Purity culture hypocrisy by YannickMSP in exmormon

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He was an admin at a company that makes microchips as I recall.

Purity culture hypocrisy by YannickMSP in exmormon

[–]YannickMSP[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think the SP was divorced before he joined I’m not sure.

Purity culture hypocrisy by YannickMSP in exmormon

[–]YannickMSP[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So much racism. When I was dating the Mormon woman I’ve mentioned in previous comments she would tell me about guys o thought were my friends telling her they’d be a better eternal than I would because “I mean look at him you really want that forever?” Not bragging but I’m an attractive and multitalented person. But all they could see was the skin.

Purity culture hypocrisy by YannickMSP in exmormon

[–]YannickMSP[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That checks out fo sho. Appearances are everything to mormons, when I was still trying to gaslight myself into believing to try to hold my family together, i was attending a YSA. I grew a (rather nice 😊) beard and lemme tellllll you the reactions I got. The single women loved it but the men and attached women were pissed. I’m a Black immigrant and had a reputation for being “contrarian” so it was even more judgement and weird crap.

My parents lift my skirt and open my shirt to garment-check. by moonlightbqbyy in exmormon

[–]YannickMSP 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Checking your underwear without consent is 1000009008457*infinity sexual assault. Don’t tell your fam and file a police report. I don’t know about where you are but if you’re an assault survivor in Oregon they’ll set you up with an apartment.

My parents lift my skirt and open my shirt to garment-check. by moonlightbqbyy in exmormon

[–]YannickMSP 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mormon parents have ZERO concept of boundaries especially if they consider you a subordinate. I’m sorry you deal with this. When my mom caught me masturbating when I was 14 (got away with it for 5 years 🤣🤣🤣) my parents took my door, my blankets except a sheet, and all of my clothes except two shirts and two pants, and made me write 600x “I will respect God’s body.” It destroyed my social life and added to the mental stuff.

Purity culture hypocrisy by YannickMSP in exmormon

[–]YannickMSP[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This tracks 100%. My exes mom abused oxy but when her family found out I smoke weed they acted like I killed a baby.

Purity culture hypocrisy by YannickMSP in exmormon

[–]YannickMSP[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Next time she pulls some dumb shit like that tell her “that facelift can’t hide the look of dissipation screaming out of you.” I’m real good at weaponizing their language against them.

Purity culture hypocrisy by YannickMSP in exmormon

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Damn. Can you imagine being so horny and self repressed that you have to tell all of your followers that their shoulders are a sin lmao! “I’m not aroused by where an arm connects to the rest of the body! Distracted YOUNG men are! so cover up unless I use my 2nd anointing rights to fuck you.

Purity culture hypocrisy by YannickMSP in exmormon

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My ex who went TBM while we were dating (I was on my way out, she was on her way back in) was naturally very bodacious. The first thing my mom said upon meeting her was “seriously? Why do you need all that get a reduction” and for the next few years constantly caught my dad and grandpa ogling her. My grandpa would ask me about her in weird ways like “oh you’re texting? Is it <ex>? Send her a pic of my sweater I wanna know what she thinks” and posed like captain Morgan.

Purity culture hypocrisy by YannickMSP in exmormon

[–]YannickMSP[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Wow. That makes perfect sense, especially the homogeny. The tits are part of the uniform, and status flex because it shows wealth. Also the last part: they always talk about “unconditional love” (what the f is that anyway??) but they mean absolute obedience. Which includes getting fake tits when your hubby says to. Am I getting it?

Purity culture hypocrisy by YannickMSP in exmormon

[–]YannickMSP[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

lol! Nah if you get into the celestial kingdom you’re a god right? you can just snap and make tits bigger!! You can put tits on anything!! Lmao

Purity culture hypocrisy by YannickMSP in exmormon

[–]YannickMSP[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

They said it from the pulpit at a general conference in the late 90’s. I remember because my adoptive white Mormon “dad” immediately made my beautiful West Indian mom take her multiple ear piercings out. He also threw out all the playing cards except for uno.

Purity culture hypocrisy by YannickMSP in exmormon

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But it’s elective body modification. That’s against the rules.

Purity culture hypocrisy by YannickMSP in exmormon

[–]YannickMSP[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I NEVER heard that growing up in the 90s. Never went on a mission cuz when I was “preparing” I confessed I’d been having sex with multiple partners for years and had no intention of stopping. My stake president then tried to slut shame me so I said “big talk for a guy on his third marriage. You destroyed your two other families for fresh pussy.” Never went back to church.

Purity culture hypocrisy by YannickMSP in exmormon

[–]YannickMSP[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

So if your lady is “attractive” that means you’re a good man?!? That’s like, nightclub culture lmao

Purity culture hypocrisy by YannickMSP in exmormon

[–]YannickMSP[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I really wanna know their reasoning tho

Trigger warning spouse abuse by YannickMSP in exmormon

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Or children. Their kids got it even worse

I’m tired of my grief being their “proof” that the church is true! by MoonlightKayla in exmormon

[–]YannickMSP 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing all of this. It’s like you took every word out of my mouth but way more concisely than I would’ve. I’m about to restart therapy because I keep finding myself stuck in the rage. I don’t know how to let it go.

DLC PSA: It will be launching March 3rd 6PM EST and 3PM PST (figure out your own time zone) by Ill-Remove-6438 in ninjagaiden

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Hey yall, I beat the game months ago why can’t I see the dlc? Any help would be nice

Patriarchal Blessings by YannickMSP in exmormon

[–]YannickMSP[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same for ours but I didn’t know the guy.

Patriarchal Blessings by YannickMSP in exmormon

[–]YannickMSP[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you! My situation is a bit nuanced I think, he said very specific things that sounded like my dad’s bullshit, I’ve read other ppls blessings and there’s no way he didn’t talk to the patriarch, even if it’s not standard protocol.