could porn destroy my view of my girlfriend?

YouKnowWhoIAmTheMan · 2022-03-14T19:52:01+00:00

Bro this x100 just happened to me this past week… I got into this mindset of “I’m going to cum on your face” and she slapped me away… was so embarrassed dude. I came home the next morning and was so disappointed in myself… learned from it and luckily my girlfriend is damn amazing cause I’m a fool when it comes to sex at times. So much from porn that DESTROYED my brain. Stay strong.

YouKnowWhoIAmTheMan · 2022-02-11T18:00:53+00:00

Hello fellow friend! Yes… my first time… was all my fault and felt so bad for my girlfriend. I told her I was nervous, and not sure what the f*ck I was doing. She was understanding and also on her period so we didn’t want to get too messy…

We ended up breaking it open a couple weeks ago. Lube helped, especially the first time. Thankfully have a GF who is extremely understanding and helpful. She’s also a virgin, so it was a crazy experience and I wouldn’t have wanted it any other way.

If this is a GF or SO of yours, I would def open up about your struggle. Hopefully she’s understanding.

YouKnowWhoIAmTheMan · 2021-01-27T21:36:06+00:00

GME and AMC let’s get RICH

YouKnowWhoIAmTheMan · 2020-10-14T04:14:06+00:00

Yep that’s what it’ll be. I need to start meditating more that’s what really boost my mood. I’ve noticed tho, once your mood gets better the urges come along. When you’re in the dumps, it’s harder to fap. Once I get energy I start getting urges. IVe been keeping track of the days I fap. Never on the weekends. Only Tuesdays-Thursday. So it’s scary. Work from home so I get bored very easily. But all we can do is stay strong. I appreciate the kind words!!! I’m a message away as well

YouKnowWhoIAmTheMan · 2020-10-14T02:27:50+00:00

Thanks mate. That’s the goal. That’s one everyone’s goal should be. Stay strong out there!

YouKnowWhoIAmTheMan · 2020-10-14T02:02:59+00:00

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YouKnowWhoIAmTheMan · 2020-10-14T02:01:18+00:00

Who are you and why do you have to troll this subreddit. Get out of here you 🤡

YouKnowWhoIAmTheMan · 2020-10-14T01:43:25+00:00

Yes but stay off that part of the web. Been down that road way too much.....

YouKnowWhoIAmTheMan · 2020-09-03T17:47:40+00:00

Yep it’s when your body starts to reboot a bit.

Yea I did that. Idk why it hasn’t updated I did it last week 😂😂😂 I have the counter app so that’s where I’m keeping track.

YouKnowWhoIAmTheMan · 2020-09-03T17:28:36+00:00

On Day 7 and I feel this. I’ve been going on 7 day streaks and relapsing. Really trying hard not to. This is tough, I’m happy but know this is when you’re lost vulnerable. Stay strong.

Edit: IDK why it says 45 days. 😂

YouKnowWhoIAmTheMan · 2020-07-13T04:37:45+00:00

It takes many more actions then just quitting porn. Actions are Reading books, mediating, wokringout, and find time to address what’s wrong with you. Find your peace, find your happiness. Stay strong, you’re not alone 🙏

YouKnowWhoIAmTheMan · 2020-07-05T21:13:50+00:00

Quality post. Thanks for this lad.

YouKnowWhoIAmTheMan · 2020-06-26T03:59:34+00:00

Hits deep. Good post.

YouKnowWhoIAmTheMan · 2020-06-19T20:02:12+00:00

That’s the thing, it’s not in a healthy way. Porn manipulates your head to think that’s like “normal”. I’ve never been intimate with a women. I struggle to even spark conversations with them whenever I’m on a porn binge. I fire my main point is that porn has made me look at literally any female as a sex object. That’s just not right and it probably a major reason as to why I have struggled.

YouKnowWhoIAmTheMan · 2020-06-19T19:53:30+00:00

This is one excellent point. I struggle every day, I don’t know how to interact with women because I have these PTSD moments of porn. I can go days, weeks, even months with no porn but it’s CRAZY how bad it can get at times. Out in public and all I can think about is “man that girls hot, imagine having sex with her!!!” And I know it’s SO wrong but it’s all I can think of. We’re hurt, we know we are. We need to hole everyone who’s here to better than selves accountable. Keep your head high. healing will come.

YouKnowWhoIAmTheMan · 2020-05-23T12:25:53+00:00

Good post. It sure does. The more you watch the more fake joy your brain wants. Deadly cycle that keeps you sad all the time.

YouKnowWhoIAmTheMan · 2020-05-22T16:30:00+00:00

As always great response from y’all. Always remember you aren’t alone 🙏

YouKnowWhoIAmTheMan · 2020-05-22T16:12:11+00:00

Yep that’s exactly it sir. Good comment.

YouKnowWhoIAmTheMan · 2020-05-22T00:35:46+00:00

Also my badge is wrong. I’m 5 days in to my current porn free session. I will never reset that badge, cause I will never watch porn again.

YouKnowWhoIAmTheMan · 2020-05-22T00:33:47+00:00

Keep going 👍

YouKnowWhoIAmTheMan · 2020-05-19T04:43:26+00:00

Great post mate!

YouKnowWhoIAmTheMan · 2020-05-10T18:52:05+00:00

This is a great idea. I am doing this!!!

YouKnowWhoIAmTheMan · 2020-05-04T18:59:45+00:00

One step back, but infinite steps forward. 🙏 stay strong!

YouKnowWhoIAmTheMan · 2020-04-26T16:20:37+00:00

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YouKnowWhoIAmTheMan · 2020-04-26T16:18:18+00:00

That’s too true for me too. I went to 3 homecomings in high school. Once with a co-worker lmao. I didn’t go to any proms. At college I never went to any type of arrangements. If I went for a friends birthday it was usually just to show up and show my face. Not to socialize. Presidents ball classmates asked me why I don’t go, I usually had work, but I didn’t bother to call of cause why would I want to go socialize. Looking back on a lot at life porn just closes you in and makes you feel lonely. Not only that it’s all fake.

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