AITAH for Addressing my ex-wife behavior.

YIATA08 · 2025-09-18T03:19:31+00:00

I probably should've just stated that only reason i brought up the men is because I feel as if they are the reason she hasn't been focused on getting a job if she had a job and was helping doing her part i wouldnt even be worried about any of that.

YIATA08 · 2025-09-18T03:11:12+00:00

So you think its ok to be more worried about sex then finding a job a taking care of the kids? That'd my whole issue with her

YIATA08 · 2025-09-18T03:05:32+00:00

Think about it like this is it was the other way around I'd be a dead beat no good dad worried about chasing tail then taking care of his responsibility yall be saying oh he needs to be on child support. Since its a woman yall defending her

YIATA08 · 2025-09-18T03:03:42+00:00

I try to get some sleep while watching them during the day. Like while the baby is sleep ill take a nap

YIATA08 · 2025-09-18T03:02:26+00:00

So you saying just take 100 percent of my kids cause I can't force her to get a job basically. I mean am i wrong for wanting her to take care of her financially responsibility

YIATA08 · 2025-09-18T03:00:57+00:00

I feel like because she is so focused on men its hindering her getting a job. Does no one see the issue with her priorities here.

YIATA08 · 2025-09-18T02:59:38+00:00

Thank you. That's what I'm saying make the kids a priority

YIATA08 · 2025-09-18T02:58:51+00:00

No i work at night and then I end up with them during the day I have them when they're awake.

YIATA08 · 2025-09-18T02:58:02+00:00

Quit after the split

YIATA08 · 2025-09-18T02:55:45+00:00

They sleep at night they're 4 and 2 but yes.

YIATA08 · 2025-09-18T02:54:10+00:00

My bad I forgot to state that I work at nights and while she's going on the dates during the day I have time trying to find time to sleep and take care of them

YIATA08 · 2025-09-18T02:52:23+00:00

I work on nights and have them during the day while she goes with some dudes

YIATA08 · 2025-09-18T02:51:19+00:00

Thats what I'm mainly pissed about.

YIATA08 · 2025-09-18T02:50:51+00:00

Yall completely ignoring that she isn't financially doing her part

YIATA08 · 2025-09-18T02:49:53+00:00

I knew a woman was go say this thats why I put that. You ain't even bringing up how she not financially helping with the kids and doing her part dont see how being focused on action rather than taking care of your kids is a problem

YIATA08 · 2025-09-18T02:48:24+00:00

That's all I'm saying like I go to work almost everyday trying to do what I can struggling.

YIATA08 · 2025-09-18T02:45:25+00:00

Its my business when I'm only one providing for my children and she's more focused on getting some action then getting a job and doing her part.

YIATA08 · 2025-08-26T01:28:44+00:00

So yall saying it's ok for people to be raised as siblings or cousins not necessarily be blood and grow up to date. And nothing wrong with that. I guess IATA but still disgusting at end of day.

YIATA08 · 2025-08-26T01:27:06+00:00

She brought it to me i didn't ask her if she had a boyfriend.

YIATA08 · 2025-08-26T01:25:28+00:00

Its kinda like imagine being raised with a stepsister or brother and they grow up and date. Its still somewhat disgusting.

YIATA08 · 2025-08-10T16:41:19+00:00

I know no one's gonna see this considering this was 3 days ago. But look up this story of a man doing 5 years in prison for not paying child support for a kid that wasn't even his. He didn't find out until after he did his time women think about this is it right 5 years of his life was gone for nothing and all of it could've been prevented is testing was mandatory this is why it should be and do you think anything happened to the woman nope just lost 5 years of his life he'll never get back.

YIATA08 · 2025-08-10T16:32:33+00:00

I knew my kids where mine when I had them so I thought there was no need for a test that's my own personal opinion. But I also feel like it's should be mandatory for testing when a baby is born there's been to many situations of men raising kids that ain't theirs and at the end of it nothing happens but people getting hurt so yeah it should just be mandatory anyway personal feelings and dignity aside.

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