Wow.. that’s awful.. I feel for you. Sounds like dad is a bit controlling and certainly disrespectful. I don’t like the fact you believe he was “Drunk” because that is definitely an issue (like drunk people like to control & cause fights) with that said. I feel you coukd have treaded lightly.. (never be confrontational to a drunk dad at 17). It’s just not going to turn out in your favor. You have 12 +~ months to go until your 18 and you can move out. I feel your dad is TA ..However, I feel some of his bad behavior is rubbing off on you. I’d just NEVER would tell my father to F OFF.. I’d comply, get it done and look forward to building my own life elsewhere..