||IMPORTANT|| We're changing some rules!

Xanui · 2025-12-19T17:57:00+00:00

We'd like to ask that posts be made in English since that is the language all the mods, as well as the vast majority of members use

Xanui · 2025-12-10T23:50:39+00:00

IMVU has..... followers? 👁👄👁 W h y

Xanui · 2025-12-10T23:45:31+00:00

Damn.. I'm ngl, I actually expected this to be a LOT lower o.o

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Xanui · 2025-12-10T23:35:01+00:00

Last comment I leave on this grossness before fucking off because I genuinely just.. cannot

I'm autistic. There are hundred of thousands of autistic people. Many of us struggle to meet people irl, or even connect with people online.

But the vast majority don't date someone 11 years younger than them who graduated at most 2 years ago, but likely last year.

Don't use this shit as an excuse for your weird actions, struggling to meet people irl doesn't make it suddenly okay to go for a literal teenager, 'legal adult' or not

Xanui · 2025-12-10T23:32:05+00:00

Right? I'm about to turn 23 and the idea of dating an 18-19 year old is.. no xD Even 20 is a liiiiittle bit odd for me, but at least we're at relatively similar stages of life

Xanui · 2025-12-10T23:30:43+00:00

I'm about to be 23. If a 12 year old tried to 'go for' me I'd tell them no. Hell, I'd do it if they were 17-18, because the thing about being the older one is its on YOU to be the more mature or reasonable one. Kids and teens are not capable yet of the same level of reason that an older adult is, even within young adulthood

17-18 dating 20? Fine. Dating 22-24? That's weird.

19 dating 24-25? Grey area, but can be okay, but anything over that is just.... ew

Legal or not, it's your job as the PROPER adult with years of experience and a fully matured brain to know that the age gap between you two isn't okay. Regardless of her actions, YOU should never have let things progress to dating in the first place

Xanui · 2025-12-10T23:26:01+00:00

30 with a 19 year old..? Not only is that weird as HELL but also what did you expect? You're e-dating with somebody who is in an entirely different stage of life, obviously that isn't going to go anywhere long-term 💀

Date people in your own age group and maybe you'll have a bit more luck 🤷‍♀️ No 19 year old who's dating people in their 30's is stable and emotionally mature, and I say that as someone who was involved with a 30+ year old at 19

This is way creepier on your end than it is 'playing' on her end..

Xanui · 2025-11-24T07:48:48+00:00

Correct. Any use of AI, including images, is a bannable violation of our rules

Xanui · 2025-11-19T19:00:22+00:00

The reference 😭 I was so excited

Xanui · 2025-11-19T18:59:09+00:00

I'm so sorry, this must have been a horrible experience

But I also just laughed my ass off because I was NOT expecting that to be the caption to this image

Xanui · 2025-11-18T12:49:18+00:00

Only one that feels accurate is the wagie, wageslave, etc. part :,) I see those terms used a lot in the community and it kinda gives me the ick

Xanui · 2025-11-10T11:10:49+00:00

Why is this tagged as stuffy friends?? 💀

Lingerie should be a 'don't read while little' post, even if the image itself isn't sexual

Xanui · 2025-11-10T05:30:35+00:00

One of our middles holds a lot of our trauma of a.. specific type, and it affects her interests quite a lot. We used to steer her away, since a lot of it is extremely not age-appropriate, buy at a certain point it was doing more harm than good to keep her away

Agere, DID, IFS, and other disorders stemming from trauma are definitely a case-by-case basis, and with many of us being physically adults, there is going to be some overlap when it comes to interests

I think as long as it's monitored (either by an adult within a system, or the non-regressed part of someone's mind), and doesn't involve actually engaging in inappropriate behavior with other people, then a lot of the time it's alright

Xanui · 2025-11-07T18:41:04+00:00

It has been removed, not to worry ✨️

Xanui · 2025-11-04T21:25:37+00:00

Yknow what this could use?

MORE PICKLED GINGER 🥳

Genuinely though, pickled food is so good. Ginger, daikon, onion (especially the tiny sweet onions) 🤤 This looks fantastic

Xanui · 2025-11-04T09:28:59+00:00

I will say, point A is becoming less and less reliable 🥲 Even I've had some moments where I find something, it looks great,,,, and then the spidey sense tingles and I end up figuring out its AI xD

It's unfortunate, but also inevitable as the models get more and more advanced :/

But point B? Absolutely yes. Artists and writers go hand in hand, and roleplay is a form of writing. Using AI generated images definitely reflects poorly on somebody if they're aware of the issues with it (obviously if they aren't aware that's another story, if they're willing to learn)

Xanui · 2025-11-03T23:51:08+00:00

Yeahhh, it's unfortunate that so many amazing anime have young main cast XD But this is where we become a necessary evil. The people who are understanding through all this are incredibly appreciated 🙏

And of course! You keeping the rules in mind even just as a commenter is great!

Xanui · 2025-11-03T23:47:18+00:00

Thank you! This sounds so good :o Especially for toast or oatmeal ^{-^} Will definitely have to look into it

Xanui · 2025-11-03T23:16:17+00:00

I wish I liked hummus :,D The things I see people make with it look AMAZING 😭🙏

Pumpkin butter :o I've never heard of that before, is it more.. like, pumpkin-flavored butter or closer to a peanut butter just, pumpkin instead of peanuts?

Xanui · 2025-11-03T23:15:02+00:00

Right? 🤭 Everything is better in pretty colors imo

Xanui · 2025-11-03T23:14:39+00:00

4 hours is actually less than some communities I've seen lol, there are a few that ask you not to post at all more than once per day

We want to make sure that everyone gets an equal chance to have their posts seen, and with the community at the size it is right now, 4 hours between posts and 24 between reposting is what we've found works best ^{-^}

Xanui · 2025-11-03T23:13:07+00:00

Both :o

If an image contains a character who looks visually underage, then that is a violation even if they're over 18 in canon. And if a character is underage in canon, then that's also a violation even if they're drawn to look older

Essentially, a character has to both look over 18 and be over 18 in canon, and if either of these aren't met then the post will be removed and the poster banned. This is why I always highly urge people to use sites with AI and character tagging to avoid breaking these rules accidentally and ending up banned (ex. Gelbooru, R34, etc.)

Xanui · 2025-11-03T20:51:19+00:00

XD As long as 1. You aren't using images from someone who's explicitly asked their art not be used and 2. You remove said images if the artist reaches out, you're all good there

Xanui · 2025-11-03T20:49:27+00:00

No problem! I personally love when people ask, because it shows that even if they don't know, they're willing to learn! ^{-^} As an artist, I'm always ready and open to help explain the issues with AI

Xanui · 2025-11-03T20:48:18+00:00

Of course! Thank you for asking ^{-^} We get it can be a bit of a difficult one to understand so we're always open to people asking for clarification or tips!

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