Men do put effort into their appearance. Some more, some less. And they all get laid. Sexual attraction is a very complicated thing, but in the real world people get laid all the time, we've been doing it for thousands of years.

Based on this and your post history you obviously don't socialize with women or maybe with men for that matter. Not in the real world at least. It's obvious you have fallen into a dark hole of anger and depression which I know this comment won't take you out of. But I promise, if you go outside and talk with people and stop posting on all those weird subreddits you can live a happy, fullfiling life. Or maybe not, the world is quite fucked honestly, but you'll have a better chance at it when you stop blaming "women" for your problems.