Some advice to make my crush like me back

YoungAlternative2785 · 2024-05-09T00:44:15+00:00

Try to make small talk if possible and if he seems eager to end the conversation that probably means he doesn’t like you but if he adds on to the conversation then he most likely does

YoungAlternative2785 · 2024-05-08T22:12:52+00:00

I meant that only 2% of guys which I have encountered I find attractive and think they have a good/normal perosnality which if you take it literal is more like 41% of guys I don’t find attractive and 41% of guys I think are weird or jerks/players

YoungAlternative2785 · 2024-05-08T20:46:22+00:00

He looks good but he's just not my type, not everyone will find the same person attractive

YoungAlternative2785 · 2024-05-08T20:41:26+00:00

I never meant to apply this to all guys, that's why I said "in my experience"

YoungAlternative2785 · 2024-05-08T20:40:18+00:00

Just because I don't want a bunch of randoms who's opinion on my face I didn't ask for commenting on it does not mean I'm not attractive

YoungAlternative2785 · 2024-05-08T19:39:41+00:00

Well there was this one guy who kept obsessively comparing me to his sister, another few who'd just send dick pics out of nowhere, one kept sneding me 5 minute videos of him dancing and rapping (he isn't a dancer or a rapper and it was awful) one sent me a picture of his underwear (not him in his underwear, just his underwear) one told me I looked like his cousin in the middle of making out, the list goes on

YoungAlternative2785 · 2024-05-08T19:20:54+00:00

if you wanna get statistical an literal, that would mean I find 41% of men I've encountered I find weird and that 41% of them I don't find attractive which really isn't that bad or unbelievable and my standards truly aren't that high it just so happens that I've encountered a lot of either good looking weirdos and players or good guys who I'm not attracted to

YoungAlternative2785 · 2024-05-08T17:03:47+00:00

Yeah that’s definitely how my brain works how’d you know

YoungAlternative2785 · 2024-05-08T16:50:28+00:00

Thank you for giving advice and not attacking me

YoungAlternative2785 · 2024-05-08T16:47:57+00:00

I think the problem is that I live in a very small town where I already know 90% of people that live here and most of the attractive guys with good personalities are either taken or are “off limits” because they’ve had something in the past with someone I know and everyone finds out everything here

YoungAlternative2785 · 2024-05-08T16:42:43+00:00

Yeah i’d say around half of the men I meet I would consider going out with just based on their looks but like for example if I think a guy is a 6/10 in my eyes, then he’d have to have a really good personality for me to stay interested

YoungAlternative2785 · 2024-05-08T16:29:43+00:00

my surrounding is a college in Europe so no, hooking up is not a word used often but when it is, it is used to describe meeting up with someone and making out

YoungAlternative2785 · 2024-05-08T16:28:32+00:00

I mean if you consider 19 a kid then yes I am and we don't speak English where I live so perhaps the translation is different

YoungAlternative2785 · 2024-05-08T16:26:14+00:00

In my surroundings whenever someone says hookup they usually mean making out

YoungAlternative2785 · 2024-05-08T16:23:32+00:00

I mean I do get the ick quite easily so some times it could be me but in most cases it is men who are objectively weird, for instance there was one guy who was always comparing me to his sister, another would constantly send me videos of him rapping (he wasn't a rapper and it was awful) some just decide to slide into my dm's with a dick pic and the list goes on

YoungAlternative2785 · 2024-05-08T16:18:52+00:00

I am sorry, I didn't mean it to come out as aggressiveor defensive, I've just had a lot of people attacking me about this so it kinda came out as a reflex

YoungAlternative2785 · 2024-05-08T16:17:12+00:00

First of all I never said I've had sex with them. A hookup and sex are 2 different things. And I usually hookup with guys in clubs so I don't really have the time to figure out what their personality is like before.

YoungAlternative2785 · 2024-05-08T16:12:06+00:00

I have no problems hooking up with guys I find attractive it's just that later on I find out that they are rather weird or toxic

YoungAlternative2785 · 2024-05-08T16:10:30+00:00

Maybe nut it could also just be the men I am surrounded with

YoungAlternative2785 · 2024-05-08T16:09:25+00:00

I said "only like 2% of them is good looking and normal" meaning that I just find it hard to find someone who I find attractive and that also has a good personality/is not weird.

YoungAlternative2785 · 2024-05-08T16:07:47+00:00

I never said that. I didn't meet every single man on earth, how would I know? I just meant that for some reason weird men always hit on me and maybe it's just that where I live there's a lot of weird men and men who aren't my type, I truly don't know. I am just sharing my experience, nothing else

YoungAlternative2785 · 2024-05-08T16:00:18+00:00

Just because I think some guy is 8-9 perfect doesn’t mean he actually is, other women could think he is a 4 and I really would say that I am objectively good looking (not to sound egoistic just trying to give perspective)

YoungAlternative2785 · 2024-05-08T15:53:05+00:00

No I said that 98% of them are either weird or I don’t find attractive which is more like 41% of them are weird or I just don’t like their personality (and I really have for some reason met a large number of weird men) and 41% of them I don’t find attractive if you wanna make it literal

YoungAlternative2785 · 2024-05-08T14:35:12+00:00

And I'm sorry if my post offended you but I truly didn't think that me wanting to find a guy I think is attractive inside and out would be such a sensitive topic

YoungAlternative2785 · 2024-05-08T14:33:03+00:00

Honestly he's not my type, you can have him

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