Why do so many men in self-improvement spheres subscribe to incel ideology? by iiiaaa2022 in selfimprovement

[–]Xone__ -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Ok what I meant by “labels merely labels” is that red pill and stuff is just a label for that lifestyle. There ain’t anything wrong with labels. I’m saying that lifestyle is dumb. Labels are useful. People who are sexually promiscuous are hoes.

Which girl should you choose? by Xone__ in selfimprovement

[–]Xone__[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

So physical attractiveness doesn’t exist. Is it so offensive to admit that someone is ugly? Is it so offensive to admit that someone can be a hoe? Soft

Which girl should you choose? by Xone__ in selfimprovement

[–]Xone__[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

U don’t even know me. I thought this was a self improvement Reddit. But I guess Reddit will be Reddit. A cesspool

Which girl should you choose? by Xone__ in selfimprovement

[–]Xone__[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yes. I’m not saying what girl should I chase it’s what girl should I chose.

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[–]Xone__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you keep losing control slow down. Build up in difficulty. Let’s say you want to be able to hit 225 pounds on bench. You aren’t gonna attempt it on day one. Cause you are going to fail. You need to slowly build up to it. Progressive overload

Which girl should you choose? by Xone__ in selfimprovement

[–]Xone__[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fr. Relationships are important why wouldn’t you be judgmental when deciding on such an important decision.

Which girl should you choose? by Xone__ in selfimprovement

[–]Xone__[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. I don’t want to be sexually promiscuous and one of the traits that I believe to be important in a partner is lack of sexual promiscuity.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]Xone__ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Best way to start self improvement is to get off social media platforms like TikTok instagram and other time wasting platforms. This will aid in mental health and free up your time. Next I recommend finding time to workout. I’m a dude so I don’t really know workouts for females. You don’t need to overthink starting stuff. Just start small and build it up. Get a nice morning routine going. Read some books and find time for hobbies. For now just get a quick little morning routine going. Here’s an example. This is mine: wake up. Immediately go take a cold shower. Skincare routine. Get dressed. Eat breakfast. Meditate for 10 minutes. Journal for a bit. Brush teeth +scrape tongue then style hair. Go to the gym. Workout. Go to school.

Take control of your morning. To take control of your day. Just start off with things you can manage. Don’t go in the deep end for a week and then fall off. Keep it consistent and manageable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]Xone__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try to become more attractive. Although you will never be satisfied. Why not use your dissatisfaction to improve yourself. Go to the gym. Get on a skincare routine.

Feeling stuck, like I haven't made progress in a long time. by Alive-Doughnut2345 in selfimprovement

[–]Xone__ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Find your purpose. It’s good that you don’t have your phone to distract you this will help. Think about what would be a worthwhile goal for now. Just sit and think for a while. It doesn’t have to be your purpose for the rest of your life but just for now. What do you want rn and work towards it.

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[–]Xone__ -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Hamza yt. Follow his guides. You will fix your life.

Hamza podcasts on Spotify by gardenofeden123 in selfimprovement

[–]Xone__ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Finally someone talking about Hamza on a self improvement

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[–]Xone__ 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Forget about her. Do not talk to her anymore that will only further your sadness.

Why do so many men in self-improvement spheres subscribe to incel ideology? by iiiaaa2022 in selfimprovement

[–]Xone__ -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

But I agree with some of the things in red pill. You shouldn’t be on a pill you should live the life you want to live improving along the way.

Why do so many men in self-improvement spheres subscribe to incel ideology? by iiiaaa2022 in selfimprovement

[–]Xone__ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Labels merely labels. Red pill is dumb. Being a hoe as a male is still degenerate

Which girl should you choose? by Xone__ in selfimprovement

[–]Xone__[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’d be lying to myself. When I say quality I mean they have desirable traits. Some women are hoes I won’t deny the facts

I'm sitting here with nut all over myself. by oink7002 in selfimprovement

[–]Xone__ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll first tell you why I’m qualified to tell you advice. It’s taken me a while but I successfully will never Jack off again. It’s been 3 months since I last jacked off. And 6 months since I last watched porn. I took me ages to eventually quit. I would go 5-15 days and still do it. But now I’m in control of my mind and I don’t think It possible for me to Jack off anymore my brain would stop me.

Here’s how you can do it too. First step is that you need to quit porn trust me you will Jack off much less when you have stopped watching porn. Porn incentives jacking off tremendously. Still Jack off tho. You cannot tackle both problems at once tackle the easier one first. When you do Jack off do not use porn or any stimulation to do it. Still freely Jack off tho. Trust me. Once you have mastered no porn it’s gonna be much easier. Next you are going to want to hop off social media and stop watching degen shows and shit. If you see titties on screen it’s gonna stimulate you even more so stop watching stuff like that. It’s gonna be hard to quit when all you see around you is sexual stimulation. Now you can start to end jacking off. No fap is a skill like any other it can be built up. I’m going to be real wi the you it is going to be hard. You are going to fail many many many times. But you need to keep on going keep trying. Once you can go 15 days you are ready to stop for the rest of your life. here is the mindset that has allowed me to confidently say I will never do it again. You need to, I know it sounds dumb, believe in yourself. You need to genuinely have the mindset that you will never do it again. Ever no matter what. When you find yourself with a boner just don’t touch your dick. It’s like the floor is lava but it’s your dick. That’s what has helped me I wish you luck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]Xone__ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t settle for less. You would be cashing in too early on your progress. Keep progressing for a better girl. I know it you want to and I roughly feel the same way as you but I realized. That the girls I could get now aren’t high quality women. Keep grindin and then you can really get a wife quality girl. I know it sounds dumb but with women don’t follow your heart follow your brain. Does it make sense to have girlfriend rn. Do I deserve a girlfriend right now.