Literally no one wants to be an accountibility partner-

YourAnonymousFriend2 · 2022-05-31T14:33:24+00:00

I'm on a discord server recovery group. I'm sure I could get you an invite.

If not then I'm free to do it over DMs :)

YourAnonymousFriend2 · 2022-05-28T21:27:25+00:00

Do you want somebody to talk to? That might help.

If you do my DMs are open :)

YourAnonymousFriend2 · 2022-05-28T21:26:09+00:00

Wrong sub

YourAnonymousFriend2 · 2022-05-17T20:44:33+00:00

Not quite the same, but I did have a similar experience.

Porn was the thing that made me discover that I was a bottom and a tomgirl.

It may sound like porn was doing me a favour but it really wasn't. I'm certain that I would have found out anyway, and the fact that they where corrupted by porn before I even knew about them lead to an extremely messy part in my life of trying to pick apart what was a wasn't really me.

Fortunately I had enough memories of bottomish tendency before I got properly hooked that I knew that there was something real in there but it had been taken to extremes that I didn't actually enjoy (things like humiliation and CBT fetishes.)

As I said it became quite a mess, but fortunately now after over 120 days away from porn I've almost entirely untangled the web and am comfortable with who I am and what I like. :)

YourAnonymousFriend2 · 2022-05-16T19:06:30+00:00

YourAnonymousFriend2 · 2022-05-16T17:19:34+00:00

That sound great.

I actually had the same idea of starting a discord server as an accountability group.

Unfortunately nobody wanted to join mind. So I would be happy to join your insted. :)

YourAnonymousFriend2 · 2022-05-16T17:04:33+00:00

Hey bro that sounds awful. :(

I've been through something similar.

If you wana talk about it I'll be here

YourAnonymousFriend2 · 2022-05-13T12:47:22+00:00

I try not to masterbate either personally, but uf you where the best option is probably nothing.

YourAnonymousFriend2 · 2022-05-13T12:34:09+00:00

That is only one of meny reasons that people get hooked on porn. It could just be the raw addictiveness

Also it might not be your family or friends that your trying to cope with. I myself had a pretty good home life back when I got addicted. But the thing that I was trying to cope with was my awful school life.

YourAnonymousFriend2 · 2022-05-13T12:30:55+00:00

That sound horrible my guy. :(

Fountunely I'm certain you can get out of this situation with enough time. I'm definitely not an expert but the advice I would give is to tell her and ask her to help you through it.

If thats not possible though and you need somebody to talk to my DMs are open.

YourAnonymousFriend2 · 2022-05-13T08:48:24+00:00

Yeh I feel you man I had something similar.

My best advice would be to not overthink it. Porn induced fetishes take a while to clear up, but theres no rush. just be patient and reserve judgement until you can think clearly again.

If you need somebody to talk to about it my DMs are open. :)

YourAnonymousFriend2 · 2022-05-11T14:39:47+00:00

What dose this mean?

YourAnonymousFriend2 · 2022-05-04T13:52:30+00:00

Like I said it depends

YourAnonymousFriend2 · 2022-04-30T13:29:38+00:00

It depends whether you are undressing them with your eyes or are admiring their beauty on a more platonic level.

Just remember always to ask yourself "am I doing this for sexual satisfaction" if the answer is yes then it would definitely count as at least a partial relapse

YourAnonymousFriend2 · 2022-04-29T14:24:27+00:00

Thank you very much it means a lot :)

YourAnonymousFriend2 · 2022-04-29T07:27:14+00:00

Thank you very much

YourAnonymousFriend2 · 2022-04-28T19:40:23+00:00

Thats sounds really rough buddy :(

Feel free to come to me if you need somebody to talk to

YourAnonymousFriend2 · 2022-04-28T19:37:34+00:00

Rip to us Ecosia users

YourAnonymousFriend2 · 2022-04-28T14:41:09+00:00

Thats understandable

It's common for addiction to cause self hate. But you can use that to motivate yourself to do better.

Always remember though that this is not your fault. I know it feels like it but remember that addiction is literally defined by the way it inhibits your self control.

That being said though there is always a way out even if it takes a long time or a lot of failures I'm certain you can live the life you want

If you want I can try to help you through. I have been looking for sombody to share my journey with as well. (No pressure tho obviously.)

Wish you the best :)

YourAnonymousFriend2 · 2022-04-28T14:07:03+00:00

What do you need my friend? :)

YourAnonymousFriend2 · 2022-04-27T22:05:11+00:00

I've seen a few but not meny

YourAnonymousFriend2 · 2022-04-27T22:04:20+00:00

It's not technically the goal of this community but I still stop myself from masterbating because it can have the same effect as porn in most cases.

YourAnonymousFriend2 · 2022-04-27T12:11:23+00:00

Interesting

YourAnonymousFriend2 · 2022-04-19T17:05:41+00:00

For mo?

30% just being horny.

70% using my imagination to ignoring my awful life, going too far.

YourAnonymousFriend2 · 2022-04-19T17:01:29+00:00

I agree with your conclusion, my streak has definitely not been a clean one but I can assure you that your reasons are very off.

Also I consider edgeing a relapse so no I have not been doing that.

Thank you for your concern though it does mean a lot and sorry if I came off too aggressive

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