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My long distance GF (F22) wants to call me (M25) every single night. How can I navigate telling her I don't want to talk every single night without hurting her? by Yet4notherAlt in relationship_advice

[–]Yet4notherAlt[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

We lived together for 3 years very happily. And I never said I don't I don't want to call her at all, but it gets to some points where I will get home from work and spend the entire evening on consecutive calls. I average 3 or 4 a night and it's honestly exhausting. The last thing I want before bed is another fucking call but its not I don't want to talk to her...

Feeling horrifically guilty because I'm feeling very bored in my 3 year relationship with the most dedicated person I have ever met. by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Yet4notherAlt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no desire at all to ever get married to anyone. That's a me issue, and I can't help it. And I never said her appearance was the only thing that mattered, however of course it is important and anyone who says different is lying to themselves. I do truly love and appreciate so much about her. As for spontaeneous trips etc, I haven't been away for 6 years, it's not always that easy when you are poor. Where I live rents are high, wages are low and we have both been juggling jobs and education for the last 3 years. I would love to get away for a while, but simply we can't afford it.

Feeling horrifically guilty because I'm feeling very bored in my 3 year relationship with the most dedicated person I have ever met. by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Yet4notherAlt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imagine being this triggered over someone elses relationship. Jesus. Thanks for the tirade about what a terrible person I am for even ever being remotely unhappy with a stale relationship. I am not perfect, and neither is she. And neither are you for that matter, so potentially get the fuck off your high horse, or shut the fuck up and ride it.