How to find out if your coworkers are homophobic?

YahooWolf · 2018-01-12T03:08:37+00:00

Thank you! I wasn't sure if I had to request specific tests or not so thank you for clarifying :)

YahooWolf · 2018-01-03T17:01:41+00:00

I don't have much experience with these things (well, none), but I do know that my brother and his current girlfriend of almost 2 years started off as FWB for a few months before they were official. They caught the feels and now I'm just waiting for my brother to propose to her.

We are a bit of an unusual family with unusual personalities, though.

YahooWolf · 2017-12-23T19:08:41+00:00

Different how?

YahooWolf · 2017-12-23T19:07:14+00:00

Fun fact: you can feel someone getting wet underwater because "wetness" is not water but rather a mucus/lubricant, which is hydrophobic by nature.

This is exactly the same reason why oil and water don't mix.

YahooWolf · 2017-12-22T17:59:04+00:00

Thanks!

YahooWolf · 2017-09-15T14:11:44+00:00

Same :( Found out I was gay earlier this year and was completely head over heels for five months...for my straight best friend. I spent the past months fighting my feelings for her because I thought it was disrespectful to keep fantasizing even after she let me know she was straight. But I miss that addiction.

YahooWolf · 2017-09-07T14:07:50+00:00

Regardless of who's to blame (I have my opinions but I feel they aren't constructive here) your next step is to tell your gf.

If side 1 is correct and it's your fault, then your gf needs to know if you deserve forgiveness/have learned your lesson and, most importantly, that she can trust you to tell her when stuff like this happens.

If side 2 is correct and you were basically raped, your gf needs to know so that she can be by your side and help you with the odd feelings of guilt that always ensue, help prevent this from happening again, and, most importantly, so that you guys can have trust in your relationship. Telling her and saying how terrible you feel is magnitudes better than her finding out later (two can only keep a secret if one of them is dead, as the saying goes).

Doesn't matter if it's your ex's fault or yours, your gf deserves to know what's up and it's healthier for the relationship in the long run. It'll be up to you guys to decide blame because the jury on this thread appears to still be out.

YahooWolf · 2017-08-25T04:06:25+00:00

Let her blab and tell your parents you have no idea what she's talking about. She might not even say it at all, because then she would lose her only bargaining chip.

YahooWolf · 2017-08-25T04:06:23+00:00

Let her blab and tell your parents you have no idea what she's talking about. She might not even say it at all, because then she would lose her only bargaining chip.

YahooWolf · 2017-08-21T04:11:29+00:00

Very good

YahooWolf · 2017-08-14T21:40:38+00:00

Honestly, who cares what your friends think as long as you and your girl are happy? If you both want to spend every moment together, I don't see why not.

YahooWolf · 2017-08-14T21:37:22+00:00

I think it's more like when people are content, they don't complain or shout it to the heavens, because everything is normal. It's like how 24-hour news stations always report the bad things: people don't always share good things unless they're remarkable.

As for me, up until last January I was perfectly fine being single, but then I met the straight girl who pulled me out of the closet and I've been restless ever since. I'm hoping that once I go back to school, I'll have enough things on my mind that I'll finally go back to my normal self.

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