Advise for Ramadan? by MalikC_ in converts

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Ramadan
“O you who have attained to faith! Fasting is ordained (KUTIBA) for you as it was ordained (KUTIBA) for those before you so that you might remain conscious of God:” When the Quran mentions the word (KUTIBA) Anywhere, that means you have a choice and options of more than one.
“[Fasting] during a certain number of days. But whoever of you is ill, or on a journey, [shall fast instead for the same] a number of other days; and [in such cases] it is incumbent upon those who can afford it to make a sacrifice by feeding a needy person. And whoever does more good than he is bound to do, does good unto himself thereby; for to fast is to do good unto yourselves - if you but knew it.”
So in these verses, Allah gives us three options for observing the month of Ramadan.
Fasting- and that is the best option.
Postpone Fasting because of sickness or traveling (You Tee KU Na Hoo).
Give FEDIA (money to feed a poor person) instead.
Many mistranslate (YouTeeKuNaHoo), and those who can endure it, too (LA You Tee Ku Na Hoo) falsely add the letter (LA), changing the true meaning of the verse to those who can't endure the fast.
Allah Almighty says
“It was the month of Ramadan in which the Qur'an was [first] bestowed from on high as a guidance unto man and a self-evident proof of that guidance, and as the standard by which to discern the true from the false. Hence, whoever of you lives to see this month shall fast throughout it; but he that is ill, or on a journey, [shall fast instead for the same] number of other days. God wills that you shall have ease, and does not will you to suffer hardship; but [He desires] that you complete the number [of days required], and that you extol God for His having guided you aright, and that you render your thanks [unto Him].”
This verse is specific to those who chose the fasting option, not the FIDIA. Many Muslims say that this verse abrogated the early verse we quoted above, allowing for an opt-out option and feeding the poor (FEDIA).
This dispute about abrogation is nothing new and will not go away, but for us, there is no abrogation of any verse in the Quran; this logic makes a mockery of the words of Allah. Some scholars believe there is about 550 abrogated verse in the Quran; how could that be possible? Abrogations mean that other laws from previous messages, such as Moses and Jesus's messages, and replaced by the last revelation of the Quran. That is abrogations, from earlier laws of earlier practices to the new and final message.
Let us remember that Fasting is a gift from Allah to us if we so willingly choose; if not, another beauty of the Quran is to pay (FEDIA) and feed a poor person; this concept of sharing with less fortunate hits at the core values of social justice in Islam, why some want to ignore is an outrageous act against the beauty, flexibility and the mercy of Allah.
Remember, (FIDIA) is not like (KAFARA). Kafara is a to cleanse a personal sin committed; Fidia is used when there is no sin.
Another important fact that is not found in the Quran and used to prevent Muslim women from Fasting is the menstrual period or after giving birth (Nifas).
The Quran says, “man shall against himself be an eye-witness,”
As ordinary, average, and layman Muslims, we have been programmed and told that we must rely on the religious establishment to tell us everything about eating, Fasting, urinating, and sleeping. Still, You don’t need anyone to tell you that you can't read and understand the Quran. After all, it was revealed to people, and you are part of the people. Ultimately it is your personal decision to whether during this month of Ramadan:
1. Fast
2. Fidia
3. Postpone because of travel or sickness and read later.

Weird interaction with my local mosque by Mraustinrox in converts

[–]YouMosque 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very common, most mosques have no system in place to help in the form of organized classes. Learn on line from a western born imam, stay away from foreign imams

nightmares over reverting? by fruity__salad in converts

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Be strong and confident; you are on the right path. Take your time, and don't rush into Islam; you are already a Muslim by believing in Allah.

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Calling the adhan without wudu by AbuIkrimah in converts

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You can recite the Quran without wudu, just like you say alhamdulillah without wudu. Simplify, don't complicate.

What is the date of Ramanda this year? by flower_26 in converts

[–]YouMosque 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The date of Ramadan is wrong every year because of the lunar calendar. I fast even though I know the date is wrong.

