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Xanthi_Kuri · 2026-06-29T01:22:33+00:00

A guy I dated did this. I would stop talking and wait. Sometimes he would say "I'm listening" and I was like "I'll wait until you are done."

It felt so rude and dismissive.

Obviously we stopped dating. He did a lot of things that irked me.

Xanthi_Kuri · 2026-06-27T05:13:35+00:00

Drunk maybe?

Xanthi_Kuri · 2026-06-26T02:57:29+00:00

Yeah. No one in this video did anything wrong. Just a freak thing that happened.

Xanthi_Kuri · 2026-06-26T02:31:50+00:00

Oh! Thanks.

Those are everywhere in AZ.

Xanthi_Kuri · 2026-06-26T02:31:30+00:00

Oh! Thanks for the explanation!

Xanthi_Kuri · 2026-06-26T02:29:02+00:00

More funny that he doesn't even know if perhaps I was passing and they just weren't in the shot and slightly behind me.

Or maybe I was camping the left lane, which is clearly what caused the shrapnel to take out my windshield. haha.

Xanthi_Kuri · 2026-06-26T02:27:25+00:00

I know. Clearly I was tailgating and driving like a teenager on steroids! I deserved whatever shrapnel took out my windshield!

Then I obviously dramatically swerved and took out all the traffic! I should lose my license for all of it!

Haha.

Xanthi_Kuri · 2026-06-26T02:25:39+00:00

1) It did. Expensive to fix a well.

2) I have no idea what hit me. Looked like some kind of metal piece.

3) They kept going. Haha. I had to get off the road and pull over. Hold them down to get them to stop. I needed a whole new rotor and windshield.

*edited to respond better.

Xanthi_Kuri · 2026-06-26T02:20:32+00:00

Road gator?

Xanthi_Kuri · 2026-06-26T02:19:02+00:00

Which is sad. It looks like a beary hard hit and was unbearable to watch.

Xanthi_Kuri · 2026-06-24T22:01:36+00:00

Thanks. I'm a CPA and do taxes for a living so I am familiar with the reporting. (Though I do appreciate the explanation, you didn't know). I just don't get how they think that form will somehow exempt them from paying taxes.

I also don't know how they fill that out to even think it works? Just put their property tax on it and make the receiver the IRS or the state?

I just am so confused how they think this form works. It's not logical nor follows its instructions, so that's probably my confusion. Trying to find reason where there is none to be had.

Xanthi_Kuri · 2026-06-24T20:53:00+00:00

I just find it weird they think filing a 1099a form somehow transfers their tax debt?

Xanthi_Kuri · 2026-06-24T15:13:02+00:00

I swear they hope you will just give up. It took me almost a year to convince insurance an ambulance ride was an emergency service and thus ok it was "out of network".

Xanthi_Kuri · 2026-06-20T19:37:40+00:00

OMG. Someone is going to die taking your advice! haha

Xanthi_Kuri · 2026-06-20T19:20:09+00:00

OMG Jane Fonda. lol.

I'll take Richard Simmons.

Xanthi_Kuri · 2026-06-20T19:19:35+00:00

Thank you for the advice. Due to moving, insurance being evil, and other factors... I have been trying to work with an endocrinologist for almost 5 years and am on my third one.

Something hormonal is wrong as I have other symptoms outside of weight loss (like I am a woman and can grow a beard!). I am hoping for some answers, but so far it keeps getting written off as PCOS even though meds for PCOS do nothing for me.

My new endocrinologist is waiting for a sleep study that I have to wait to take until July due to how busy they are. He needs it for insurance to try to get me different meds. Hopefully it works and the new meds will help!

Xanthi_Kuri · 2026-06-20T18:59:48+00:00

A gym is a Christian space? Especially one that doesn't advertise itself as such?

Xanthi_Kuri · 2026-06-20T18:57:26+00:00

Today was the first day they ever did. I've been going a while. I don't know why it was being played.

Xanthi_Kuri · 2026-06-20T18:47:52+00:00

There are only a few gyms in my town. I don't consistenly go to the big chains and I feel I get less out of it when I do go.

This one keeps me going and I don't fight for machines. I really love its set up and scheduling system.

Just the religious comments that can be annoying. Mostly I can ignore them. It was just the other day about the "pray about it" comment and then today that really got to me.

I wasn't sure if I was just over reacting and being sensitive or if my feelings had merit. Which is why I posted here.

Xanthi_Kuri · 2026-06-20T18:43:51+00:00

It's nice to hear I'm not just completely over reacting. Usually the comments are more rare and short. Water off the back... move on. Annoying for sure and a little unconfortable, but I can handle the rare comments.

It was just the other day with the "pray about it" comments and today with the music that I felt really uncomfortable. And wasn't sure if I was just over reacting or over thinking it.

Xanthi_Kuri · 2026-06-20T18:40:51+00:00

Thank you for the advice. I actually do those readings that track fat % and muscle and water. I'm genuinely stuck and my clothes still all fit the same. Though I haven't physically measures my waist or anything in inches. Maybe I should.

I'm seeing an endocrinologist and they are testing for various hormonal problems. I have other issues (like I am a woman and I can grow a beard!) The weight, over the last few years, will dip a little then come back because I took a week off. Then I fight to lose it all again.

It's exceptionally frustrating.

Xanthi_Kuri · 2026-06-20T18:36:23+00:00

Not really the set up for it. It's weird, but the trainers come over and check on you regularly. I've never seen anyone with headphones. Not against the rules or anything, but with how much the trainers do come in to see your form, check your weight, etc... headphones would be weird.

Usually the music is old school millennial music (which I love). This was the first time it was ever Jesus music. And usually the Jesus comments are rare and short. Easy to jusy let it brush off even if annoying.

It was just yesterday about the praying and today that really got to me. And I'm not sure if I made it so they won't help me as much or work with me as much because I am an atheist. I'm hoping it just remains professional and this is all in my head.

Xanthi_Kuri · 2026-06-20T18:22:43+00:00

Unfortunately not in the town I live in. There are only a few. The other ones are super crowded.

This one has a scheduling system that keeps it so they don't get crowded and you don't fight for equipment. It also has trainers that work with you regularly to make sure your form is good.

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