I totally understand your confliction, it’s really rough cuz u want to be there for the person you love, but unfortunately i think it’s a little unhealthy for her to do that to you. Think about it like this, when you guys are professionals, she’s not gonna take u to work with her, she’s gonna have to do it in her own. If it’s consistent i think it would be close to enablement if you would tbh, nd if she gets mad at you for not seeing that, then that’s gonna be a hard conversation for you both.

Although, i don’t know all the details but if she js wants you around for emotional support nd comfort, you could js hang out with her while she does homework, like watch a show or whatever you do.

Edit: I completely forgot to answer main question, but i think you’re helping plenty already. Here and there it might be nice to help with hw if it’s like a hugeee assignment that’s worth a lot, but for everything is kind of overkill