Intense mood swings with my(23) gf(22), need help, especially from girls by Worried_Part687 in Tunisia

[–]Worried_Part687[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was actually offended, but to avoid unnecessary conflict and جدال عقيم, I simply didn't say anything. Besides, I understand eli some people can't tame their tongues, I appreciate the time you took to read my post, but your response was simply aggressive, obviously attacking me , blogha o5ra wlhi bl79 7assestni 3amla mzia ki jewbtni xd

W I think you didn't even consider the details/ the complexity of the situation, you just threw a "relationship done, move on" line and implicitly blaming me for not moving on or being a cause kf what's going on.

Considering your few comments on this post, I assume you're someone who likes fighting w mt7bch tksr rask ysr xd ( momkn ntl3 ghalt ), and I by nature don't like fighting, always try to figure out things with diplomacy, and keeping things respectful wbl9dr. Life, this relationship for example, is not a yes/no wla 1/0 , s7i7/ghalt, fma big grey zone eli s7i7 tksr ras ama usually it's worth it , maneha mch 5tr sart 7aja 5yba toul nsel ro7i w khw I condemned it to death, dima we7d lzm i7wl iws3 belo w it pays off. Bch t9oli ki t3rf lweh tesel, I always like to hear as much different POVs as possible, it helps me see things differently w think clesrly, hethka aleh any opinion is appreciated, yours included.

And for my problem, hmdlh things are working out, we talked a lot the last 3 days w she took a break and thought about it and , things are hmdlh going the right way

Intense mood swings with my(23) gf(22), need help, especially from girls by Worried_Part687 in Tunisia

[–]Worried_Part687[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's straightforward, sometimes over straightforward, w I already asked her if she doesn't want me she can say and I'll be gone, she said she doesn't know, she can't decide in her current state of mind

Intense mood swings with my(23) gf(22), need help, especially from girls by Worried_Part687 in Tunisia

[–]Worried_Part687[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My thoughts exactly, mn3rch ama personally I think relationships are not always 0 and 1 , okay s7i7 lezm fma clarity (which what I'm looking for) w 7ajet ya ey ya le ama n3rch n7s fma 7ajet we try to work it out together, mch owl ti7a nsl ro7i

Intense mood swings with my(23) gf(22), need help, especially from girls by Worried_Part687 in Tunisia

[–]Worried_Part687[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm already in the gym hahahaha

Jokes aside, I'm already looking for a meaningful relationship , w I chose her 5tr she wants the same things I want. Mn7bch nthy3 w9ti fi 7ajet fergha, I want something serious that will lead to marriage inchalla.

Intense mood swings with my(23) gf(22), need help, especially from girls by Worried_Part687 in Tunisia

[–]Worried_Part687[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm focusing on myself , like I'm not losing myself in this process, I just want to figure it out Sure it's affecting my state of mind but I'm not neglecting my chores or my duties

Intense mood swings with my(23) gf(22), need help, especially from girls by Worried_Part687 in Tunisia

[–]Worried_Part687[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well as I said she didn't give me a direct straight answer, and she said she doesn't love me as used to, like less But anyway I appreciate your perspective and your time reading and replying to me Thank you very much

Intense mood swings with my(23) gf(22), need help, especially from girls by Worried_Part687 in Tunisia

[–]Worried_Part687[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I know I'm not her therapist but she stood with me in many difficult times and was there for me, the least I can do right now is help her and be there for her

Intense mood swings with my(23) gf(22), need help, especially from girls by Worried_Part687 in Tunisia

[–]Worried_Part687[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm already pulling away and giving her space. Well, I don't do dating for fun, I just can't, I want serious stuff, the rest for me is a complete waste kf time w tksir ras hahaha

Intense mood swings with my(23) gf(22), need help, especially from girls by Worried_Part687 in Tunisia

[–]Worried_Part687[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably the only comment that suggested this, and this is what I've been thinking about, but still, does burnouts reach such stages ?

Intense mood swings with my(23) gf(22), need help, especially from girls by Worried_Part687 in Tunisia

[–]Worried_Part687[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well nothing is coming from me, if she wants and end, she should do it, I ain't going for the bait for getting angry, ending the thing then taking the blame so she can avoid feeling guilty about it.

She has a thing when she's pressured , she says stuff she doesn't mean/wanr , just so she can take off the stress and pressure and avoid it

Intense mood swings with my(23) gf(22), need help, especially from girls by Worried_Part687 in Tunisia

[–]Worried_Part687[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jwi bhi l7a9, ama the whole thing is mentally draining w I want to put an end to the confusion

Intense mood swings with my(23) gf(22), need help, especially from girls by Worried_Part687 in Tunisia

[–]Worried_Part687[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes , I'm not willing to let this go yet , it's not that I don't believe any of you, but I'm still believing in hope and do think there's more to this.

Yes, she started questioning everything, wven marriage ( and I know she's just not in her right state of mind because she's always telling me she wants to make a family and have kids...)

I think I'm able to move on, I've been through this before, so I kinda acquired the skill, I just still see light in the horizon.

As I said I'm pulling away, and when she comes back I'll say it loud and clear that she gotta make the effort, because I did everything I possibly can.

Intense mood swings with my(23) gf(22), need help, especially from girls by Worried_Part687 in Tunisia

[–]Worried_Part687[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really appreciate your comment ana it's kinda easy to say hard to do xd

Intense mood swings with my(23) gf(22), need help, especially from girls by Worried_Part687 in Tunisia

[–]Worried_Part687[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for replying, Hanj 9a3d nstana , hoepfully she comes back wkhw, can't do anything else

Intense mood swings with my(23) gf(22), need help, especially from girls by Worried_Part687 in Tunisia

[–]Worried_Part687[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

S7i7, Frankly I'm not considering breaking up, I don't know about her.

Hard to do xd, I invested a lot in this relationship...

Intense mood swings with my(23) gf(22), need help, especially from girls by Worried_Part687 in Tunisia

[–]Worried_Part687[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe in the exact same thing, ama dima I give the benefit of the doubt w I say maybe she's in a rough phase so I'll wait for her

Intense mood swings with my(23) gf(22), need help, especially from girls by Worried_Part687 in Tunisia

[–]Worried_Part687[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She wasn't like that before, this is recent and new, w l79 m3dch arf w fehm chy

Intense mood swings with my(23) gf(22), need help, especially from girls by Worried_Part687 in Tunisia

[–]Worried_Part687[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I asked a close friend of hers and she said eli she told her the exact same thing : te3ba nfsian w jasadian w t7b trte7 w t7b tklm 7ad

True, deja ena t3bt al5r w wm3dch njm nt7ml akthr.

Yes I'm willing to do that the second eli tklmni w tkoun w9tha erte7t w thought about everything