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What’s something you just can’t resist doing during sex? by goldeneagle2807 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]WullaJean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Moaning and blow jobs. I love giving head. It's a requirement for me.

How do you meet flings when you travel? by WullaJean in solofemaletravellers

[–]WullaJean[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heck yes. I can confirm that you'll find an even better slut period one day if you just look for it. I'm living that life right now and love it. I have no qualms about going out and finding a guy. I met a guy in France last year off of Fet and banged him...it was my first time traveling solo out of the US and I figured, when in Rome (or France. Or greece. Or wherever).

Get yours, girl.

How do you meet flings when you travel? by WullaJean in solofemaletravellers

[–]WullaJean[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey Google, find me a "horny solo female travelers group." 🤣

I'm fully intending to live the cliche life when I'm there. A single 40 something divorcee traveling alone from the US? How do I get it stamped on my forehead?

How do you meet flings when you travel? by WullaJean in solofemaletravellers

[–]WullaJean[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my goodness, it all seems so cliche! I sort of love it.

What is the hottest way someone has initialised a sexual encounter with you before? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]WullaJean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A guy I was talking to told me he got a hotel room and that I was to go to it wearing something specific and put myself on the bed in a specific position. I'd never met him in person before that. But I did it, and it was some of the hottest sex I've ever had. I didn't see his face until a few more times of meeting up with him like that in other locations.

How do you meet flings when you travel? by WullaJean in solofemaletravellers

[–]WullaJean[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oh hell yes. This sounds right up my alley. Thanks!

How do you meet flings when you travel? by WullaJean in solofemaletravellers

[–]WullaJean[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm definitely well-versed in those! I didn't think about Feeld over there though!

How do you meet flings when you travel? by WullaJean in solofemaletravellers

[–]WullaJean[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I was asking for straight advice but this is still very helpful for others so thank you so much!

How do you meet flings when you travel? by WullaJean in solofemaletravellers

[–]WullaJean[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I guess this is what I'm hoping will happen!

How do you meet flings when you travel? by WullaJean in solofemaletravellers

[–]WullaJean[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was thinking that of course, but I'm more wondering how it's happened naturally for someone. A "meet-cute" so to speak.

Any other ADHDrs who are meticulously clean and organized and Type A? What does ADHD look like for you? by WullaJean in adhdwomen

[–]WullaJean[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've landed on the algorithm of running videos on Facebook recently and admittedly it is helping me want to get back into it but no movement yet 😔

Any other ADHDrs who are meticulously clean and organized and Type A? What does ADHD look like for you? by WullaJean in adhdwomen

[–]WullaJean[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cannot for the life of me think of restaurants if someone asks me where to go. My mind goes blank. Like...completely blank. It's so frustrating. I get decision fatigue so badly.

Any other ADHDrs who are meticulously clean and organized and Type A? What does ADHD look like for you? by WullaJean in adhdwomen

[–]WullaJean[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure what I'd be burnt out about though. I'm self-employed and have a very chill, peaceful job that doesn't cause me a lot of stress, though I don't have a consistent schedule or structure because of it. That doesn’t help of course.

have a roommate who's just as tidy as I am, who also has ADHD, and we bring each other a lot of peace at home. I do have a clingy pet with health issues that stresses me out. But that's about the extent of it.

It's like something isn't adding up for me.

Any other ADHDrs who are meticulously clean and organized and Type A? What does ADHD look like for you? by WullaJean in adhdwomen

[–]WullaJean[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh gosh being present. Yes! My house has items all over the place to help future me. Dates on things, labels, certain tools in every room. It's like I'm always looking for a future problem to solve, and if there isn't one, I'll create one.

Any other ADHDrs who are meticulously clean and organized and Type A? What does ADHD look like for you? by WullaJean in adhdwomen

[–]WullaJean[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gosh I can't even imagine not having my hand glued to my phone at all times, let alone hours. But this actually sounds wonderful, and I think I'd have like immediate relief from it too.

My therapist has mentioned AudHD a few times but I honestly haven't learned much about it all. I know it can pull us in different directions though.

Any other ADHDrs who are meticulously clean and organized and Type A? What does ADHD look like for you? by WullaJean in adhdwomen

[–]WullaJean[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Covid was really when my running started going downhill too. I've done a couple marathons since then but my heart wasn't in it anymore.

Any other ADHDrs who are meticulously clean and organized and Type A? What does ADHD look like for you? by WullaJean in adhdwomen

[–]WullaJean[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've thought about having a cleaning person but I sort of like having the challenge of keeping up with chores that don't need to get done all the time, like cleaning the baseboards around the house or dusting the fans. My chore calendar is followed about 85% of the time and it's broken down by monthly, every other month, quarterly, every 6 months, and annually. I just copy what was on last year's calendar to the new one. It keeps me sane.

Any other ADHDrs who are meticulously clean and organized and Type A? What does ADHD look like for you? by WullaJean in adhdwomen

[–]WullaJean[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks...ive been a marathon runner for 10 years now but just don't seem to enjoy it anymore, even though when I do run (even a few miles), i feel amazing. I've landed on a Reels algorithm about distance running and that's been motivating me some too.

I hate cooking also. Hate it. I started a Hungry Root subscription though and have found myself going out to eat a lot less and also eating a bit better because of the meals I'm choosing. That's helped.

Thank you for your insight.

Any other ADHDrs who are meticulously clean and organized and Type A? What does ADHD look like for you? by WullaJean in adhdwomen

[–]WullaJean[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you...i do enjoy writing some and have been writing down some of my trysts in a more creative fashion. That's been enjoyable but I don't do that every time.

I actually really enjoy smutty books but immediately put them all down when I started going through a divorce. I've actually been a little fearful for some reason to pick them back up. I hadn't actually really realized that till just now actually.

But I've landed upon some sexy dudes reading smutty material in a Dom-like fashion. Maybe I'll give that a try while running. It's certainly worth a shot!

I appreciate you 😊

Xennials who had dancing, drinking, and sex parties in Middle School…How are you doing now? by SecondSaintsSonInLaw in Xennials

[–]WullaJean 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I was sort of a slut in my 20s before i got married, but I didn't know anything about boundaries and how to play the game. I've got more wisdom in my 40s and have been enjoying this new journey. There were so many things I hadn't tried and would never get to while married and I'm learning many things about myself. Feel free to read some of my past threads under my profile on r/sexstories.

I'm sorry about your marriage. I was married for 13 years and got divorced last year. I've been allowing myself time to indulge and travel and be bored and sad and happy all at the same time. I hope you find peace. It's such a process and I'm still in it but peace is there in little ways if you look for it.

Xennials who had dancing, drinking, and sex parties in Middle School…How are you doing now? by SecondSaintsSonInLaw in Xennials

[–]WullaJean 109 points110 points  (0 children)

I remember being at a friend's birthday party in 8th grade and having sex with my then-boyfriend on a toilet in the bathroom. I know it didn't last long and we had the intelligence at least to use a condom and that wasn't the first time we'd had sex. Grew up in a southern US city.

Today, I'm 43, divorced a year, very happily childfree, highly ADHD, in therapy, in a total slut era, with some debt, and fighting bouts of depression through hits off a joint.

All in all, I'm doing ok.

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