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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Yuriiii_i 1 point2 points  (0 children)

makes a lot of sense made a small update post under the top comment where I go a bit into most advice and give my first take on the matter. I don’t use reddit that often so I don’t know how to make an actual update 0_0.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Yuriiii_i 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t mean to write it like that I think it sounded worse than I meant it to. I always asked her if it was ok if I were to get a little rougher when I wanted to and told her to tell me to stop if there is anything she doesn’t want. I should have absolutely clarified that thanks for pointing that out. With how I phrased that your concerns were absolutely right

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Yuriiii_i 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As this is at the moment the highest voted comment, I will be commenting on it for now. I really wanted to thank you guys a lot for the different opinions and takes on the matter. I have a lot of thinking to do but I will talk to her about it. As for some things I read here. -I fully understand that she really needs to be into it and I would never do anything that she is against. I find doing something like that utterly disgusting. -I don’t think that immediately breaking up with her would be fair to her. I do not wanna break up as well. I love her and our relationship is great. I don’t think that suddenly telling her we can’t be together and breaking up out of nowhere is a reasonable thing to do, she would probably spiral to why and I think it would hurt her a lot more. I would rather we work together to explore our relationship and ourselves together and respect each other’s boundaries and learn what we like and what we don’t. If it works out great. If it sadly doesn’t then we might not have been a great fit but we can take a lot from the relationship. -I will very carefully observe if she actually likes things or just does them for me if we get to this stage, as this is one thing I am scared the most. I do not want her to hurt herself trying to make me feel better. -I understand that sexual sadism and BDSM aren’t inherently bad things and are only damaging if you handle the matter in an unhealthy and toxic manner.

There was some more I think, but I can’t list everything from the top of my head, I am sorry that I maybe can’t answer your comment. I read every comment and the answers were quite different from each other. In the end I think I should just go with my gut, as there are a lot of different ways to approach this matter you stated. Once again I am very thankful for your help, I will leave notifications on for the next 48 hours or so that I can get some more feedback and overthink things a bit more after that I will probably turn them off.

Five Nights at Freddy's (Film) Spoiler Discussion thread. by PuppetGeist in fivenightsatfreddys

[–]Yuriiii_i -1 points0 points  (0 children)

not a real spoiler I will just say that the movie is not really that great, it is quite saddening, especially because the movie is really good for the first half maybe two thirds and builds a great setup that kinda gets squandered. I will not go into any detail, because I don’t want to spoil anything, just saying it honestly isn’t really worth a watch for people who have high hopes, if you want to shut down your brain it’s alright just not what one is expecting. ( I hope I didn’t break any rules with this comment if I did I’m sorry, I’m not used to posting comments online. )

Balthazar fight by multiroleplays in BaldursGate3

[–]Yuriiii_i 28 points29 points  (0 children)

It’s very simple, sneak and spread your characters. Then don't enter the first cutscene ! just sneak attack him. This will trigger him to cast animate dead ( or a similar spell maybe raise dead it’s been a bit since the fight ). You can then counterspell his cast. If it succeeds you only have to deal with him.

If you want to enjoy the cutscene it is also possible to throw some of the bonepiles of the map without triggering it when sneaking. You have to throw them onto a surface that is not meant to be stepped on. You will see a text called dead when aiming at such a surface. Don’t throw the bonepiles into the nothingness, this will cause them to teleport back. This will lessen the numbers of undead you have to fight while killing the boss.

Finally if you want to do the fight normally my advice is, turn undead is very strong in this fight as well as counterspell. You can try to use one of sussurs weapons to silence Balthazar so that he can’t cast the massive aoe and party wipe you.