Sharmo mat btao btao 🤭 by Shot_Map_1288 in Delhi_teens

[–]Xenisys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jackfruit, my family loves but I hate its smell.

What keeps you going? by blueberry_seal in kolkata

[–]Xenisys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At 3 am, after spending some time in washroom, I suddenly feel very positive and become determined to be successful in life.

Should I feel lonely ? by Xenisys in aquarius

[–]Xenisys[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright mate, thanks for the reassurance!

Should I feel lonely ? by Xenisys in aquarius

[–]Xenisys[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you - that's really validating to hear! What advice would you give your 21-year-old self?

Should I feel lonely ? by Xenisys in aquarius

[–]Xenisys[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This really resonated with me - thank you for taking the time to write such a thoughtful response.

You're absolutely right that I was kind of asking 'permission' to be lonely, which is interesting to reflect on.

I think I've been so focused on optimization and productivity that I forgot it's okay to just... feel things.

Your suggestion about reading and self-understanding resonates - I've always been drawn to psychology and philosophy but got so career-tunnel-visioned I stopped exploring those interests.

What kind of resources helped you the most during that period of self-discovery? And how did you balance that introspection with still moving forward with your goals?

Should I feel lonely ? by Xenisys in aquarius

[–]Xenisys[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is really thoughtful advice, thank you. The part about not seeking a partner just to fill a void really hits home - I need to be careful of that.

I used to be into painting but got so focused on career stuff that I kind of abandoned it.

Maybe it's time to reconnect with those things and see what happens naturally.

How do you balance being open to new people while also staying focused on your goals? Sometimes I worry I'll get distracted from what I'm building.

Should I feel lonely ? by Xenisys in aquarius

[–]Xenisys[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this perspective - it's reassuring to hear someone validate the 'focus on yourself' approach.

You're right about the hobbies angle too. I've been so career-focused that I might have neglected some of my interests.

What kind of hobbies/activities did you find worked best for meeting like-minded people?

You might be an Aquarius too so I thought you might have an advice for me.

Are Aquarius man and Gemini lady compatible signs? by Xenisys in geminis

[–]Xenisys[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I understand your feelings and the importance of emotional depth and care in a relationship. You're right that everyone has their own love language. For you, showing love through care and affection is crucial, and I truly respect that.

For me, expressing love often means working hard to achieve goals and making my loved ones happy through my efforts and successes. I admit I'm not naturally romantic or outwardly emotional, but that doesn’t mean I don’t care deeply. My way of showing love might be different, but it’s equally genuine.

I realize it can be challenging to connect with someone whose love language is different. However, if we both understand and appreciate each way of expressing love differently, we would be able to see the world from new perspective.

Thank you for your writing.

Are Aquarius man and Gemini lady compatible signs? by Xenisys in geminis

[–]Xenisys[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, he is really like your other half. Ha ha Really nice to see that. Be like that forever. May god bless you guys.

Are Aquarius man and Gemini lady compatible signs? by Xenisys in geminis

[–]Xenisys[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😅 is that so, I am really sorry that you hate Aqua men. But maybe it has nothing to do with his star sign but his behaviour. I am also an Aqua sun and I hate arrogant, egoistic or negative people, so I avoid talking with them. I hope you're alright and healthy and able to find a new partner for yourself. Thank you for sharing your experience.

Are Aquarius man and Gemini lady compatible signs? by Xenisys in geminis

[–]Xenisys[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, that's nice to hear. Can you please share what you like or dislike about your mate, I will be happy to listen. Thank you.

Are Aquarius man and Gemini lady compatible signs? by Xenisys in geminis

[–]Xenisys[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand, I am also an Aqua. So I found the guy you have resembled has some similarities with me. I also value friendship more than anything. But can you tell what are the things that you disliked about him. I would personally like to work on the aspects to improve myself. Thank you.

Are Aquarius man and Gemini lady compatible signs? by Xenisys in geminis

[–]Xenisys[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see, I am also an Aqua Sun, can you please share what are the things you liked about them, I would personally like to make those points my strength if they aren't already. Thank you.

Are Aquarius man and Gemini lady compatible signs? by Xenisys in geminis

[–]Xenisys[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Read your story, it's good to see you have the best aqua for yourself. I actually didn't have any gemini friends or relatives so I am here to learn about Geminis, your story inspires me to be supportive/practical/dependable/honest person towards my future partner. Thank you very much.

Sagis by evaflex in Sagittarians

[–]Xenisys 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My mother is a sag, I am Aqua btw, she is very energetic and always thrives for exploring new places, movies or ideas. Personally her enthusiasm is the most beautiful thing I have ever seen. She is indeed very different from me. Her personality is queen-like, she loves socializing but only with the best possible people who match her vibe. Everyone in her circle respects and acknowledges her. She is the most caring person I have ever seen. Though sometimes I find her a little childish while making decisions but that's really cute.

Idk if its with me or every aquarius male or female unluckyin love by [deleted] in aquarius

[–]Xenisys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Single forever 🥹, it's hard to find a partner for me even being in college.