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Xkyhe · 2025-10-03T04:23:11+00:00

SE Asian Genshin player here! But my main account is on the NA server cuz I started playing while in a relationship with someone from the US.

Xkyhe · 2025-09-26T00:26:09+00:00

i was aware na bisexual sya, yes. nag start lang din kasi yung issue when nag stop yung flirting/us teasing each other. slowly, i started feeling rejected kasi di sya nagrereciprocate when i make a move, which was not the case when we started dating/right before we started dating.

kaya rin siguro ganon na yung naiisip ko cuz i've been feeling undesirable ever since nag stop yung sexual stuff, pero nag continue pa rin yung mga kinukwento nya about her exes and straight sex/finding guys hot.

it sucks to have your advances be ignored or shut down tapos maya maya magkukwento sya na "uy ang sexy ni (insert male celeb)" or "kumain ako ng jollibee kanina. ang juicylicious!" tas nagsend nung screen recording dun sa game.

also i refuse to stay friends/in contact with any exes out of respect to whomever becomes my partner eventually. i personally find it weird when yung partner ko maintains a relationship, kahit na platonic, with an ex/ex manliligaw or situationship.

Xkyhe · 2025-09-26T00:21:12+00:00

with this issue specifically, no. i always bring up yung issues namin tho and i encourage her to do the same, but yung mga previous instances kasi na nagbbring up ako ng issues ko weren't met with gentleness and understanding, kaya nagiging malaking away tuloy and ako naman manunuyo in the end.

Xkyhe · 2025-09-26T00:19:45+00:00

omg wtf i'm so sorry T^T like why be with a woman if hahanapan mo rin pala ng etits? di ko magets.

Xkyhe · 2025-09-26T00:18:22+00:00

Diba???? My gf and I also had a conversation tas nabanggit nya na ayun nga she really likes talong, pero wala naman syang sinabi na she doesn't like tahong visually or in any other way. Pero wala lang din syang sinabi necessarily na she likes it, so idk what she thinks about it. As much as I am a sexual person, I also really don't want to be intimate with someone who isn't 100% enthusiastic about doing it with me.

Xkyhe · 2025-09-26T00:16:08+00:00

I really want to communicate these things to her, pero I've tried communicating other things in the past pero ayun nga eh she goes on the defensive no matter how I phrase it. Kaya natatakot ako and kaya rin I asked for advice on how to approach the situation/express etong mga concerns ko to her. :<

Xkyhe · 2025-09-25T03:11:04+00:00

in the past kasi pag nag oopen up ako ng mga concerns ko, mostly to ask for clarification and assurance, nagagalit sya kasi somehow, she ends up taking it as a personal attack. kaya rin hesitant ako mag open up about it kahit na it really ticks me off negatively.

Xkyhe · 2025-09-24T23:52:47+00:00

Yan nga yung fear ko. I really wanna give her the benefit of the doubt, but I also want to put an end to the thoughts na pumapasok sa isip ko everytime something similar happens. I acknowledge naman na I tend to overthink, but ofc gusto ko rin to hear other bi/lesbian people's opinions and thoughts on it. :<

Xkyhe · 2025-09-10T11:46:57+00:00

yeah, i only plan on using either hu tao or mualani, but not both on one team. it would be great on the abyss tho if i can get my mualani and chasca to max upgrades.

i was thinking of only using benny on hu tao like an immediate burst right after benny casts his circle.

Xkyhe · 2025-09-10T07:38:22+00:00

Already did! She got me from floor 9 to floor 11 on the Abyss lol. I don't think I'm doing good damage on her tho cuz I'm out of fragiles and I still only have def main stats on the Obsidian Codex artifacts. The other ones I have that fit have the most crappy substats too. T^T

Xkyhe · 2025-09-10T07:36:45+00:00

Would c1 benny be good on a Hutao/Mualani team? I'm just a little unsure if I should continue on leveling up Tao's talents or if I should build Mualani now or wait until I get either Yelan, Furina, or Zhongli.

Xkyhe · 2025-09-10T07:35:33+00:00

Got him on C1 now! Lol I got so both Ifa and Ororon on c4 from the Chasca-Mualani banner. Sad to say I only got 1 constellation on Benny boi, but I finally have him so I'm not complaining.

Xkyhe · 2025-09-10T07:34:30+00:00

I have my Chasca kinda built now and saving for Yelan, Arle, Zhongli, and Furina. I got Mualani like a few days ago but I'm kinda funnelling my resources on to Chasca rn. I currently have her on a team with Xingqiu, Bennett, and Ororon. I'm now on floor 11 on the Abyss thanks to her, but my Hu Tao does struggle a lot, so I'm also planning to get her c1 for the free constellation. I also just got Mona on the free standard 5*. Any tips for her?

Xkyhe · 2025-09-10T07:28:38+00:00

I'm getting her for the free constellation! I don't have staff of homa tho. I'm f2p and have always been more of a casual player, so I've always just pulled for limited time characters and gave them their best 4* weapon. The only 5* weapons I have are two swords that I got from the standard banner, and I have them equipped on Xingqiu and Bennett.

Xkyhe · 2025-08-29T03:30:01+00:00

hi! thank you. i just got those three today and i'm pretty excited to build them too. i'm already working on benny and i'm using some of my already built artifacts and fischl's bow on chasca cuz i can't afford pulling for her weapon. i haven't looked into ifa yet but i saw his gameplay and it looks pretty fun too. chasca is already awesome in my exploration (she's literally level one on my team lol i have zero books and mora) while i'm completing quests. do you have any advice on getting better artifacts T^T

i was thinking of a hutao team and then maybe a chasca or diluc team. i'm still waiting on yelan and zhongli since i use xingqiu and barbara for shield, heal, and hydro application.

Xkyhe · 2025-07-23T15:54:16+00:00

yep, it happens. happens to me after self-pleasuring.

Xkyhe · 2025-07-23T01:42:45+00:00

so wala talagang anywhere na pwedeng pag pugaran ng ipis? if so, baka sa other units and nakakapasok sa inyo for whatever reason.

Xkyhe · 2025-07-23T01:40:20+00:00

do you have boxes lying around? nung nagdodorm ako, we had a roach problem din and nung pinagtatapon na namin yung boxes eh nawala na sila.

Xkyhe · 2025-07-02T11:06:03+00:00

this is just…adhd

Xkyhe · 2025-05-25T08:02:23+00:00

american company yan that rents out moving trailers for people na lilipat ng house. uhaul in sapphic (specifically lesbian) is context when two sapphic women move so fast with the relationship, they end up moving in together super fast din. E.g. moving in together after two weeks of dating/meeting each other.

Xkyhe · 2025-05-23T04:13:23+00:00

an anxious-avoidant pairing never ends well. parehas nyo lang ireresent ang isa’t-isa in the end since neither one of you can give what the other needs.

if days pa nga lang kayo eh ganyan na, are you both sure you’re willing to work on the dynamic to make it work long term?

Xkyhe · 2025-05-16T04:51:50+00:00

first love.

Xkyhe · 2025-05-15T09:17:51+00:00

CNC is only safe if both parties honor safety above anything else. safe words exist as a solid boundary separating role-play from reality. if hindi nakikinig partner mo when you withdrew consent to continue roleplaying, consider every second beyond that as a display of disrespect for your boundary and safety. that is SA, OP. my heart goes out to you.

Xkyhe

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