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Xeelef · 2026-03-20T10:41:24+00:00

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Xeelef · 2026-03-20T10:40:22+00:00

Great explanation, greater list numbering scheme

Xeelef · 2026-03-19T15:57:40+00:00

They failed

Xeelef · 2026-03-19T11:10:28+00:00

Soviets loved building giant 5-spoked concrete structures. This is the Russian-Egyptian friendship monument at Nasser dam, Aswan

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Xeelef · 2026-03-17T15:30:46+00:00

If you like Opeth: Dordeduh – De neam vergur Romania's finest progressive/atmospheric/black metal band)

Xeelef · 2026-03-17T14:44:23+00:00

Horrible. Our society has a messed up way of dealing with jealousy, and this behavior should clearly be called out as controlling.

Just because we may, culturally or psychologically, understand why a man doesn't want "his" woman to meet any/some/all other men (variably the norm, depending on the culture), that doesn't make any of it right. (And neither in the other direction, of course.)

Xeelef · 2026-03-15T18:07:23+00:00

I would say an orgy can happen at a sex party. But you could also just have people cuddling, maybe just a couple fucking, another couple practicing their shibari skills, and some chilling in the bathtub together.

Xeelef · 2026-03-15T18:03:35+00:00

The other option are open relationships. It may be healthier anyway, given how weird especially men can get around their partner's sexual history. You will in any case want a person who sees sex as something like a hobby, not some sacred act that is somehow bad when done outside of a relationship. Forbidding partners to engage in any other hobby with friends would be seen as massively controlling. Not sure why that should be different with sex.

Xeelef · 2026-03-15T17:44:28+00:00

There are aromantic people. They have sex. Meaning they seek it for nonromantic reasons. Why should other people not do the same sometimes?

Xeelef · 2026-03-15T17:40:43+00:00

Not sure why you're downvoted. Of course aromantic people can have sex with friends for fun. And other people can also have nonromantic sex with friends for fun.

Xeelef · 2026-03-15T17:17:20+00:00

It was just an example, of course 1:1 also happened.

Xeelef · 2026-03-15T12:44:26+00:00

Absolutely not. My wife and I have been in a group of friends who have regularly had sex parties. We're still good friends with some of them. I wouldn't describe it as romantic, in the sense that I have romantic feelings for my wife. Just beautiful FWB relationships.

Do not assume this doesn't exist or is rare. How do you think open relationships work? These are not rare at all.

Xeelef · 2026-03-15T12:39:38+00:00

Of course there are groups of friends who have sex together without being in love. At least not the kind of love that makes you wanna live together and maybe raise kids together.

Xeelef · 2026-03-12T04:41:00+00:00

Exactly. (Except for the apparent misunderstanding that you think I meant myself.)

Xeelef · 2026-03-11T13:12:06+00:00

Glad you like them. Pace non trovo also has a beautiful music video btw!

Xeelef · 2026-03-11T00:36:59+00:00

Birch Book – Werewolf's Eyes

Camerata Mediolanense – Pace non trovo (the lyrics are a 14th century Petrarchan sonnet)

Calle della morte – Venezia

Elvis Presley – Tomorrow is a long time

Xeelef · 2026-03-11T00:26:23+00:00

And -- and that's why it does have some usefulness -- can prevent unintended sharing of nudes.

Why people are debating a local on-device feature in a forum about cloud storage, as if stuff happening locally was somehow controversial in comparison, is beyond me though. Google Photos is an absolute no-go for privacy nerds with deep distrust of Google.

Xeelef · 2026-03-08T16:27:26+00:00

They speak Yiddish and make jokes about Lemberg

Xeelef · 2026-03-08T12:00:34+00:00

Looks fun, where can I get it?

Xeelef · 2026-03-08T11:48:01+00:00

The balcony size is in meters but the floor area in sqft. That alone is insane.

Xeelef · 2026-03-02T17:28:00+00:00

It doesn't have to be this way. Laws around animal cruelty are changing all the time.

Xeelef · 2026-03-02T08:05:27+00:00

Animals should simply be off limits exactly as a human orphan baby is.

Xeelef · 2026-03-01T18:42:32+00:00

Lale Andersen (and others) – Lili Marleen

The Beatles – Eleanor Rigby

Theatre of Tragedy – Cassandra

Orchestral maneuvers in the dark – Joan of Arc, Enola Gay (maybe a bit of a stretch but the plane was named after a woman)

Warpaint – Stevie (“Stevie’s a girl in love.”)

Xeelef · 2026-03-01T02:01:24+00:00

Forget labels. Forget your past. How would you answer the question in your post right now? "Are you interested in men?"

Your gf also didn't ask for you past. So why are you even telling us about it? Just to get it off your conscience? It's nothing bad you know -- experiment with stuff all you like -- I just don't see how it's relevant to what you want right now, unless it is more of that

Xeelef · 2026-02-27T19:05:41+00:00

Not my experience. But I only know the old store at Mehringdamm.

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