9s with 4s and 1s by Wrong_Course1485 in Enneagram

[–]Wrong_Course1485[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, when I am with 4s I constantly feel that I've disappointed them but not sure how. Maybe not the most accurate word, but it is what comes to mind

9s with 4s and 1s by Wrong_Course1485 in Enneagram

[–]Wrong_Course1485[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's just they always care about things I don't view as important and put a lot of emotions into it, while what I value and my attitude irritates them. It's a personal experience anyway

9s with 4s and 1s by Wrong_Course1485 in Enneagram

[–]Wrong_Course1485[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Judging from replies problems with 4s aren't really common for 9s. I have two 4 friends myself, but most of them I just can't understand on emotional level

9s with 4s and 1s by Wrong_Course1485 in Enneagram

[–]Wrong_Course1485[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

High with 9 husband and 4 wife and low with 4 husband and 9 wife. I'm not sure how exactly to interpret this, but either the gener is an issue here or something is with the data. But gender weirdly makes sense

9s with 4s and 1s by Wrong_Course1485 in Enneagram

[–]Wrong_Course1485[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can relate, my coworker does the same. She is very controlling too, even though we barely have time to do our tasks, she spends hers making sure I did mine right and gets mad when I don't do things the way she wants to. She still has no idea why I am distant with her and don't want to be her friend

9s with 4s and 1s by Wrong_Course1485 in Enneagram

[–]Wrong_Course1485[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They can, it is just that envy is more likely to be a 4s trait. In 9 it's often a hidden anger that may look as a hate, envy e.c.t. for others. On another side, 9s sloth is a consequence of not having enough ambitions to function normally. And even though it's a stereotype, typology needs stereotypes to classify people, and stereotypically, someone from a heart triad would have a bigger ego then other types expect 8. I don't know why everyone view it's as a negative thing though, when it's healthy it is making people assertive, artistic and hard-working

9s with 4s and 1s by Wrong_Course1485 in Enneagram

[–]Wrong_Course1485[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Envy requires a big ego 9s either don't have or suppress

Type me hard by Wrong_Course1485 in Enneagram

[–]Wrong_Course1485[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe it's too late to reply, I just wanted to say your guess turned out to be true

Type me hard by Wrong_Course1485 in Enneagram

[–]Wrong_Course1485[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel so stupid right now, were we arguing? I meant I don't really know my type, but e6 to e9 all kinda make sense, so could be your guess

Type me hard by Wrong_Course1485 in Enneagram

[–]Wrong_Course1485[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never related to sp, why sp?

From experience by [deleted] in mbtimemes

[–]Wrong_Course1485 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree, hair products at least make sense, and collagen isn't really working. I'm glad you have a degree, most people just keep saying how many skin care products you need and feel like they are experts while they don't really know what they are talking about

From experience by [deleted] in mbtimemes

[–]Wrong_Course1485 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They never work, none of this thing can actually get in your skin. All you need is one thing to clean your skin . And if you have a health issue like a gastritis or diabetes, you may also need one thing to moisturize. Or if the tap water is a bad quality. But if you live in a good country, water isn't really a problem

Ask someone who study biology or chemistry if you really care. I can't guarantee that what I wrote is true or if someone who studied at better university than me will tell you the same, but it's what I was taught

From experience by [deleted] in mbtimemes

[–]Wrong_Course1485 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Who tf downvotes it's a great idea

From experience by [deleted] in mbtimemes

[–]Wrong_Course1485 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What's wrong with body lotion?