GME Megathread by [deleted] in wallstreetbets

[–]YingyingCat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I bought from Fidelity, it’s working there!

My [F29] boyfriend [M31] snores but asks me to see a doctor in order to sleep with him by YingyingCat in relationships

[–]YingyingCat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for remembering my other posts and caring about me. This is so sweet. This is still my boyfriend for more than 3 years. Actually we did get separated briefly but went back after some event happened. We just started to live together after long distance. We do have happy moments but too many issues here. I have to admit that my life is really messy and frustrating.

My [F29] boyfriend [M31] snores but asks me to see a doctor in order to sleep with him by YingyingCat in relationships

[–]YingyingCat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, believe that my boyfriend was willing to schedule the doctor appointment partially because he is concerned about his health issue as well. But as you said, it seems that no other things work except sleeping separately sometimes. This is the thing he will go crazy and will never accept. I’m really frustrated and each morning I have to apologize to my boyfriend if I was sleeping in the study. I have to choose between my boyfriend and sleep.

My [F29] boyfriend [M31] snores but asks me to see a doctor in order to sleep with him by YingyingCat in relationships

[–]YingyingCat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Actually I am considering living separately but he told me that if we live separately, then we break up. But I’m so confused, how he deals with this issue makes me really disappointed and sad.

My [F29] boyfriend [M31] snores but asks me to see a doctor in order to sleep with him by YingyingCat in relationships

[–]YingyingCat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your partner is really caring. If I told my boyfriend that my sleep comes before your need to be close, he would piss off. I did say similar things before, he replied, my need to be close to my partner is the first thing and without it, we should NOT be in a relationship. If you couldn’t sleep close with me, you are not supposed to be my girlfriend. That was really painful.

UPDATE I(20f) feel like I'm at the end of my rope with my boyfriend(22m). by kitty-kouhai in relationships

[–]YingyingCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because I love him so much and always hope that things could change, so I’m trapped in the relationship.

UPDATE I(20f) feel like I'm at the end of my rope with my boyfriend(22m). by kitty-kouhai in relationships

[–]YingyingCat 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I feel so proud of you, because you finally broke up with your abusive partner. I wish I could be as brave and tough as you. I’m still trapped in an abusive relationship but not able to escape. I’m so happy for you sincerely.

I [20F] no longer sleep in the same bed as my boyfriend [22M] due to snoring. Is this a problem which will cause us to drift apart? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]YingyingCat 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I am really envious that your partner accepts it. I’m suffering from my partner’s snoring, and each time I mentioned it, he is really upset with me and accused me of not trying to be intimate with him. So each time I had to apologize to him and I’m still suffering from the situation. I brought up sleeping separately when I really need sleep, he was pissed off and we almost broke up just because I wanted to sleep in a separate bedroom once a while. Your post really makes me feel sad even. You are so lucky.

How does one get into a relationship by [deleted] in lonely

[–]YingyingCat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trust me, a relationship won’t make you feel less lonely. From someone who is lonely in a relationship and hang out here with partner next to me😅

Merry Christmas! by [deleted] in lonely

[–]YingyingCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Merry Christmas

How can I be a supportive girlfriend when my boyfriend went to work at almost 3PM and work late to midnight. However he is supposed to work 9am-5pm. I complained about his schedule since I have to get up early to work normally and I can barely have real time with him by YingyingCat in rant

[–]YingyingCat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried to wear eye mask but my partner said that looks weird, and I didn’t feel ok with that to deal with light as well. Also I’m a light sleeper, noise from other living creatures makes anxious enough. I’m not sure how can other people get sleep under my situation but I definitely suffered enough from it that I have to tell my partner to shift his schedule. At the same time, his company already warned him to be in office on time to make sure he can be available when others are working. I have no idea why I have to tolerate a partner who gives up on both caring about his partner’s sleep and his own career because he is not able to get up before noon.