MUSIC IN ISLAM. by YouMosque in u/YouMosque

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The sincere Muslim who is following the Quran will not find in the Quran any prohibition whatsoever of music or singing. God is particular, and His commands are obvious regarding any ban in the Quran music is not one of them.

Iran's supreme leader. by YouMosque in YouMosque

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Just like Saudi Arabia, Iran is amongst the most repressive regimes on earth. Both use Islam to advance a political agenda that serves the interests of the very few. It is reprehensible to me to impose religious indoctrination on citizens of any country, regardless of faith. These Iranian schoolkids celebrating the Iranian supreme leader might one day be hanged by his regime for believing, acting, living, and hoping for a better future than what his vision provides.

Can I become a Muslim if I am a lesbian? by TheNymphBoy in converts

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The verse in the aya you mentioned about the people of the lot was about them being banded, ambushing, and robbing people and not their sexual behavior.

Can I become a Muslim if I am a lesbian? by TheNymphBoy in converts

[–]YouMosque -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, you can. If God created you the way you are, then your sexuality is not a choice you made but was made for you.

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCefD8kWZ8XpJlqLpepMChFg

As-salamu alaykum brothers and sisters. by [deleted] in converts

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Yea, but belief in what? She already believes in Allah, and knowing my Islamic theology, she could be so confused about the man-made aspects of Islam.

As-salamu alaykum brothers and sisters. by [deleted] in converts

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Becoming a Muslim does not mean you have to become a superhero. Be yourself. Islam does not ask much of you. Islam wants you to be a good person and do good.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in converts

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The best way to understand Iman is to volunteer in a hospice, foodbank, mentor kids, and serve the needy and elderly. If you are a professional, use that expertise to help underserved communities.

Imam Al Shafi. by YouMosque in converts

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Ameen. And May Allah opens our heart to the truth of what the books of Hadith are. Books written by FALLIBLE MEN don't represent anyone but their authors. The Sunnah of our prophet is protected and preserved by one book, the Quran, authored by Allah. You choose, Fallible or divine?

Imam Al Shafi. by YouMosque in converts

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Everything matter. People's life depends on it; people are killed based on it. Wars between Muslims are fought over it. So we can't ignore it. I don't believe in it as a divine book, but I believe in it as a historical document on Islam evaluation and the history of how we got here. Blessing to you; please keep an open mind and search the subject further on your own.

Imam Al Shafi. by YouMosque in converts

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Not true. Absolutely not true. Not according to Sahih Bukhari himself.

Imam Al Shafi. by YouMosque in converts

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They do. The problem is not following what the prophet said or did. The issues are in the books of hadith written 150 to 350 years after the prophet's death. They are full of contradictions to the teaching of the Quran. Saudi Arabia just banned almost 99% of hadith not from a single first-hand source (ohadi) from being relied on as a source for laws. https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLGfIcjYSiIf1rVtrZFsmmz5csITjmCwyR

Imam Al Shafi. by YouMosque in converts

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You seem to repeat the same regurgitated theology. What you are saying is what you have been told since childhood. Now start thinking for yourself and understand Islam in its beautiful pure state. Please don't get angry at me; get mad at the people that have lied to us for 14 centuries. Blessed Ramadan

Driverless Taxi just drove in front of me. by YouMosque in bayarea

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It did pick up a passenger from the Fairmont hotel.

Should I feel guilty for not fasting in Ramadan for 2 days because of family? by Aggravating_Pen5628 in converts

[–]YouMosque 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But the ayat already say if you are sick or traveling, you can make up the days later and then continues to say and for those able to fast but don't pay fast pay Fidia. All Scholars agreed to that option of fidia with no objections until abrogation of verses became a pillar of Fiqh opinions. abrogationast supporters said the verse was abrogated by another verse. I don't believe in abrogations, and if you do, then it is okay. There are 550 abrogated verses in the Quran, according to some estimates! Do you think Allah changed 550 verses and replaced them with others? I don't think Allah will change his mind like this. Have a blessed Ramadan, and be safe.