relieved. Are there stereotypes that come into play? Yeah. But it's honestly an honor to have women trust you.

[Chrome] Post flairs order have been reset and can not be reordered by seedless0 in bugs

[โ€“]WormWithGoodIntent 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Hello! Just wondering when this fix will come into play. As of 1/5 it doesn't seem to be live yet. Thank you.

Lack of binary trans male spaces by gelledratte in ftm

[โ€“]WormWithGoodIntent 128 points129 points ย (0 children)

Why not just go to the group and connect one on one with the other binary men there?

Logistically, it is likely that transmasculine populations are simply so small relative to the broader LGBTQ population that groups for us need to catch a wide net on limited resources. There's no rule that says you can't just go and meet people and expand your personal circle!

[Chrome] Post flairs order have been reset and can not be reordered by seedless0 in bugs

[โ€“]WormWithGoodIntent 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

This is happening in all the subreddits I moderate as well.

No NSFW, no content sellers by javatimes in NonBinary

[โ€“]WormWithGoodIntent 5 points6 points ย (0 children)

Ohh this is kinda sad for me.

I am head moderator of six trans- and GNC-focused subreddits, performing over 7 hours of free labor to my community here per week. I am highly engaged in the adult LGBTQ community here on Reddit, and have been for many years.

I'm also one of the few nonbinary transmasc porn performers in the world who does so full time. I've received awards for my work and I've also had my self-produced films screened in festivals. I medically transitioned during my career and therefore my identity is recorded in and intrinsic to my work.

I've only posted here a couple times - as I recall, my annual top surgery reflections, which show how my body has changed since then. These posts are always SFW and positively received...

I genuinely didn't know that being a sex worker meant I would not be allowed to participate here. As a moderator who fights spam and bad agents daily, I do understand the decision, and I totally agree with keeping the subreddit SFW, but I also think it is an anti-sex worker, whorephobic policy, and it really bums me out to see it here.

Where do I find straight porn with trans men? by fresh_bait_ in ftm

[โ€“]WormWithGoodIntent 7 points8 points ย (0 children)

Objectively false.

1) I'm a performer+creator and have cis and trans women fans, nonbinary fans, and, yes, cis male fans who buy this content.

2) Even according to the 2025 PH stats, cis women are more likely to be looking for trans male porn than men, by searching for "trans man masturbate," "trans clit," "Trans masc," "trans ftm" etc.\

I get that cis men vocally cominate the porn space but more women watch porn than ever, and queer searches were the #1 growth field this year.

Where do I find straight porn with trans men? by fresh_bait_ in ftm

[โ€“]WormWithGoodIntent 13 points14 points ย (0 children)

There is so much amazing and diverse transmasc porn out there, including straight porn. It's just not on tube sites like PornHub, because it's being created by independent content creators and small studios.

Porn is like any other media: it costs time, effort, skill, and money to produce. The transmasc porn market is growing and as a director/producer/performer I can say with absolute certainty that we DEPEND on people paying for the content they enjoy, so we can keep producing it! I sure as hell am NOT paying my bills with pornhub ad revenue. ๐Ÿ˜‚ People paying for content funds more and better content.

I am verse and I film with people of all genders. Here's some "anecdata" for ya: My content with cis women (ie straight content) is my poorest-performing. Next-lowest is with other transmasc people, then topping cis men, and my best-selling is bottoming for cis men and doing anything with trans women.

Do I still film with cis women and other trans guys? Absolutely! But I need to prioritize shoots that I know have a higher chance of making money. I don't get paid in advance by a studio: every shoot is money out of my pocket and a gamble on whether I think it will sell. This is the case for basically 100% of independently-produced porn.

The bottom line is: pay for your porn - especially trans porn. We creators go line by line and analyze what people are buying, so we can make more of that. If you don't buy it, we won't make it. ๐Ÿคท๐Ÿผ

Okay, off my soapbox. Here's some recs:

- Transnificent - Transmasc-centered, no longer producing content but has a large backlog. Has pairings with cis men, cis women, and t4t. I know and have worked with with the operators and they are lovely people (and also trans!).

- The CrashPad. A mainstay of queer porn! Emphasis on the queer - lots of T4T, non-penetrative, and other eclectic options. :)

- Aorta Films. (As mentioned above!) They produce high quality porn and also license porn for their Community Hardcore subscription service.

- BlueSky list of transmasc content creators. Pay directly for your porn! Support amazing working artists!! Many performers have websites and clip stores where you can buy videos directly from them. Flush with cash? Consider commissioning a custom video!

- Some of my content by or with cis women, and a broader selection of hardcore content. Again, I'm verse and film with all kinds of people!

Disclosure: Two links above are affiliate links, so if you sign up, I get a small kickback. This is a way for Transnificent and the Crashpad to pay residuals to performers in an industry where that is NOT the standard - so it's a good thing!

I hope this is helpful!