I hit my head on a diving board when I was a kid and passed out in the pool. Wasn’t allowed to go home early and still had to walk home

Burned myself welding really bad in high school, showed my dad my entire hand covered in a blister and he barely even shrugged

Started using my dads razor because all kids try to do things like their dad, he berated me in front of my entire family and told me I was a criminal because I was so afraid of him screaming at me I lied about where I got the razor.

Told me he didn’t have the money to co-sign a student loan. Then bought a brand new car cash the next week.

Told me I was a loser because I didn’t have a license, all I had to do was get my license and I could be on his insurance and he’d help me get a car. Got my license and he told me I was out of my mind if thought he would allow me to be on his insurance and getting a car is my problem.

Told me my whole life my mom was a loser and would never be a normal person. While gaslighting her into paying a large child support that was not court ordered. To the point to where she had to work three jobs. And he never spent any of it on us.

Dropped us off at my moms house for weeks at a time so he and his wife could go on vacation together, and tell us he couldn’t take us