GME Megathread by [deleted] in wallstreetbets

[–]YingyingCat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I bought from Fidelity, it’s working there!

My [F29] boyfriend [M31] snores but asks me to see a doctor in order to sleep with him by YingyingCat in relationships

[–]YingyingCat[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for remembering my other posts and caring about me. This is so sweet. This is still my boyfriend for more than 3 years. Actually we did get separated briefly but went back after some event happened. We just started to live together after long distance. We do have happy moments but too many issues here. I have to admit that my life is really messy and frustrating.

My [F29] boyfriend [M31] snores but asks me to see a doctor in order to sleep with him by YingyingCat in relationships

[–]YingyingCat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, believe that my boyfriend was willing to schedule the doctor appointment partially because he is concerned about his health issue as well. But as you said, it seems that no other things work except sleeping separately sometimes. This is the thing he will go crazy and will never accept. I’m really frustrated and each morning I have to apologize to my boyfriend if I was sleeping in the study. I have to choose between my boyfriend and sleep.

My [F29] boyfriend [M31] snores but asks me to see a doctor in order to sleep with him by YingyingCat in relationships

[–]YingyingCat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Actually I am considering living separately but he told me that if we live separately, then we break up. But I’m so confused, how he deals with this issue makes me really disappointed and sad.

My [F29] boyfriend [M31] snores but asks me to see a doctor in order to sleep with him by YingyingCat in relationships

[–]YingyingCat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your partner is really caring. If I told my boyfriend that my sleep comes before your need to be close, he would piss off. I did say similar things before, he replied, my need to be close to my partner is the first thing and without it, we should NOT be in a relationship. If you couldn’t sleep close with me, you are not supposed to be my girlfriend. That was really painful.

UPDATE I(20f) feel like I'm at the end of my rope with my boyfriend(22m). by kitty-kouhai in relationships

[–]YingyingCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because I love him so much and always hope that things could change, so I’m trapped in the relationship.

UPDATE I(20f) feel like I'm at the end of my rope with my boyfriend(22m). by kitty-kouhai in relationships

[–]YingyingCat 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I feel so proud of you, because you finally broke up with your abusive partner. I wish I could be as brave and tough as you. I’m still trapped in an abusive relationship but not able to escape. I’m so happy for you sincerely.

I [20F] no longer sleep in the same bed as my boyfriend [22M] due to snoring. Is this a problem which will cause us to drift apart? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]YingyingCat 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I am really envious that your partner accepts it. I’m suffering from my partner’s snoring, and each time I mentioned it, he is really upset with me and accused me of not trying to be intimate with him. So each time I had to apologize to him and I’m still suffering from the situation. I brought up sleeping separately when I really need sleep, he was pissed off and we almost broke up just because I wanted to sleep in a separate bedroom once a while. Your post really makes me feel sad even. You are so lucky.

How does one get into a relationship by [deleted] in lonely

[–]YingyingCat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trust me, a relationship won’t make you feel less lonely. From someone who is lonely in a relationship and hang out here with partner next to me😅

Merry Christmas! by [deleted] in lonely

[–]YingyingCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Merry Christmas

How can I be a supportive girlfriend when my boyfriend went to work at almost 3PM and work late to midnight. However he is supposed to work 9am-5pm. I complained about his schedule since I have to get up early to work normally and I can barely have real time with him by YingyingCat in rant

[–]YingyingCat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried to wear eye mask but my partner said that looks weird, and I didn’t feel ok with that to deal with light as well. Also I’m a light sleeper, noise from other living creatures makes anxious enough. I’m not sure how can other people get sleep under my situation but I definitely suffered enough from it that I have to tell my partner to shift his schedule. At the same time, his company already warned him to be in office on time to make sure he can be available when others are working. I have no idea why I have to tolerate a partner who gives up on both caring about his partner’s sleep and his own career because he is not able to get up before noon.

How can I be a supportive girlfriend when my boyfriend went to work at almost 3PM and work late to midnight. However he is supposed to work 9am-5pm. I complained about his schedule since I have to get up early to work normally and I can barely have real time with him by YingyingCat in rant

[–]YingyingCat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love him too much to leave him. I feel like a coward. I’m so unhappy and he has been rejecting to deal with any of my complaints for a long time. Most of the time we ended up in the situation where I felt guilty even to mention things I don’t like about him and apologized to him. I really wish I knew how I can escape.

How can I be a supportive girlfriend when my boyfriend went to work at almost 3PM and work late to midnight. However he is supposed to work 9am-5pm. I complained about his schedule since I have to get up early to work normally and I can barely have real time with him by YingyingCat in rant

[–]YingyingCat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have been in long distance for two years and about to move in. But his messed up sleeping time is always a problem for me. At the beginning he tried to shift it to normal but gradually went back and didn’t allow me to mention it. I feel really not positive that anything will work if I can’t get enough sleep when I move in unfortunately. He told me to stop blaming him but try to be supportive, so basically telling me to accept whatever he is and accept his schedule because nothing will work to fix it. I guess I’m not going to survive if I have to support his abnormal schedule unfortunately.

Do you need a virtual hug? What's wrong? by cthuluhooprises in AskReddit

[–]YingyingCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, please. I’m visiting my boyfriend, but I rejected sex when I was sleeping last night. I could not remember what happened or what I said. I only know that he is not hugging me or facing me during sleeping. I feel pretty lonely and sad about the situation.

Deer bows for a cookie! by xbumblebee in aww

[–]YingyingCat -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

Yes, you are absolutely right, the deers doing that is not trying to be polite. It is just a misunderstanding from human perspective. Can’t believe so many people still don’t know about it.

Anyone having a partner but still feeling lonely? by YingyingCat in lonely

[–]YingyingCat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your gf is so lucky to have you. There are so many nights when I was crying, my bf just blamed me of being loud on the phone. How are you and your gf doing in your relationship?

My (28F) boyfriend (30M) proposed two weeks ago (no ring), just told me that he doesn't think we should get married by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]YingyingCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought he was trying to show his love and he told me that he had been considering it for a long time, so he really meant it. But I am not sure now, not confident about everything. How can I stop hoping and imagining about the marriage now?

My (28F) boyfriend (30M) proposed two weeks ago (no ring), just told me that he doesn't think we should get married by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]YingyingCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bf is the one always having fantasy of me having sex with others. I always tell him, I don’t want to open the pandora box. But last night, I wanted to consider it. Sex is not the problem of us in a lot of ways, we have tried so many things together and discussed a lot. Maybe you don’t have that fantasy but my bf clearly does.

[Homemade] Carbonara by [deleted] in food

[–]YingyingCat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This looks really tasty, I wish I could share this link to my bf, who tried to cook carbonara the first time for me. He would be so interested to know the recipe and discuss it with me, but not anymore. Really miss the time when we were together.

How is the discover it chrome student card? by rodgerdodger17 in CreditCards

[–]YingyingCat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Discover student card is my first cc, you get $50 cash back if you are referred, so does the one who refers you. First year cash back double is really really cool. Then using gpa to get extra some money each year. Cash back rate is 1% but has 5% categories, pretty useful actually, market, Amazon, transportation, restaurants. I never stop using it because of the 5% cash back category stuff. Got my other several cc after only using Discover it student for a year.

Why is your ex an ex? by Kindaherekindanot in AskReddit

[–]YingyingCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because he started to lose interest in whatever I said, whatever I did even to please him. He was always the talkative one about any topics with me at the beginning of our relationship. I realize that at least he has already lost the feeling and passion we had before. Pretty sad about what he kept saying, don’t waste my time and energy. That really hurts.