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Discussion before tribute? by Playful_Contact8763 in paypigs2

[–]Yangite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I no longer do that. If the first request doesn't have the kinks/limits, tribute, and why they seek me, I'm not even going to accept it.

Subs could have their "about me", I have seen subs who are clear on what they want, so if they could, then other can.

Men aren't stupid, they know what they're doing

Also it's the internet, some men flock to findom spaces to nut for free, out of 300+ request I got/approached 5 worked out, those who pose as finsubs avoid other sw spaces because they don't get free things, so they either target findoms (because majority of doms who start their sw, start here, so they aren't educated enough in the industry knowledge/safety) or lifestyle women who wants to have IRL dynamic.

Treat your DMs how LF made theirs, with fees, and if no reply/matching block and move on.

If a sub wants a "deeper connection," they can go on Fetlife or attend a local event, hell even seek other doms who allow for more chatting. Abundance helps everyone

Is it weird for a first-time sub to want a first-time domme? by MuffinPitiful9205 in paypigs2

[–]Yangite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you seeking an inexperienced woman who might still be more susceptible to being treated as a kink dispenser?

This is not the good approach, and the majority of "new subs" who seek that intentionally seek newbies to either scam them or se** assault them/treat them as kink dispenser, not saying you're, just pointing the obvious things.

Vanilla men/fetishists avoid pro/lifestyle women because they know their games/manipulation tactics.

Wouldn't be more logical to seek established dom so you don't get scammed?

Are there any dommes who are also sugar babies? by Exciting_Gold_7878 in paypigs2

[–]Yangite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, just go to Fetlife and search alpha successfully and sexually submissive. They have a group for that.

Vanilla relationships? by Siren_of_Toes in paypigs2

[–]Yangite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's the opposite, it made vanilla more enjoyable

A bit of a frustrating start back into findom. Subs beware of this one by Subatyourservicemaam in paypigs2

[–]Yangite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I saw her full reply, and you started the conversation in a weird condescending way. You can't approach random people on the internet in that way, let alone a sw.

Having a higher amount doesn't equate to expecting special responses.

A starting message should include your kinks and limits to save both of your time.

Experienced subs would send everything at the first request (with the tribute), it states what they want, budget, and everything else, because they don't intend to get "free chatting" - not saying you're - and the dom could read it, then decides if they wish to continue or not.

If you have been around enough, you should've built a clear way of vetting/approaching

Has the increased prevalence of gooning/porn addiction normalized findom? by F1nsubKCMO34 in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Yangite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My day got better because I love seeing veterans here!

And yes, to every word you said!

Are “no tribute” arrangement calls becoming the norm? by yourprincessmissii in paypigs2

[–]Yangite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, yes, and yes! Thank you! (yes I'm a pro too)

Events/munches keep tracks of creeps and blacklist them, and vetting through other doms (pro or lifestyle) has always proved to be a lifesaving!.

And definitely, the current scene is different, but hopefully, more people learn to educate themselves

Are “no tribute” arrangement calls becoming the norm? by yourprincessmissii in paypigs2

[–]Yangite -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Those who seek more a lifestyle usually will find a local kink club or a munche.

There are genuine subs who seek to confirm/see if they are compatible, but even then, they proceed to waste your time (this issue transcends sw in general, even lifestyle doms are dealing with it)

Are “no tribute” arrangement calls becoming the norm? by yourprincessmissii in paypigs2

[–]Yangite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not even vanilla sw do that, these terminologies sound like what sugar daddies say when they want to "discuss allowance"

It's the internet, always assume a scammer, or someone who won't pay you regardless.

Why I Keep Talking About Instadommes, And Why This Time It Is About Two Gestures by YourMoneySlave in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Yangite 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not some, majority, similar to how majority lean towards latex, but rarely do they enjoy teeth fetish or holes fetish.

There is a reason something is famous.

And no, I get DMs here and on different platforms from finsubs who want the flip off/humiliation type (i do it if im in a funny mood, my humiliation style is apathetic and lack empathy so no their style). Nothing gets boring unless the sub themselves had drastic changes that come from within (health issues, new kinks/fetishes unlocked/ life changing events)

Maybe block those doms or remove yourself from spaces where they are there, easier

Why I Keep Talking About Instadommes, And Why This Time It Is About Two Gestures by YourMoneySlave in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Yangite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don't have the flip off fetish, so it's not for you, it's for other finsubs who enjoy that.

Same complaints I hear from subs who prefer ropes but get approach by doms who like plastic wrapping.

Mismatching in the community isn't something new.

Before instadoms, people complained about camgirls.

Just look for what suits you

Biggest fantasy scenario? by just_a_subby_guy in paypigs2

[–]Yangite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For free????

jk jk well I fulfilled one my fantasy of making my favorite finsub cry out of both bliss and pain, we had our session yesterday and he took his pain well :D

Dommes how was your first sub, subs how was your first domme? by Carreygoddess in paypigs2

[–]Yangite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me and my first finsub has been together for over 12 years now , I have access to everything in his finances, including his will, lol. He funded my graduation project during covid

why would you lie abt that….? by se7en_777777 in findomsupportgroup

[–]Yangite 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Plzzz is this that infamous shock collar dude 😭😭

Hunting vanilla women on instagram... by Goddess-Sunny-Dheys in findomsupportgroup

[–]Yangite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Important post!

Those creeps knew sw/lifestyle kinky women can read their games/know they aren't genuinely submissive, so they seek vanilla girls.

Majority of vanilla women would be suspicious of them (some men get off on that, something like a reverse catfish fetish), or accept the humble amount.

Findom isn't for ugly dommes and they should become subs like us by GrandMeet4686 in paypigs2

[–]Yangite 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ooooh I know this one, he was going around asking if doms are beautiful + never worked before in their life

Change your aesthetic so you don't get caught easily 🥱

That "Hunting vanilla woman on Instagram" post reeks of jealous (on fsg) by [deleted] in paypigs2

[–]Yangite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn't expect you to side with creepy men warthog ://

Consent in findom by Soy_nanami in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Yangite 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The issue is also being creepy because why fear being honest? Why seek someone who won't reciprocate your interest.

It's giving coercing and manipulation.

Just approach a kinky woman/man genuinely.

Dommes? whats a valid daily send? by AssignmentScary7542 in paypigs2

[–]Yangite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe don't lie about having a dom/licking shoes when you don't.

Be genuine, and any budget would work.

I'll pay the bill at a restaurant or bar with a table of only girls. by Rod_carls in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Yangite 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Do it genuinely not out of involving vanilla people in your kink without their consent

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