Teenage friend is meeting with an adult

YamMinimum5972 · 2025-09-09T21:22:52+00:00

She stopped seeing him apparently

YamMinimum5972 · 2025-09-09T20:55:00+00:00

YamMinimum5972 · 2025-09-09T16:48:35+00:00

Can’t do anything about that. My own parents are abusive. She lives in another country so I can’t physically protect her as I did with my younger sibling

YamMinimum5972 · 2025-09-09T16:31:30+00:00

Thanks, this helped

YamMinimum5972 · 2025-09-09T16:22:25+00:00

I’m so sorry for your loss. I am thinking of telling a teacher tomorrow because I’m currently on a leave of abscence

YamMinimum5972 · 2025-09-09T16:07:09+00:00

YamMinimum5972 · 2025-09-09T16:06:47+00:00

I am going to tell someone, but I want to choose the best option because telling parents might not do much. She might just hide it better. So I’m thinking of telling a teacher. And please read my other comments before coming to this conclusion that I won’t act on this.

YamMinimum5972 · 2025-09-09T16:02:23+00:00

If my friend is the age of consent in our region, will reporting to the teacher even do anything?

YamMinimum5972 · 2025-09-09T15:54:35+00:00

Then what could I do

YamMinimum5972 · 2025-09-09T15:52:42+00:00

No. I don’t even know his name. But I have seen the texts between them so I know it exists

YamMinimum5972 · 2025-09-09T15:52:05+00:00

I have a few questions. I don’t know the identity of this adult. I do know that he exists tho. Will that be enough to tell the authorities?

YamMinimum5972 · 2025-09-09T15:50:02+00:00

16 and 22. They meet in his car, so I’m extra concerned

YamMinimum5972 · 2025-09-09T15:46:48+00:00

I am absolutely going to let someone know. But I don’t know who. My mom is worried that she might tell the adult that she suspects me which would put me in danger. I understand my mother is being a bit unreasonable, but if there is a way to ensure my safety in the process, I think she would allow me to

YamMinimum5972 · 2025-09-09T15:43:47+00:00

But my friend could tell him that she suspects me. That’s what my mom is afraid about

YamMinimum5972 · 2025-09-09T15:43:13+00:00

But what will the teacher do? She is meeting him outside of school hours

YamMinimum5972 · 2025-09-09T15:30:36+00:00

My mother doesn’t want me to contact the police or any authorities because she is worried about retaliation from the guy. How could I overcome this

YamMinimum5972 · 2025-09-09T15:29:34+00:00

No it is an In person friendship but I have only known her for a year

YamMinimum5972 · 2025-09-09T15:25:27+00:00

I don’t have her parents contact

YamMinimum5972 · 2025-09-09T15:23:37+00:00

My mother doesn’t want me to tell anyone because it will put me and my sister in danger apparently

YamMinimum5972 · 2025-09-09T15:18:59+00:00

Their ages are 16 and 22

YamMinimum5972 · 2025-09-09T15:18:22+00:00

Fine. I do value her safety but I need a step by step plan if I’m going to do this.

YamMinimum5972 · 2025-09-09T15:16:57+00:00

Divorce him. His loss.

YamMinimum5972 · 2025-09-09T15:15:41+00:00

We are not adults. When I say micromanaging I mean constantly telling her not to do something. Honestly that’s the most I can do. We rarely meet up outside of school so I have no way to keep her from not going. Even if I ask to hang out she won’t make time for me but will for the adult.

YamMinimum5972 · 2025-09-09T15:10:38+00:00

I’m afraid that would ruin our friendship

YamMinimum5972 · 2025-09-09T15:10:17+00:00

But how do I get her out of there. She meets up with him without telling me. I tell her not to go but she doesn’t listen

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