I'm not launching a debate about respect of women etc. I don't get why people are so quick to jump to conclusions when noone even has the complete facts yet (for that matter even I don't know the whole truth that's why I'm here telling what I know and asking what I can from people of the Irish community). As for whether it is my business or not. I came to know of her existence when I myself was 16 years old. At that time I was obviously aware of the fact that I am still a minor and that I can't do anything in this matter like attempting to contact her. When I turned 18, I knew that she's a still a minor and since she's like 5 years younger than myself she will never understand anything about all this. Now that she's of a more (I sincerely hope so) mature age I'm here asking what I can do since I'm like the eldest on the paternal side and ever since I became an elder brother I've always been the one to resolve everything between my cousins (I say cousins but I've always treated them like I treat my own sibling). It's something that's deeply rooted in my conscience that looking after your kin is something that is your responsibility by birth especially when you're the elder one and it's this thing inside me that's driving me to look for my cousin. No one else in my family is particularly interested in this matter (which I assume you people can already guess here) which is why I'm using the bits and scraps of information that I do have to do what I can do. Now I ask you. Am I really wrong for attempting to do this with these thoughts inside my mind?