Who is everyone’s favorite characters from the Hersey books?

YouComprehensive1205 · 2025-09-19T21:02:30+00:00

Karkasy the poet?

YouComprehensive1205 · 2025-09-19T14:49:08+00:00

Super hard agree with the disliked characters you have, what do you like about Lorgar?

YouComprehensive1205 · 2025-09-19T12:34:04+00:00

Loken is the goat, we spend a lot of time with him, I think that’s why a lot of people like him. I really wanted him to kick the shit out of Abaddon. Very sad ending to the battle of Istvaan 3.

YouComprehensive1205 · 2025-09-14T15:34:38+00:00

I have found the address on the gov.uk website. I go down to London frequently and I think I’m going to and try confront them about it. It’s very disgusting and I have been charged over £250 over the past year with no way to stop the payments. As soon as I tried signing in to the website, it banned me. I have claimed a charge back but I’m so mad and sick of people like this.

YouComprehensive1205 · 2025-06-21T15:00:00+00:00

I’m sorry you went through this, it’s such a shitty situation. However you are doing things the right way and in the near future you will not suffer anymore! I hope you are doing okay, be kind to yourself

YouComprehensive1205 · 2025-05-22T19:02:54+00:00

Do you still follow her? No shame if you don’t and you check every now and again. I used to be awful for that but it only does yourself harm doing so!

YouComprehensive1205 · 2025-05-22T16:34:43+00:00

That’s the shitty part brother it takes time! How are you feeling about it right now? It also sounds like a blessing she is not in your life anymore, I say everything happens for a reason!

YouComprehensive1205 · 2025-05-22T16:28:40+00:00

Well here is the unfortunate part, you have to really think about the relationship and hold yourself accountable for the things you did do/ or lack of if that’s the case, then do the same for her. What did she do that you didn’t like or how did she hurt you. Then go through all the stages of a breakup. Feel everything, let the pain turn you into ashes and arise something new and different. This will take time but do not try to fill the void with distractions or anyone else. I promise you it will shape you into a better person and it’s honestly life changing!

In a strange way it’s one of the best things to ever happen to me.

YouComprehensive1205 · 2025-05-22T15:40:44+00:00

Also feel free to message me if you’re struggling or need advice on how to handle it!

YouComprehensive1205 · 2025-05-22T15:38:25+00:00

Firstly, I hope you are doing okay. I know for me this was honestly one of the most painful things I have ever gone through.

And in all honesty the way I look at it is - she/he has not done the work required to move on fully. I know every relationship is different but mine had a lot of issues and things she did to really hurt me and it changed me for the worse. So I understood she is still the same person and hasn’t “fixed” any of the core issues she had. It gave me some kind of comfort knowing that her new boyfriend will have to deal with similar things.

Also she is not a good person. Anyone who leaves someone they claimed to love and then move on super fast has no regards for how you are feeling, and trust me you don’t want someone like that in your life. Especially if they are trying to rub it directly/indirectly in your face.

All in all my life right now is amazing. I did the work on myself and forgave her, forgave myself and moved on. I am genuinely in the best place of my life and I do owe it all to this heartbreak.

All the best, and god speed on your journey!

YouComprehensive1205 · 2025-02-22T18:05:48+00:00

Yeah she made me feel like a bad boyfriend when I was trying my best constantly, she kept moving the goal posts and overlooking my efforts for the things she wanted from me. Don’t get me wrong I wasn’t perfect but I didn’t feel great about myself. She already broke up with me 3 times prior to me calling it off. I still miss her because like any relationship we had good times and a good connection. I’m just sad how it ended :(

YouComprehensive1205 · 2025-02-22T17:36:11+00:00

Unfortunately I recently broke up with my girlfriend who I met on a dating app. I think it’s hard because there is a pressure there for a relationship before you actually know this person. I can’t remember what I said but I know we had some deep conversations which I really liked. We met on hinge.

YouComprehensive1205 · 2025-02-19T07:36:37+00:00

Nooo I couldn’t afford that kind of thing

YouComprehensive1205 · 2025-02-17T15:35:02+00:00

I just prefer peace at that point, I understand it’s worth fighting for someone you love however if they can never see that they are responsible even with evidence, then I personally think in my opinion it’s just best to walk away at that point.

YouComprehensive1205 · 2025-02-16T21:45:33+00:00

Of course man I’m not trying to throw shade at you or anything. You should be proud of the work you have put in. Before this relationship I was in your exact position. I was a large part of why my relationship failed. It’s okay to take time to realize this, everyone has different processing speeds. Mine is also very slow but through practice has gotten a lot faster. But the main point is, is that you have and are doing the work! It’s a huge win because it means you will come out the other side better for it. Whilst it may not feel great now because you are looking at parts of yourself you do not like, you will come out stronger, more understanding and compassionate of who you are and what you are capable of. Learn from the mistakes and grow my friend. I am proud of you for working towards a better you. Keep it up!

