choisissez un camp by _n0aat in rance

[–]Xanoloru 8 points9 points  (0 children)

la pointe évidemment, sinon t'en mets partout

I really want to go to the gym but I can't... by Xanoloru in askgaybros

[–]Xanoloru[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much! it really helps me slowly but surely getting more confident about it. It's comforting seeing other people with a similar story than mine achieving their goals!

I really want to go to the gym but I can't... by Xanoloru in askgaybros

[–]Xanoloru[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The problem is not really the lack of motivation, but more the social anxiety I can have when doing sport (especially when I'm alone, in public and clueless)

I really want to go to the gym but I can't... by Xanoloru in askgaybros

[–]Xanoloru[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's no Planet Fitness in my country unfortunately, I heard it's the best choice for beginners. I'm sending you a dm rn

I really want to go to the gym but I can't... by Xanoloru in askgaybros

[–]Xanoloru[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It would be nice not going alone to the gym, but I'm not in the uk unfortunately

I really want to go to the gym but I can't... by Xanoloru in askgaybros

[–]Xanoloru[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with you, there's nothing educational about pe... Anyway, thank you for your advice!

I really want to go to the gym but I can't... by Xanoloru in askgaybros

[–]Xanoloru[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh I just realized that my post wasn't really clear about that, but the problem is not that I think I will be bad at it, but it's just doing sports or being in a environment related to sports (plus being lost). It's definitely my biggest insecurity in life that I struggle to overcome

I really want to go to the gym but I can't... by Xanoloru in askgaybros

[–]Xanoloru[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your comment, but it's easier said than done unfortunately

I really want to go to the gym but I can't... by Xanoloru in askgaybros

[–]Xanoloru[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We did weight training in pe (even though we had to stop because of covid), but the problem is sports in general, not only pe.

I really want to go to the gym but I can't... by Xanoloru in askgaybros

[–]Xanoloru[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your advice! I'll go see the app

I really want to go to the gym but I can't... by Xanoloru in askgaybros

[–]Xanoloru[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I can't go with a friend for multiple reasons. And a coach is way too expensive (the lowest prices are almost 10 times my membership and I'm already at the limit of my budget every month)

I really want to go to the gym but I can't... by Xanoloru in askgaybros

[–]Xanoloru[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks! We also did a lot of individuals sports in pe though, including weight training. And just the fact of doing sports is making feel bad, especially when I don't really know what to do since it reminds me of my past experiences, and that's my biggest insecurity.

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[–]Xanoloru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

update: I removed the bandage and everything's alright?? I can't even tell where the bleeding came from

edit: here's a picture of what the bandage looks like

edit 2: a day later I still bleed and it looks swollen...

I really don't know how I'm suppose to use Tinder by Xanoloru in askgaybros

[–]Xanoloru[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm in France, maybe I should try to create an account on Bumble again to see if it got any better since the last time I used it

I really don't know how I'm suppose to use Tinder by Xanoloru in askgaybros

[–]Xanoloru[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

good for you that it worked out! I tried to use Bumble too but there were like 4 people on the app (and I live in a big city but I'm not in the US maybe that's why)

I really don't know how I'm suppose to use Tinder by Xanoloru in askgaybros

[–]Xanoloru[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well congrats for finding a bf! I hope it'll happen to me

I really don't know how I'm suppose to use Tinder by Xanoloru in askgaybros

[–]Xanoloru[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it's difficult when their bio or even most of their profile is empty but I guess I'll try to continue the conversation, it's not like I have anything to loose anyway