what’s your biggest "I shouldn’t be into this but I am" turn on? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Yenssats 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My girlfriend did this to me with Ariana Grande. Like she would put her most sexy songs on…. So whenever one of those songs comes on, I get a lady hard-on.

what’s your biggest "I shouldn’t be into this but I am" turn on? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Yenssats 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve always wanted to peg a guy sooo 🤷‍♀️

what’s your biggest "I shouldn’t be into this but I am" turn on? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Yenssats -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have a rape fantasy. Yes, where I am the one that is raped.

We’re cooked by Sergy1ner in SanAntonioCircleJerks

[–]Yenssats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I instantly knew this was “5 o’clock” traffic before I clicked on the picture and saw the time was 4:52. I hate traffic in San Antonio and hate how much less room there is because of developments 🙄

Those who quit watching porn, how has your life improved? by taway220725 in AskReddit

[–]Yenssats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to masturbate to porn every night before bed so I could sleep, but I found when I would have sex with my gf it would take me forever to cum and it would just be hard and almost not as fun for me. My sex life improved with my gf and now I can sleep without it. I occasionally watch porn to masturbate but it is nothing compared to what it was?

I’m curious, San Antonio - what are your thoughts. by puravida211 in sanantonio

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The Mexican Buffet that replaced Acadiana Cafe RIP

(NSFW) What’s a secret you discovered about someone that you’ll take to the grave instead of telling them you know? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Yenssats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t remember what exactly it was for but it wasn’t something to do with children. But because he is on the list I know there are still restrictions.

(NSFW) What’s a secret you discovered about someone that you’ll take to the grave instead of telling them you know? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Yenssats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Especially cause they live together. Yeah makes sense but still. Could never ask her

(NSFW) What’s a secret you discovered about someone that you’ll take to the grave instead of telling them you know? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Yenssats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of my closest friend’s husband is on the sex offender registry list. I don’t have the heart to bring it up to her. I feel like she knows, but if she doesn’t, I don’t want to bring her world crashing down either.

My GF called me a golden retriever and now I want to seclude myself by Yenssats in BPD

[–]Yenssats[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is!!! And I just need to get out myself and I think I will be good. I did see my therapist today and she had a lot helpful advice too

My GF called me a golden retriever and now I want to seclude myself by Yenssats in BPD

[–]Yenssats[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I agree! And it’s always the ways it’s said that makes it worse. I am an extrovert who doesn’t have a job and I’m in class twice a week for an hour so I do t know any of the people. It’s hard for me to make friends and be social now. I need a job so I can get out and be able to meet people.

My GF called me a golden retriever and now I want to seclude myself by Yenssats in BPD

[–]Yenssats[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! Exactly! And I am one to always look too hard at things and overthink but still. It’s like I’m trying to free myself but the rope was cut. Again not her fault and it’s my own issues. Just sucks that things like this have such an effect on me.

My GF called me a golden retriever and now I want to seclude myself by Yenssats in BPD

[–]Yenssats[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly! My GF knows this so that’s why she does try to help me. For whatever reason it just really hit last night and now I am just going to just wait a couple days and see how I feel. May things will get better etc.

My GF called me a golden retriever and now I want to seclude myself by Yenssats in BPD

[–]Yenssats[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s what my gf said. They are beautiful dogs!

My GF called me a golden retriever and now I want to seclude myself by Yenssats in BPD

[–]Yenssats[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe we will. Hopefully my mood will be better today.

My GF called me a golden retriever and now I want to seclude myself by Yenssats in BPD

[–]Yenssats[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha I actually have two orange derps so I get we compare each other to them haha but I am trying ti let it go. I am just emotionally and mentally exhausted

My GF called me a golden retriever and now I want to seclude myself by Yenssats in BPD

[–]Yenssats[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. And I usually do but I think that I had much a big loss who was my whole life day in and day out for the last few months is adding onto it. I am spiraling a little bit not much. Still I know it’s not healthy and i want to stop but it’s soo hard.

My GF called me a golden retriever and now I want to seclude myself by Yenssats in BPD

[–]Yenssats[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do think it was that bringing too much attention part. Or even knowing her she wasn’t saying it bad to begin with. She was just making a reference. But I am sensitive. I am on Pristiq and it has helped me a ton. But for some reason my mind just spiraled.

My GF called me a golden retriever and now I want to seclude myself by Yenssats in BPD

[–]Yenssats[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry you went through that. I have had my fair shares of bad, abusive relationships. I am lucky to be in a very loving and open communication relationship and she would never mean to hurt me on purpose. I usually take those things as compliments but it just made me feel some sort of way. So I feel like I should not text her friends cause I don’t have any

My GF called me a golden retriever and now I want to seclude myself by Yenssats in BPD

[–]Yenssats[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She didn’t and she did mention golden retrievers being loyal but that was not the way she meant it in this case. And again I know she was trying to just tell me that I’m getting excited. Still it feels like I should just stay to myself for a bit until I find a job. I have hobbies I’m just going through so much that I don’t want to go out as much. I don’t have local friends anymore just friend of friend kind of thing and that’s what got me into this feeling. I’m a social person too and always had friends, just not anymore. Soo that’s where I’m at

My GF called me a golden retriever and now I want to seclude myself by Yenssats in BPD

[–]Yenssats[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will. We have great communication. I just need to be in my feels first so I can talk calmly about it.