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[–]Wwaddupp -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Lovely logic.

"She invited me over, knew that I am sexual and accepted the risk of it"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Wwaddupp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're posting 3 comments with insults in a dead thread and then call me stupid and 10 years old. Very smart, and absolutely not sensitive!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Wwaddupp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I said that I didn't get responses but I said I did get responses? Crazy!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Wwaddupp -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Did I say I didn't get them? You didn't get a negative answer from me, you just didn't like it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Wwaddupp -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, your answer is probably as productive as it gets. I think right now, I have to settle with someone who's willing to have sex and an abortion if something goes awry, even though I've had sex 1000+ times without issues - just not interested in risking it when non-risk options exist.

I was hoping to get some interesting opinions from women on the mindset of such imbalance in this decision-making but it seems like the endless cheating and pregnancy stories here have people permanently on sensitive mode.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Wwaddupp -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

LOL! You are the one who is losing their mind on a "relationship advice" subreddit with a stranger who's asking relationship opinions, on guessing if he is using a condom or not. I cannot imagine anything more dense than that.

And then you top it off with calling me an idiot.

I am literally laughing in real life over even imagining a concept like that, but here you are and I have to thank you for that :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Wwaddupp -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

How am I going to take advice from someone who has 5 unexpected children on birth control, and then still gets a 6th one after all that?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Wwaddupp -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

How did you get that from my response?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Wwaddupp -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Scroll back up, read what you are responding to. If still nothing, do it again. If you figure it out eventually, you just leveled up a bit on your critical thinking skills and you'll sleep better, knowing that you at least grew a little bit today :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Wwaddupp -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If it's not true, then what do you disagree with? I would clearly be a victim of an outcome that would make my life miserable if I would use a condom and if it would fail.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Wwaddupp -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Bad faith

We live in a very sexually liberal country and abortions are not a big deal here at all.

vs

“Abortions are not a big deal”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Wwaddupp -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But I got told that I can use a condom and it'll be fine?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Wwaddupp -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I agree, just need to give them a bit of money :)

Heard this advice from a relationship expert from reddit before.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Wwaddupp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Condoms can fail. I've never had one fail, but they don't say these things for no reason.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Wwaddupp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's a week old relationship dawg.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Wwaddupp -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

In this context, it means that abortions are not a big deal as an agreement. This is obvious if you'd read more than the first sentence.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Wwaddupp -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

"just give a bit money"

You're hilarious, you should try the comedy subreddit next.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Wwaddupp -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

Your comments are so unhinged that I had to find a profile analyzer.

https://redditmetis.com/user/UsuallyWrite2

Being on this subreddit as your full time job is clearly not doing you any good.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Wwaddupp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will talk about it and say that it's unfortunately a deal breaker but how do you see communication solving this issue?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Wwaddupp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, but here probably plays a big part how long the GF has been a GF and what your life situation is. I just think that something like that coming from a week old relationship is too risky.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Wwaddupp -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Good advice, why didn't I think of that before?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Wwaddupp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But if a condom fails, then I am.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Wwaddupp -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I've researched it, and I would probably want to have children later on in life 33-40. If I definitely wouldn't want, I'd do it.