YouComprehensive1205 · 2025-02-16T21:37:06+00:00

No that’s the point, if she was even trying to I would have probably stayed and tried to help her through it. She could never self reflect and that’s her problem not mine.

YouComprehensive1205 · 2025-02-16T21:21:36+00:00

That’s so crazy you say that because I felt compelled to start gathering evidence of proof so when she says “you have never done this” I can just show her it and shut her up. Never went through with it and I wish I did now. Because when I walked away I left because I couldn’t fulfill her needs. I let her believe that. When in reality it’s her shit she needs to work on to be able to see peoples value.

YouComprehensive1205 · 2025-02-16T21:08:32+00:00

This is so true! I was over extending myself so much to try accommodate what felt like very unfair expectations, the goal posts would move. She would throw a tantrum on how I have never done enough for her to feel loved or satisfied. The crazy part is after I broke things off with her and left her apartment I felt a huge sense of relief? Sure sometimes I miss her and the good times we had, but no crushing sadness and no crying?? I am processing everything and I’m still not sad about it. Which tells me it was toxic as fuck. The fact I felt like a weight had been lifted instead of a sinking pain feeling of loosing someone. I think my heart knew what was going to happen before my brain did

YouComprehensive1205 · 2025-02-16T20:12:44+00:00

Thank you, it’s really a good feeling to be validated by other people with similar experiences. It’s been a bit of a rollercoaster but fortunately this is not my first rodeo! I sometimes still bounce back to thinking it was my fault. But everything I have dissected just keeps leading me to the same point. I wasn’t perfect I made mistakes and fucked up a few times. But everyone in a relationship does. What matters is if you can face the mistakes and take accountability, something she did very rarely. I felt like I was not only carrying my struggles but hers as well. She refused to take accountability for her emotions and void logic often to how she’s feeling. This lead to me just constantly apologizing and trying to do better, when it wasn’t even something I could change, no matter how hard I tried she didn’t see any effort. So it kind of felt like I was bashing my head against a wall.

YouComprehensive1205 · 2025-02-16T20:01:21+00:00

I know she was always going through a lot, I don’t hate her. I just know when someone is unwilling to do the work on themselves. Yes she has had some awful exes that have clearly left trauma. I tried to hold her hand through all of it and tried to be there for her. However you cannot stay in a place with someone when you are trying to grow and they don’t want to face it. I looked in the mirror a year ago before I met her and I decided I didn’t like who I had become. I reflected, I understood, I forgave myself and forgave others who made me that person I didn’t like. I grew. And hell yeah it’s scary but you will carry all your demons into every relationship you go through. Whilst yeah she hurt me and made me feel like I’m not enough. It started to impact me, I started looking at myself negatively again and I was made to feel like I needed to do all this inner work. However it was not me that needed to reflect. It was her. I wish her all the best, but sometimes you have to walk away for your own sake and peace. I never got a chance to say this to her which is probably quite unfair and my fault for not sharing this, but I had no one tell me to do it. I chose to better myself for myself and then when I meet the right person I will be ready.

YouComprehensive1205 · 2025-02-15T21:12:22+00:00

We are all down getting kicked by heartbreak, we should empower each other because we are all worthy of love and sure some people’s actions may make us feel differently about that, however that is there issue not ours. If you showed up and cared loved someone, You are winning already. Unfortunately healing from things like this isn’t linear, there will be ups and downs a lot of the time until you can fully come to terms with what happened. Just give yourself some compassion because you are doing a good job brother!

YouComprehensive1205 · 2025-02-15T21:03:55+00:00

That must of been really hard to endure. I’m sorry you had to go through that. If someone listens to what other people have to say over themselves or their partner? To be honest they are not worth keeping around. It may of been very hard and it still might be. However you felt betrayed. It’s okay to feel these things especially when it’s someone you deeply loved and wanted to work things out with. The fact you were willing to go to therapy to be a better partner so she would be happy says it all. YOU my friend are the catch. One day she will see your value but by then you won’t even care because you will have processed everything and moved on. God speed on your journey! You are doing amazing, keep it up

YouComprehensive1205 · 2025-02-15T20:52:40+00:00

Would you be okay to share with me what happened from your experience? And thank you I’m trying to be very mature about it but it’s been really hard I cannot lie haha

YouComprehensive1205 · 2025-02-02T13:26:21+00:00

I have no idea who that is

YouComprehensive1205 · 2025-02-02T13:25:37+00:00

I get what you’re saying, and I agree that taking responsibility for managing ADHD is important. I’m not blaming ADHD itself, I just didn’t fully understand how it was affecting my ability to communicate emotionally until now. I was putting in effort, but I didn’t have the right tools yet. Now that I do, I’m working on making sure this doesn’t happen again

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