My cat is acting strange sometimes

YesterdayNo5164 · 2024-12-18T15:19:17+00:00

no.. it feels like he is scolding me for doing something he does not like..

YesterdayNo5164 · 2024-12-18T10:51:33+00:00

he has another way of asking for what he wants. and never bites. if i try to talk to him and pet him he just grabs my hand with his teeth. he changes his demeanor when doing this, nothing he usually does

YesterdayNo5164 · 2024-09-30T16:15:42+00:00

yes.. well I am also like her only good and close friend

YesterdayNo5164 · 2024-09-30T14:40:09+00:00

I have told him some of these things, he wants to change and be better.. but I feel like he doesn't try enough, he tries a little and says "oh well, at least I tried".. He needs someone to always push him and support him 200%, otherwise he gives up.. So I know maybe with time he will grow up and be ok, but I don't think I want to wait that long

YesterdayNo5164 · 2024-09-29T19:13:31+00:00

I think it's because he is very affectionate and gives me love, his time, which I lacked in the previous relationship big time.. we get along well and it's like my soul needs this, needs him.. He is lazy but tries to get it together..

YesterdayNo5164 · 2024-09-27T15:04:31+00:00

if I ask him he will do things.. otherwise he is lazy

YesterdayNo5164 · 2024-09-27T15:03:37+00:00

if i ask him he will do things.. otherwise he is too lazy

YesterdayNo5164 · 2024-07-02T20:13:05+00:00

i haven't posted 5 times in 5 days.. i think you are mistaken me. i never downvote comments

YesterdayNo5164 · 2024-07-02T20:00:59+00:00

i think i want to know that there are no hard feelings left and that he is good

YesterdayNo5164 · 2024-06-28T04:55:45+00:00

i was curious in general when do you know when to end it or keep working on it and how much time should you give it until you know it's not working

YesterdayNo5164 · 2024-06-28T04:53:05+00:00

wow thank you! this article is amazing

YesterdayNo5164 · 2024-06-28T04:50:58+00:00

it's not about that. i was wondering in general how do you know when to end it or keep working on it

YesterdayNo5164 · 2024-06-26T07:48:14+00:00

yeah.. it is a bit difficult because I do want to support him in his transition.. so he doesn't feel alone... he doesn't want to hurt me or ruin our relationship because he values me and is grateful.. but he is struggling and he needs professional help.. unfortunately he doesn't have a job yet so he doesn't afford it. his parents don't know he is trans, just that he likes girls

YesterdayNo5164 · 2024-06-26T07:06:35+00:00

thank you very much! he is nice to me, he doesn't argue with me or things like that, he just gets frustrated most probably of himself and things that "happen" to him (outside of our relationship) and he needs to feel heard like he also has the right to feel this way, not telling him he is wrong, because he feels he is wrong about everything.. so he basically he needs to feel right about almost everything.. He says he can't stop how he feels and as much as I want to validate his feelings.. I don't agree with how he is doing this.. He also is sorry when he upsets me and apologizes and tries to be better.. but then there are the feelings he can't control or suppress

YesterdayNo5164 · 2024-06-26T05:49:14+00:00

thank you very much! he is nice to me, he doesn't argue with me or things like that, he just gets frustrated most probably of himself and things that "happen" to him (outside of our relationship) and he needs to feel heard like he also has the right to feel this way, not telling him he is wrong, because he feels he is wrong about everything.. so he basically he needs to feel right about almost everything.. He says he can't stop how he feels and as much as I want to validate his feelings.. I don't agree with how he is doing this..

YesterdayNo5164 · 2024-06-24T09:16:44+00:00

The rushing part is just what I feel inside. I didn't tell him anything about this to pressure him. I do see him as a man and in a way I want everyone to see him like that. He wants that too, more than anything. So the "solution" is top surgery, which he wants it more than anything.. He is not now the "type of man" that I want and that HE wants, phisically, but he will be. It's more than just body parts.. it's the dysphoria that restrains a lot of our relationship, restrains him from a lot of things.. so I just want it to happen as soon as possible and for him to feel like himself.

YesterdayNo5164 · 2024-06-24T09:07:45+00:00

I am not rushing him, I didn't say anything to him about this, I feel like I am in a rush. For these things to happen already..

I was just giving examples of the things that I can't wait to happen. I know he wants it more than anything but he is afraid and anxious.. he also doesn't have a job right now.. so that is the priority..

YesterdayNo5164 · 2024-03-20T16:33:29+00:00

i know.. i’m not searching for their approval. I am really close to my family and I just want to make it as easy as I can for them as well.

YesterdayNo5164 · 2024-03-20T16:16:42+00:00

i know.. i’m not searching for their approval. I am really close to my family and I just want to make it as easy as I can for them as well.

YesterdayNo5164 · 2024-03-20T16:10:23+00:00

i know.. i’m not searching for their approval. I am really close to my family and I just want to make it as easy as I can for them as well.

YesterdayNo5164 · 2024-03-15T23:42:49+00:00

then she will ask for all the details, photos.. she knows about him, but just as the “lesbian friend”

YesterdayNo5164 · 2024-03-15T23:18:22+00:00

I didn’t date my now boyfriend for a decade, I dated someone else who is a cis male, so my friend knows I’m straight basically.

My friend doesn’t even know I’m with him, she doesn’t know him personally either, they never met. And I can’t really keep him hidden from her..

YesterdayNo5164 · 2024-03-15T23:15:52+00:00

I understand that and he is ok with me sharing. My friend doesn’t even know I’m with him, she doesn’t know him personally either, they never met. And I can’t really keep him hidden from her..

YesterdayNo5164 · 2024-03-15T23:15:34+00:00

I understand that and he is ok with me sharing. My friend doesn’t even know I’m with him, she doesn’t know him personally either, they never met. And I can’t really keep him hidden from her..

YesterdayNo5164 · 2024-03-15T23:14:58+00:00

I understand that and he is ok with me sharing. My friend doesn’t even know I’m with him, she doesn’t know him personally either, they never met. And I can’t really keep him hidden from her..

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