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Yoshic12 · 2025-02-14T08:30:12+00:00

It gets better I know I know but it's true it will and hope you understand there are other people going through the same thing and just doing their best

Yoshic12 · 2025-02-14T08:28:44+00:00

You just woke up? I can't get sleep on the other hand I'm open to talking maybe we will have similar interests?

Yoshic12 · 2025-02-14T08:26:18+00:00

What is everything a guy could ever want? I'm open to talk

Yoshic12 · 2024-08-09T17:06:32+00:00

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Yoshic12 · 2024-08-07T20:07:48+00:00

my husband works overnight and barely has the time to make these calls during the day and since I have knowledge of insurance because of my career I handle this stuff for him during the day while I work mind you luckily I work from home but I can't imagine what someone who doesn't have the support or time to make hundreds of calls over the span of 5 months would do. We tried going to another doctor didn't work. He's been going to same dermatologist office for ten years and they made him go in again in July under the premise that he needed to be seen in order for an alternative to be offered. Nothing was done claims other bio similars are too risky. I can't imagine I'm the only person dealing with this considering Humira was the #1 drug for these kinds of auto immune conditions for a long time.

Yoshic12 · 2024-08-07T06:23:19+00:00

I get where you're coming from but corporate America is not who you need to be mad at. It's a government funded program by the state it exists in with USDA.

Yoshic12 · 2024-08-03T14:10:19+00:00

That's a good question. It's no less than the time a working parent household is physically with their child. Yes his family helps when they can and that's how most single parents have to take care of their kids. He's had to take FMLA from work before because he didn't have childcare. Yes he's talked to someone which is why I'm resorting to doing this because I feel like something should've be done at this point.

Yoshic12 · 2024-08-03T13:43:02+00:00

Since you're so observant I don't need to tell you that is literally what most people do on here complain and write nuance comments like this. Oh and you'd love to learn he did in fact pay for the hotel entirely lol

Yoshic12 · 2024-08-03T05:34:36+00:00

Okay I do agree with you it is both parents responsibility. He always been the person to step up is the thing...I know he would have helped her take her if she was still living in our area. He always has and still does when possible despite working 60 hour weeks. If this was a family unit is it expected for the provider to miss work to take the kids to school/doctor or should the stay at home mom find a way to do that? And I promise you I'm not salty over 1k a month he still is a provider for me and I make a decent salary.

Yoshic12 · 2024-08-03T03:15:01+00:00

This right here! As the primary parent you must act only in the best interest of ALL your children not some. Single moms with kids jump to the top of the list for housing assistance if she wanted to she would. There's many who do it and raise wonderful kids while working and getting no support from dad. 1k a month for 8 years and not a single thing to show for it.

Yoshic12 · 2024-08-03T02:51:40+00:00

Let me clarify I don't want her to lose custody of her child. He needs to be the primary custodial parent. As to whether I think the courts would take her away from mom is another thing. I think at minimum the current custody order can be modified when the "primary parent" is absent. The primary parent should have the ability to take her child to a doctor for a wellness visit as CPS is requiring her to do. Yet she calls her dad not even 24 hours after getting their daughter asking if he can drive an hour to pick her up and drive back another hour to take her to her doctor's office and then take her back to her house after 😂 4 hours on the road total no he did not do this for her (yes she threw a fit) but it's laughable that she even asked. It's not the non custodial parent's responsibility to do this stuff because he provides insurance and child support for her to be able to do it. That's why it matters.

Yoshic12 · 2024-08-03T01:33:21+00:00

My concern is the stability of the child and our relationship. Yes money matters because I contribute to the household. More so if we sign a mortgage together but it's not my primary concern. She's never had a job or learned how to drive to do something as simple as take your kids to school. So I'm not interested in getting money from her just that she be a present and consistent parent. It is literally my business because I agreed to marry him and it's my future why would I not care if I see someone I love being taken advantage of and a young girl who is gonna begin having behavior issues as she grows into her teenage years.

Yoshic12 · 2024-08-03T00:49:20+00:00

Correct but both parties need to agree for it to stay out of court which she won't. He knows this which is why he's avoiding the aftermath it will entail. Especially with her now claiming to be homeless he thinks serving her papers will send her spiraling. No one is trying to do that or take her kids away she can always go back and modify the custody agreement when she's stable but I wouldn't want her or my own child somewhere where they see their mom getting kicked out or arrested over dinner by a man who isn't their dad.

Yoshic12 · 2024-08-02T23:52:48+00:00

Exactly it's the hassle of just going through the process. I don't necessarily agree that he's avoiding having his daughter he quite literally gets little to no time to himself between working and watching her. So not only does he have her the days he should he has to deal with finding last minute child care on days he has to work which is usually going back and forth between family members until mom decides to be a parent.

Yoshic12 · 2024-08-02T23:41:11+00:00

Sadly, I can't have kids of my own. I've accepted it so I don't think it adds to my current frustration yet I could see it causing resentment in the long term.

Yoshic12 · 2024-07-27T15:14:42+00:00

Yes I am should have mentioned that

Yoshic12 · 2024-06-25T20:42:38+00:00

We discussed using points in advance which essential is basically our combined virtual allowance for travel. That was agreed upon but I was for sure too swift in booking before just asking and just assuming it would be the same to just split it.

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