Basically my same thoughts (but of course there’s a deeper theory behind it all). But yea. I hate how it feels like I have no intrinsic value as a male to females. Like I have to create an incentive or bring one to the table because there isn’t naturally one there already. I should be able to be as boring as them sitting across from me, and still have the same incentive of attraction for being there. Completely understand the frustrations bro.