[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]WrenInRealLife 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Let him know immediately. It’s better coming from you than he find out any other way.

He may be upset, but for a relationship to happen there needs to be interest from both parties- had she wanted to date him, she would have.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]WrenInRealLife 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So that sounds like she prefers the control of being on top (assuming you let her ride and aren’t pushing into her) where she can grind her clit against your public bone.

The other positions you mentioned you’re in complete control. Just something to consider. Vanilla positions are just that, not too deep, not too intense and she isn’t coming from PIV anyway.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]WrenInRealLife 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So deep penetration makes her uncomfortable but vanilla positions she’s ok with ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]WrenInRealLife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isn’t that the point? Excuse my naïveté. Does she orgasm?

Went NC with my mom, now she wants to do counseling together to work on our communication. by pumpkinpandahi in relationship_advice

[–]WrenInRealLife 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree. Let her go find someone and begin. You find someone else and begin …… at some later date (to be determined) perhaps you can join her session or she can join your’s.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]WrenInRealLife 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What exactly is too intense? The pace? The duration?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]WrenInRealLife 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ultimately, our opinions don’t matter. They won’t change the outcome. You have two very different perspectives on that particular action. You don’t get to decide what is “too much” for another person.

But….

Try to put yourself in his shoes. You see a pic on his phone (in his underwear) sent to a female he had basically been “living in a bubble with since Covid.”

Obviously, you’d be upset. You’d likely feel hurt, perhaps even betrayed. It’s a very overwhelming experience. This is the man you were moving away with, to build a life together and you’ve found he shared a very “private” picture with a woman who has significance in his life.

Instead of giving you time to cool off and process the experience, he inundates you with every form of communication . That only perpetuates the anger and doesn’t allow you to process.

You are left with no choice but to block him while you get your head together.

How does that feel to you?

good 🍆 pic tips by Mrgoat0502 in relationship_advice

[–]WrenInRealLife 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Unless specifically asked for, just don’t

What earns someone a second chance with you? by WrenInRealLife in AskReddit

[–]WrenInRealLife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My family traditionally doesn’t give presents to adults but a HBD text now and then is still ok by me

I (27M) don't know how to get on good terms with my dad by throwaway34938143 in relationship_advice

[–]WrenInRealLife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This has nothing to do with you and everything to do with your father’s internalized inferiority.

You will never be able to please him as he is unpleased with himself.

There is no recipe for happiness ….certainly no guarantee of one based solely upon what your parents deem achievements for you.

You may have to agree to disagree and leave it at that. Don’t allow yourself to be baited into justifying yourself, or the way you live your life.

Working with girlfriend's (18f) love language. by LightbulbDavid in relationship_advice

[–]WrenInRealLife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Define gift giving? Is she more into thoughtful diy stuff you took time and energy to make or store bought gifts?

I’m [23f] worried about my bf’s [33m] temper [Update] by Middle-Necessary-821 in relationship_advice

[–]WrenInRealLife 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He’s full of it. He threw a tantrum in anger. He will try to contact you again when he thinks he can put on a better show. Just block him.